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Modesty’s Bannister #Boobday Friday


Do you ever think that bannisters can be quite . . . well you know . . . phallic ???

I know I sometimes do . . . well quite often actually!!!

But I shouldn’t be dwelling on “those” sort of shapes this morning . . . after all
it is a Friday. And Friday’s are all about celebrating Hyacinth’s #Boobday Friday, because as Hy says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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Modesty Ablaze reviews the Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt from @UberKinky


We all enjoy having new additions to our wardrobes occasionally don’t we . . . well, actually not just occasionally for me, I enjoy new additions all the time!!!

Because new clothes always make one feel special, and sexy . . . and this lovely new Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt certainly makes me feel like that, and has quickly become one of my favourites when opening my wardrobe for a kinky evening out.


It arrived from my favourite on-line Kink store, Uberkinky, a few weeks ago and I was instantly captivated by the naughty, open-back look . . . and feel . . . as I slid it on.   It felt just lovely, sexy and clingy without being tight or uncomfortable. In fact the fit was absolutely perfect and the front zip fastening makes it so quick and simple to put on . . . and to take off  LOL!!!

The double-stitched shiny PVC waistband is 2¼ inches wide and adds a stylish look to the trim, whilst the skirt itself is made from that lovely polyester-spandex-type material which seems to just stretch and cling in all the right places, complimenting one’s curves rather than squeezing them tightly and making my bumps too obvious. I like wearing tight rubber and latex, but often feel my curves are being pushed and squeezed out of shape. But this skirt just feels so comfortable and shapely to wear and I’ve always, ALWAYS got such lovely comments whenever I’ve worn it.

But, of course, a lot of those lovely comments are about the look when I turn-around because, this Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt has the most wonderfully naughty open-back to show off one’s bottom. The open-cut shape just seems to perfectly accommodate my cheeks. It’s almost as though that “handmade” feature was in fact made-to-measure . . . but I’m sure that’s just because of the way the material stretches and clings so naturally.


The skirt arrives with the three removeable straps attached of course. They are secured in place with popper studs on each side of the perfectly hemmed “openness”. The straps are each 1¼ inches wide . . . my “modesty straps” I call them . . . and are spaced equally apart to allow for teasing and tantalising glimpses of lots of one’s bare bottom. And, should you decide to display even more bare skin, as I have on the several occasions I’ve worn them out, the straps are easily and effortlessly detached from their studs.


I’ve started my evening with the straps on, and then as I’ve become a little more daring (naughty???), I’ve discretely removed them and popped them into my handbag. Perhaps starting out by leaving just the middle one attached . . . and then, later in the evening, removing that one too!


And I can certainly tell you I’ve then had even more attention . . . and nice comments . . . as the evening has gone on!!!

The whole skirt is so lovely and light, that it can be easily folded and carried in your bag if you’re travelling to a club or event and planning to change on arrival, and you prefer not to wear it on the way there!

The skirt is supplied with a complete spare set of studs, and another thoughtful and lovely touch, are the hanger-loops stitched into the PVC waistband. In fact the quality and whole “feel” of this lovely skirt is just wonderful, and the sizing chart . . . available from the product-link below . . . offers one of the most comprehensive and descriptive size ranges I’ve ever come across.

So, needless to say, I shall definitely be adding more from the Noir Handmade range. And if you are looking for some new stylish, sexy . . . and kinky . . . apparel for yourself, or your kinky partner in fact, . . . I suggest you make the Noir Handmade page at Uberkinky >here< your very next click!!!

The Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt with Open Back and PVC Details:
Modesty Rating:
 10 out of 10
Pros: Stylish, sexy, slinky, sexy, kinky. Lovely to feel and wear, curve-hugging but in just the “right” way. Lovely quality stitching. Oh . . . and did I say “sexy”!!!
Cons: I’ve been having too much fun wearing it to notice any.
Material: Polyester Spandex (elastane) skirt with PVC trim and detail.
Sizing: Available from X-Small to 10XL (see the sizing chart from the product link below!).
Colour: Black.
After-care: Handwash separately in cold water.
Supplier Product Link: Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt with Open Back and PVC Details
More from Noir at Uberkinky: Noir Handmade
The Modesty Video Review: Now you are being naughty! But ask me nicely and you just never know!


The Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.


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A Modest Morning Workout . . . #Boobday Friday


Sometimes I just have to force myself, to wake-up ten minutes earlier than normal, for a quick morning work-out.

Though I normally end up thinking that this type of “morning work-out” is
not as much fun as many that I’ve enjoyed in the past!!!

For more morning boobs on display this #Boobday Friday, just flex Hyacinth’s cleavage below, because as she says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


Filed under #boobday, Boobday Friday, womens Erotica

Nominate your Top Sex Blogs of 2016


Every year around this time, nominations open for the annual Top 100 Sex Bloggers List. I believe this will be the eighth year of the lists existence . . . and it has become something I so look forward to scrolling through every year, to discover new gems of excitement, education and, of course, stimulation!!!

