Modestly Returning …

Firstly I wanted to say thank you so much for all the wonderful emails and texts enquiring after my health and well-being, since I rather abruptly ceased posting here at the beginning of Autumn 2023.

I hope you all received my personal replies, but just in case some went missing in the ether, I can’t thank you all enough. It was truly heart-warming to have received so many lovely words and messages … and, as I said I hoped I would be … I am now back. Perhaps with not as much frequency as previously, but still I hope with as much enthusiasm to promote body positive and sex positive issues as before. Especially of course, for those of us who have reached that “more mature” stage of our lives.

And … for those of you who may not have received my personal “email update reply” … or are finding me here for the first time … the reason(s) for my 8 month disappearance was a combination of family ill-health issues (not mine or Hubby), and re-settling into a new life far from our family home of over 30 years in London.

So, yes both Hubby and I are healthy and well … and finally beginning to re-invigorate ourselves in our new environment … and looking forward to many more years of fun and sexcitement !!!

So I hope you will join us here in our further adventures in the coming months and years.

Unfortunately, much of our content here at Modesty Ablaze was corrupted and lost during our “move” … including all postings after December 2021 and many of the links, and photo-galleries, throughout my pages here have also been lost and broken.

Hubby will slowly be working through the pages and links to try to “restore and repair” as much as is possible … but in the meantime I hope you will enjoy the new content, both words and photos!!!

And, as always, please do let me know of any questions or requests, from the comments section … or from myContactpage links.

Xxx – K

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Cradled #boobday 242

Malimi 2 Boobday 242

I’m delighted to welcome back the amazing Lady M of lovely Canadian couple Malimi to share another of her beautiful #boobday photos here.

I know so many of you enjoyed herLakeposting here two weeks ago … and I’m hoping she will continue to join me here for many more occasions in the coming months.

In the meantime I really do recommend you explore some of their intimate and fun videos from their MLNP profile and lots of #TittyTuesday postings on their Twitter account.

So … what better way to welcome in 2022. I wish you all a happy, fun, and of course … sexy … New Years Eve, and a healthy 2022.

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, and I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 240 BoobDays now, you may
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Xxx – K

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Modest Milestones #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze Masked Chair John Tisbury

I have mentioned on many occasions in the past that Marie Rebelle’s wonderful Wicked Wednesday was one of the very first “lifestyle” blogs that I discovered, and subsequently subscribed to, on the internet.

Marie’s writings and photos were instrumental in inspiring and motivating me to first embark on my own blog-journey all those years ago. And whilst I had already begun my Modesty Ablaze Diaries of a London Hotwife project, I am certain that without Wicked Wednesday there would be no modestyablaze dot com blog.

So, how could I possibly not join-in to celebrate Marie’s wonderful achievement of 500 Wicked Wednesdays!!!

And for this amazing 500th edition, Marie’s prompt is “to share the ten best posts from the beginning of your own blog”.

But despite having lots of fun … and some lovely memories … in scrolling back through my modest archives, I couldn’t really choose any specific bests or favourites. So instead, I thought that I would list five particular posts that marked quite special, or important, moments at the time I first posted them.

So …


Modesty Ablaze Tisbury Chair

Past, present & why I blog #wickedwednesday – July 2014
Because although I started my Modesty Ablaze Diaries really just on a whim . . . as a bit of a joke, almost a sort-of “I could do that” dare in a way . . . the website quickly became something much more important than a joke or a dare.
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Modestly Why ? @F4TFriday – August 2019

Modesty Ablaze Rocks

So . . . being a more “visual” person, rather than being able to easily communicate my thoughts in words . . . I hope that my occasional photo-posts here express my core belief that above all else, we should always be true to ourselves . . . and always be just who we want to be !!!

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Modesty Ablaze and the #realworldsex videos @MakeLoveNotPorn.tv – April 2014

Modesty Ablaze MakeLoveNotPorn 2014 Cover

That is the thing about MakeLoveNotPorn . . . Real People doing different things and enjoying it so much that they want to share their fun and inspire others to do the same!!!


