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Modestly In2mate . . . because today is National Orgasm Day

As you may have noticed from my posts during this past week, I’m only just back from my (wonderful!) summer hols and am still catching-up on my inbox.

But today, Monday July 31st, is National Orgasm Day . . . so I could hardly let a day celebrating one of my favourite pastimes go without a mention could I ???

And one of several messages mentioning National Orgasm Day, to have arrived in my inbox whilst I was away, which really caught my eye was a post about a NEW intimate skincare range.

It caught my eye because as I said in my Modest Lubrications post last March, I’ve found that as I’ve “matured” over the past few years, I really do need more lubrication than I used to. It’s just a natural consequence of growing a little older of course. The desire is still there . . . but as our bodies change, particularly through menopause, we produce less natural juices.

Now, I haven’t had the opportunity to personally try any of the In2mate products yet but having read the details below, I certainly intend to over the next few weeks. I will of course report back here then, but in the meantime I think today is the perfect time to re-post the information I received about In2mate.

In2mate is a NEW intimate skincare range with almost 100% natural ingredients to help rejuvenate, repair, detoxify and lubricate vaginal skin.


Vaginal skin is affected by age like any other area of skin on the body. It receives a high level of wear and tear due to sex, childbirth and tampons, so it’s even more important to preserve skin in this delicate area, and for this, antioxidants are key.

In2mate products are among the first to contain a patented antioxidant called PROTEOLEA® which has been proven to help rejuvenate delicate areas of skin by slowing down age-related oxidised cellular waste degradation, by optimising cellular recycling. This process helps improve flexibility and moisturisation for a more radiant appearance and healthier feel.


Healthy bacterial balance in the vagina is crucial for maintaining good vaginal health. The humid and airless environment of the vagina combined with sexual activity, makes for an ideal place for the breeding of bad bacteria and fungus.

In2mate skincare contains a patented probiotic Biolin®, proven to help increase the good flora in the vagina while inhibiting the growth of bad vaginal bacteria that can lead to bacterial vaginitis, thrush and other l infections and imbalances.

Biolin® also repairs and strengthens vaginal skin damaged by age-related thinning, chafing and abrasions.

In2mate products also contain Jujube extract, a natural wound healing tonic for helping to repair and strengthen damaged skin.


The vagina is particularly vulnerable to bad bacteria and so extra defences against toxic build up help protect the vagina from infections.

In2mate products contain Oleuropein, a mild and natural anti-bacterial and detoxifying plant polyphenol, derived from olive trees. Suitable for vaginal skin, it helps shield against the build-up of bad bacteria and also detoxifies vaginal skin leaving it cleaner and purer.


All skin loses moisture with age, but in particular the thin vaginal skin begins to lose moisture when female sex hormones begin to deplete in the run up to the menopause.

In2mate products contain Levan, a natural plant fructose that protects plants against damage from frost and drought by locking in moisture via the formation of a natural micro film over the plant’s surface. Used on the skin it does the same thing, helping lock in moisture and giving skin a smoother more slippery feel.

The right pH?

In2mate products keep the vagina at a pH of 4.5 or below. Normal skin is not as acidic as the vagina. Any product whether it’s a moisturiser, lubricant or wash will also be in contact with skin near the vagina. So In2mate have struck a healthy balance between the skin around the vagina and the tissue within. 4.5 is the perfect pH ‘balance’ because it’s not too high for the vagina and not too low for the skin.

The In2mate skincare range is over 99% natural and includes a gentle, non-perfumed intimate wash, a light non-sticky non-perfumed intimate moisturiser and a natural-feeling non-perfumed rejuvenating lubricant.

The In2mate complete skincare range costs £19.95 (or each item can be bought individually). Visit:

There are no affiliate links used within this review.

And, as I say I will report back here on my own personal experience of the In2Mate Skincare range just as soon as I can.

Xxx – K

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A Modest 35 #sinfulsunday

Thirty-five today” I said warmly.

“Thirty-five what?” he teased.

Thirty-five years!!!” I repeated. “You’d better not have forgotten!”

“Course not” he tremored.