Now of course, lists, recommendations and compilations are always subjective aren’t they? What appeals to one person may be of no interest at all to another. But to me what is so important about the Top 100 Sex Bloggers List is that it is the perfect starting point for discovering a hugely diverse and entertaining group of people discussing, promoting, and most importantly in my view, celebrating  one’s sexuality in a way that it is never, ever approached in mainstream media.

And that is important in enlightening, educating and helping to hopefully remove all of the stigma, shame and guilt from what is, after all, the most basic and empowering . . . and exciting . . . of all of one’s natural emotions and instincts.

But enough of the preaching and finger-shaking from me . . . because none of us like too much of that do we? (Depends exactly where the finger is shaking actually!!!)

I will let the wonderfully remarkable, curator-supreme, Molly, explain the history and ethos of the list >herewith< but I really, really urge and encourage you all to scroll through the names, and links, of those blogs already listed . . . and investigate as many as you can . . . because I am sure you will find lots and lots of fun reading and, as I mentioned earlier, lots of enlightenment and stimulation!

And we all need more fun and enlightenment and stimulation in our lives from time-to-time don’t we???

Xxx – K


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Modestly Yawning #Boobday Friday


As the mornings are getting colder, so it’s becoming more and more difficult to get up for the commute into the office.

Especially after waking from wonderfully sleepy . . . and naughty . . . dreams beneath the covers!!!

For more morning boobs to wake up to this #Boobday Friday, just kiss Hyacinth’s cleavage below, because as she says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


Filed under #boobday, Boobday Friday, womens Erotica

A Modest Quickie #wickedwednesday

I’ve always enjoyed reading erotic stories . . . for as long as I can remember . . . it was always the “naughty books” that interested me much more than the sort of books I was always told I “should be reading”.

But as much as I loved to read . . . I could never write a story. An essay assignment at school was always my worst nightmare! I’d stare at a blank sheet of paper, praying for inspiration and words to appear, whilst all around me I could hear my classmates scribbling furiously into their exercise books!

FurtherCover400Aug2916But diaries? Well that was another matter. A diary was real . . . things that had happened, things that whilst I didn’t necessarily want to share (certainly NOT with my parents or family!!!) . . . for some strange, compelling . . . thrilling? . . . reason, they were things that somehow just seemed to write themselves. Often just dates and names (LOL!!!), scrawled code-words, filling pages of those little soft-covered (usually pink!!!) diary books one always seemed to be given for Christmas and Birthdays.

And the fact that I never stopped, is what . . . eventually . . . led me to be here at Modesty Ablaze Dot Com. And, after publishing my first few diary extracts here on-line, I was astounded to suddenly start receiving lots of emails suggesting I should turn them into Ebooks as well. So, over the course of the next few months I uploaded five short-diary compilations from my E-books page . . . and was part-way through compiling a sixth (“Further Adventures”) when I stopped.

Why? Well mainly because I it was just so difficult finding the time to put them together actually . . . I was too busy enjoying “new diary entries” !!!

But I do keep receiving nice messages of encouragement asking for more, so this week’s Wicked Wednesday theme of “Dear Diary” has spurred me into including one of the chapters of “Further Adventures” below. And you never know, perhaps I will . . . one day . . . find that my “new diary entries” have slowed down enough for me to find the time to complete that sixth compilation!!!

Morning Quickie . . .

One of the benefits of having a lover who is self-employed and has his own office, is that we can often meet at short-notice and on a spur-of-the-moment whim or tease.

That is exactly what happened when Lover Two called me on my way into work on Monday. He wanted to meet up sometime this week for a meal and night out but I was already committed to other (boring) things on both of the nights that he was suggesting. He teasingly said “Ok, how about coming round to the office now. I’ll switch off the phones for an hour”.

Although I much prefer a hotel room and a longer more leisurely evening, we’d had similar “quickies” in his office before, and there’s something that I must admit I do find quite thrilling and risque about occasionally letting myself go in those sort of circumstances. I told him I’d pop round “just for a little kiss and cuddle” then.

I rang into work to tell my colleagues I’d been delayed and would be an hour or so late, and quickly changed lines a few stops later. Hurrying through the rest of the tube-commuters I already felt quite excited by my “naughtiness” as the rest of the crowd were all scurrying off to their work, I was scurrying off for something entirely different! I thought about texting hubby as I exited the underground, but a taxi was right there, and it was only a short journey to Lover Two’s office . . . and the cabby was full of chat and distracting, so hubby would have to wait. It would be a nice surprise for him when he got home that night!

Lover Two met me at the main doors and led me upstairs to his office. We’d used his sofa on a few occasions before, but it still felt different and “dirty” and “exciting”. We fumbled and caressed and kissed and unclipped and unzipped each other. He pulled my knickers off completely and threw them across the room behind us. His cock was almost bursting out of his pants as I pulled and worked it free. The passion was actually quite overwhelming and I actually came in just a few minutes, just from his fingers sliding in and out of me and his lips sucking and scraping at my breasts which he’d freed from my bra and unbuttoned blouse.