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Modesty Ablaze Thomas Galley Review April 2016

Je vous remercie La Bauge littéraire – April 2016
It’s always very nice when someone says flattering things about you, especially so when those words come from someone with similar interests . . . in this case erotic literature . . . and even more so from someone for whom English is not their native language.
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Modesty Flying the Flag . . . Two for One #sinfulsunday & #scavengerhunt 11 – March 2014

Modesty Ablaze and Curvaceous Dee

Absolutely delighted to meet up with the wonderful, deliciously exciting Curvaceous Dee (first curator of my beloved Scavenger Hunt) for a naughty . . . and wickedly fun . . . Two-For-One flagpole #scavengerhunt flash.
I hope it brings as much of a smile to your face viewing it, as it did for Hubby and I to be actually meeting and sharing Dee’s company.

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For next week’s Wicked Wednesday I hope to add five more recent posts that, for one reason or another, marked special fun moments for me here at modestyablaze.com … but, in the meantime, I do recommend clicking on Marie’s rainbow below for lots more celebrations of over Nine Years of Wicked Wednesday!!!

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NB: My masked chair image above taken by the wonderful John Tisbury.

Xxx- K

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Modest Christmas Kisses 2021 #sinfulsunday #polaroidspast

Modest Christmas 2021

You will know of course, that I always do things modestly … modest gifts, modest tree … even back in 1985 (below).

Modest Christmas Wishes 1985

Sending you all Christmas Kisses and Best Wishes for a Healthy, Happy, Peaceful … and Fun … Festive Season!!!

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Be Proud of Who You Were . . . and Be Proud of Who
You Have Become!

Join me at #polaroidspast and my Polaroids Past slideshow.

Xxx – K

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Modest Christmas Lights #BoobDay 241

Boobday Christmas Lights 241

Thank you for all the wonderful messages about last week’s Boobday guest-post from the lovely Malimi … and yes I am happy to say there will be more from that lovely lady to come!!!

In the meantime I’d like to wish you all a Healthy, Peaceful, Happy and Fun Festive Holiday.

And as this will be my last posting for a few days, I’d particularly like to thank all of my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Members for all your support and messages throughout the year. For one reason and another, I didn’t have the opportunity for a second mid-month update as I’d hoped … but I promise some special fun uploads in the coming weeks, when I will also be selecting this months special Free-Fans subscription winner!!!

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, and I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 240 BoobDays now, you may
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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Holiday 2021 Special Foot Massage” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

2021 Special Foot Massage One

Welcome to my 93rd MakeLoveNotPorn #realworldsex video “Holiday 2021 Special Foot Massage”.

I know I have already uploaded some short fun clips from this Summer, here on my blog … and on several of my Fans pages … but I’m delighted to finally publish this first full-length Holiday video on MakeLoveNotPorn.

But … I must tell you that this video comes with a Content Advisory Warning. No, not for anything extreme or violent, but because it may just be for Foot Fetishists only!

But although there is no actual “sex” as such, it definitely is #realworldsex because I just LOVE having my feet massaged. Especially when I’ve been at the beach all day!

2021 Special Foot Massage Two

So here I am sitting out on our balcony and having Hubby give my feet a relaxing massage … and, as always for me, I find it quite arousing … as does he quite obviously, as you will see when my toes give him a nice reward for his massage skills at the end!

Oh, and I should also warn you that there is quite a lot of background noise as new guests suddenly arrived and began to rather loudly avail themselves of the pool beneath our balcony.

But, whether you are fellow footworshippers or not, I still hope you will all enjoy this, my 93rd video at my MakeLoveNotPorn pages.

You can view my introduction to “Holiday 2021 Special Foot Massage” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no, it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

Holiday 2021 Special Foot Massage  is my 93rd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to cum soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

The lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn have labelled
Holiday 2021 Special Foot Massage with tags such as:

#british #relaxing #playful #loving #communicative #footsy

So . . . I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what they mean.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my Ninety Three #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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To Give and To Receive #sinfulsunday

Modestly Giving and Receiving

To give … and to receive … is a wonderfully fulfilling and blessed emotion to share at any time of the year isn’t it!

Wishing all of you … from all of me … a blessed and loving celebration for this time next weekend!!!

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Xxx – K

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The Lake #BoobDay 240

Malimi 01 Lake 240

If you are a regular visitor here … and I hope you are … you will know how much I enjoy the #realworldsex videos at MakeLoveNotPorn. And one of the most active couples on MLNP are the lovely Malimi.