“All that time together . . . Bound!” I said.

“Tied!” he nodded.

“You’ll be tied alright, if you have forgotten to get me something
very special!” I said.

“Tightly???” he asked.

“Trussed!” I hissed. “Tightly trussed!!!”

“I haven’t forgotten” he laughed. “You’ll just have to wait until tomorrow”.

“Tomorrow!!!” I queried. “It’s today! Why not today???”

“Because . . . because it’s Sunday” he said confidently.

“Well . . . I’d better be impressed!!!” I responded.

“Trust me” he laughed.

“Ok then . . . and here’s to another thirty-five” I said taking his hand.

“Another thirty-five???” he squeezed. “Well you’ll have to slow down a bit
on the trussed then!!!”

See who else is celebrating this Sinful Sunday by squeezing the lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K


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Modest Sunglasses #Boobday Friday

As I mentioned in last week’s Boobday Friday I was so looking forward to getting some Grecian sun on my boobies !!!

And so I did . . . and it felt so lovely that I just indulged for peaceful, calming and relaxing days and days on end. And judging from all the photos in his camera, Hubby was indulging himself as well. In fact, he is telling me that he has lots more to share for several Boobdays to come!!!

But for now I am sure there will be lots of other lovely summer boobies on display at today’s Boobday Friday.

Because as Hyacinth says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

And you will be able to view more different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K

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The Only Way #sinfulsunday

Our day-to-day life seems to impose all sorts of different directions and challenges doesn’t it?

But I always try to say . . . to myself and anyone else who might want to listen . . . the only way is the FUN way!!!

Fun . . . and ok I will admit . . . quite often sinful as well!!!

But sinful should really be fun too . . . which I’m sure you will discover if you gently tap on the Sinful Sunday lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K


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Modest Bathtime #wickedwednesday

As I mentioned in my Bubbles Boobday two weeks ago, I do so love some indulgent, relaxing . . . and bubbly bathtime! Especially when there is a really . . . really . . . powerful jet-tap to play with.

And . . . as I’m sure you can imagine . . . I just loved letting it pulse all over every bit of me. Before just collapsing back to soak-up those lovely bubbles.

You can dip-into lots more Bubbles at this week’s Wicked Wednesday from tapping at the button below!


Xxx – K


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Top 50 Sex-Positive Websites @Lubezilla

It’s always nice when people say lovely things about you . . . and it was especially nice for me recently to be mentioned in Lubezilla’s “Top 50 Sex-Positive Websites listings.

Because . . . as I’ve said before . . . the over-riding reason for me posting here as Modesty Ablaze, has always been to encourage people to make their lives and experiences “fun and natural and sharing”. Not to suppress, or feel guilty about one’s sexual thoughts and desires, but rather to celebrate and enjoy those feelings and express and share them within their own relationships, and their own everyday emotions.

I always feel that, as in every aspect of our lives, sharing smiles and laughter,
and embracing all of our emotions and passions, makes all of us better people. Not just ourselves . . . but those around us, and who may come in contact with us, whether it be in person . . . or by stumbling across these pages in the wider world beyond.

This is not to belittle all those important issues of sexual equality and education and dispelling prejudice, but there are many Lifestyle Bloggers (I prefer that term to that of just “Sex Bloggers”) far more eloquent than I, and much better than I, at addressing and discussing all of those subjects.

But for me, if I can just make people giggle for a few minutes, or perhaps embolden people (through myPolaroids Past pages) to accept that we all change as we “mature” and that we should just embrace those changes and be proud of who we are, where we have come from, and all the fun and good times we have all achieved along the way . . . then I will be happier too.

And I know you will find lots more like-minded people as you scroll through Lubezilla’s wonderful list, who will inspire and motivate you . . . I urge you to click the link below, and have lots of fun exploring!!!


Top 50 Sex-Positive Websites

NB: Thank you, as always, to the lovely John Tisbury (see my sidebar!!)
for taking my photo above!

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Rope Panties Pt.2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

One of the nicest things about sharing one’s #realworldsex videos at Make Love Not Porn, is receiving all the lovely messages and feedback from people saying how much they enjoy them.