I lay back on the sofa whilst he stood and slid off his trousers and pants, and thankfully his shoes and socks. I started to pull at my skirt, lifting my hips so that he could pull it off me, but he told me he wanted me to keep it on, and my hold-ups. He told me to turn over on my tummy and brought my knees down onto the floor so that I was actually leaning forward onto the seat of the sofa. I felt him kneeling down behind me and spreading my cheeks apart. Then I felt him pushing into me. “You’re always so wet” he was whispering into my ear. “I love it, I love you filling my juicy cunt” I groaned in response. I know he loves hearing me talk this way to him . . . and I do so love “talking dirty” when I’m really in the mood.

He was only pumping for a few minutes, and I could tell from his breathing getting louder and quicker that he was going to come. He was holding each of my hips and thrusting vigorously . . . but he knows I don’t like him coming inside. He pulled out and spun me round by my shoulders, stepping over me and pushing his erection towards my face. I leant forward and swallowed him into my mouth. He was gasping and groaning and holding my head tightly against him. I heard, and then felt him coming, swallowing it down as he continued holding my head. I knew he wouldn’t release until he’d finished his shuddering . . . finally pulling away and lifting me up to my feet. “God that was so nice” he said. Our tongues swirled in each others mouths as we kissed and clung to each other. Finally pulling away from each other we started to regain our composure. He pulled his pants and trousers back on and sat down on the sofa to put his shoes and socks back on. I’d re-adjusted my bra and skirt and started searching for my knickers behind the sofa. He found them first “let me keep them!” he teased, dodging my thrusts as I tried to get them back. “You could go commando all day” he laughed. I told him that would be very naughty and very horny, but I’d probably end up “dribbling, and that wouldn’t be comfortable”.

He called me a taxi . . . I was only going to be an hour and a half late for work . . . as I walked up the stairs to my own office I tried to compose myself and appear as normal as I could. But I couldn’t stop thinking about such an exciting start to the week, and couldn’t wait until I could tell hubby about it when he got home, and, yes, I WAS dribbling during the day.

So . . . if you’ve got down this far . . . you are sure to find lot’s more
“Dear Diary” Confessions
from tapping on the button below!


Xxx – K


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Modesty Ablaze “Forbidden Pleasures Part 1” video


“Forbidden Pleasures – Part 1” is my newest #realworldsex video from a simply amazing evening Hubby and I recently shared with our favourite kinky-friend Lover No.14.

Starting, as it always does with No.14, with a little rope play, things then got very, very wet as No.14’s fingers . . . and thumbs . . . had me squirting through orgasm after orgasm. So much so that I was completely saturated . . . as were the bedsheets!!!

And with my hands tied behind my head I couldn’t resist . . . not that I wanted to . . . as I was turned over onto my tummy for even more pulsing and exhausting climaxes!

Now, if you watch my introductory video from the screen picture above, you will hear me mentioning lots of other fun bits of our “Forbidden Pleasures” too.
But . . . in the interests of complete transparency (you know me!) I have to tell you that I obviously got quite carried away (you know me!) as I was chattering through my introduction and remembering all those fun things from the evening, because . . . some of them are not actually featured until “Part 2”.
But that will just give you something else to look forward to won’t it ???

Anyway, back to that first part of our evening together, recently previewed “Forbidden Pleasures Part 1” as:

When Modesty Ablaze, hubby, and lover no. 14 get together, you know it’s just going to be a simply amazing time. Quickly melting into a puddle of pleasure (both literally and figuratively), Modesty allows lover no. 14’s skillful hands do all the “work” while she enjoys waves of #realworldpleasure. Featuring a rope-a-licious “bikini top” and some slippery toytime, nothing beats Modesty’s laughing #realworldorgasms!!

You can view my short introduction to “Forbidden Pleasures Part 1” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . . . . and, as I mention in that video, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction.


There lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Forbidden Pleasures Part 1” is my 29th video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my twenty-nine #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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I really do hope you get as much fun . . . and arousal . . . from viewing “Forbidden Pleasures Part 1” as I . . . obviously . . . had making it!!!

Xxx – K

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Modest Date Night #sinfulsunday

I’m just on my way out for a Sinful Saturday date night this evening,
and I always hope to make an impression . . . from the moment I arrive . . .


. . . to the moment I leave !!!


. . . and, of course, for all of the moments in-between !!!

See who else is having Sinful fun this weekend by smacking the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Modest Weights #wickedwednesday


I always try to keep up with some form of exercise every morning.

Whether it’s a brisk walk into work, or perhaps a slightly more relaxing wake-up workout . . . or perhaps, as on this #wickedwednesday morning,
a few minutes of weights and squats!!!

You will find lots more information about different forms of “Weight” by tapping Marie’s #wickedwednesday button below!


Xxx – K


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Modest Jewels #sinfulsunday


It has been such a sinfully busy week . . . well two weeks actually . . . and yes,
the evidence will possibly be posted here soon-ish. LOL!
And I am just rushing out again this morning for more!!!

But I thought I would pause to show you the modest jewels I have just put on for my journey. I’m sure they will be appreciated . . . and sinfully removed . . . later on this afternoon!!!

And I am also sure that you will be able to appreciate lots and lots more
sinful toys and accessories at this week’s Sinful Sunday from gently
touching the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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