And after enjoying some of their intimate and fun videos from their MLNP profile I quickly became entranced by their #TittyTuesday postings on their Twitter account.

So … I simply had to ask if they would mind me sharing some of those wonderful photos here at my Boobday posts every Friday. And I was delighted for me … and for YOU all … when they said “yes” and sent me this gorgeous photo and caption.

“During the heat wave on our nightly paddle, we got to our secret spot and Lady M was happy to shed her top and enjoy the summer breeze caressing her skin.”

I’m hoping that they will allow me to share more of these beautiful photos here in the future. And I urge you to explore their wonderful videos at MLNP from: Malimi and enjoy their Tweets at @Malimi17282259

BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women.
Basically, if you want to celebrate the beauty of boobs and join in with like-minded, body-positive, people who are embracing their curves or lack thereof, this is the link-up for you!

Thank you for all your messages about my BoobDay postings. Do let me know if you would like to join-in and add some BoobDay celebrations of your own, and I would be delighted to add your own photos to my pages here!!!

And . . . if you would like to see more of my, over 230 BoobDays now, you may
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Xxx – K

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Pour Me More – December 2021 Members Update Video #PMAGW

Wet Tshirt Cover Dec21

My first mid-month Pour Me A Glass Members Video update for December is a Custom Video I filmed whilst on holiday in August.

I love receiving Custom Video requests of course … and I’ve often been asked for “Wet T-shirt” videos (and photos) … but usually after I’ve returned from our holiday island and have been posting some of my new Beach Holiday clips.

Now … I rarely wear any clothes at all on my Summer Holidays … but this year, remembering those requests from previous years, I decided ahead-of-time to add it to the list of “must-do” clips when I was planning this year’s trip.

I don’t keep my T-shirt on for long of course, but I hope you will all enjoy it just the same … especially new Subscribers who have recently joined my Pour Me A Glass Members pages here and who may not have seen previous years holiday clips.

Oh, and speaking of new members, I am now selecting one lucky new subscriber each month and sending them a code for a one month’s free subscription to one of my other Fans sites to which I post almost daily-updates of “catch- up” short preview clips and photo excerpts from my fun-archives over the past decade. So … apart from all the other fun benefits for Subscribers, that is now even more reason to join me here at my Pour Me A Glass of Wine Members pages.

**NB: The content on my Pour Me A Glass Members page normally features videos and photos not yet shared … or perhaps too “private and candid” … for any of my other media platforms.

P.s. – Just a reminder for returning subscribers … and those new members who have joined me here during the past few weeks … my hosting server has recently been upgraded which has allowed me to keep more of my previous Members Videos live on my page for longer. And with faster streaming speeds too!!!
Just scroll down to the foot of the Members Page for a list of links.


So thank you all once again for spoiling me here and helping me to keep my wine glass full.

I do hope you will all enjoy this month’s Members Videos, and Photo Gallery … and let me know your own suggestions, for new clips or photos you would like to see in the future from the comments box at the foot of THIS post, or by emailing directly if you prefer.

If you are already a “Pour Me A Glass” Member, just log-in with your
New Password . . . >here< . . . or, if you are not a member, there is more information on how to subscribe from the link at the foot of each of my posts, or from >here<.

Bye for now !!!

P.s. – You can listen to my Audio-Modcast from November by tapping on the “Play” arrow below … and you know how much I enjoy to “play” don’t you!

Xxx – K

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Lifesaver Revisited 2021 #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Lifesaver 2021 One

When we first visited this particular spot back in 2014 it was a lovely sunny day and the water was as still as a mill-pond. But on the day we visited this summer it suddenly turned quite stormy just after we arrived.

Modesty Ablaze Lifesaver 2021 Two

And then to make matters even more disappointing, a large delivery truck appeared out of nowhere … reversing along the road to stop right behind me … so my lifeguard duties had to be quickly curtailed.

But I intend to spend more time scanning this week’s Sinful Sunday. Tap the lips below to join me!

Sinful Sunday

I included my visit in 2014 to my Naughty Scavenger Hunt pages … but still of course just have to add this year’s to all my other re-visits at my Exposé Vŭ memories page below.

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Xxx – K

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