And . . . not only enjoy them . . . but also telling me that my videos have helped enliven and expand their own sex lives and relationships . . . and made them feel much more at ease about expressing their own sexuality. One shouldn’t feel guilty about sexual preferences or desires . . . as long as they are fun, inclusive . . . and completely consensual.

And . . . of course . . . it’s also nice to receive comments and requests for more of one particular video.

So . . . to fulfill several requests for more “Rope Play” fun . . . I’m delighted to introduce a “Part 2” of my recent Rope Panties video with Lover No. 14.

And yes, those lovely panties that Lover 14 had made for me in Part One . . . were eventually and slowly pulled off me . . . only for him to decide that he wanted to do some more rope work. This time in the form of a Star-Design
Bikini Top . . . .

But of course his rope play never just ends with knots and ties . . and No. 14 soon had me giggling and gasping . . . especially as he found some very creative uses for my Doxy Massager . . . including some tickling massaging whilst I was laid on my tummy, and then, even some teasing pulsing whilst having me stand to attention in front of him. All ending, as I’m sure you can imagine, in giggling, tingling and convulsing orgasms one after the other.

If you can’t imagine it . . . well . . . you will just have to watch it won’t you ? . . . I’m sure you’ll soon be giggling along with me. And hopefully tingling too !!! previewed “Rope Panties Part 2” with Lover No.14,  in their Make Sexy Playtime Love Not Porn edition as:

You can never go wrong with a Modesty Ablaze video! From giggles and playful banter to a seemingly never ending stream of orgasms, her #realworldsex will introduce you to new techniques, help you let your guard down, and ultimately, leave you basking in the glory of a fantastically liberated 50 year old woman (who also happens to be a mother, too)!

I know I always say that my latest #realworldsex video is my new favourite
but I can honestly say that this evening was truly one of my most enjoyable and spontaneously wonderful times I’ve ever enjoyed . . . so I hope you will enjoy and laugh and giggle along with me.

And . . . don’t forget . . . If you watch this introductory video from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn Dot TV – it continues with some free peek clips from Rope Panties Part 2 itself.

It’s free to register at Make Love Not Porn . . . where you will find lots more videos from like-minded people . . . all sharing their own Real World Sex fun and good times.

And “Rope Panties Part Two” is all of those things all over, and over, again . . . and I hope you will enjoy, and giggle-along with us!!!

You can view my introduction to “Rope Panties Part Two” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Rope Panties Part Two”  is my 37th video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my thirty-seven #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modestly Into Temptation . . . #sinfulsunday

Eve said to Adam . . . “an apple a day???”

And, Adam replied . . . ???

For more tempting, tempestuousness this Sinful Sunday,
Eve would probably have suggested taking a bite from the lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K


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Modest Raindrops #Boobday Friday

After visiting a very Modern Gallery on the River recently, I stepped outside into a torrential down-pour!

“I think they were selling those pac-a-mac rain-capes in the gift-shop” Hubby said. So we dashed back inside to purchase one . . . only to step outside again to find the rain had virtually stopped.
Still, I was actually quite happy with my new purchase . . . in fact I think
I might wear it for my next tate-à-tête session . . . you know for when things get wet-and-slippery!

But in the meantime I thought it quite appropriate apparel for this week’s Boobday Friday because as Hyacinth says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

  And you will be able to view more different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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A Modest Screening #Boobday Friday

I generally like to keep my posts here at Modesty Ablaze, fun and frivolous . . . just to make people smile and, hopefully, feel happier than when they arrrived.

However . . . breast-screening is something we should all take seriously . . . especially as we become a little more “mature” (at least in years, if not actions!!!)

So as I passed by this sign in my travels last week, it made me think that it was an entirely appropriate prompt to mention at this week’s Boobday Friday
not only because as Hyacinth says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

But ALSO because one in eight women are diagnosed with breast-cancer
at some point during their life. But it CAN be treatable if it is diagnosed
early enough. So I urge ALL of you ladies to request a screening with your
GP once every three years. (If you are reading this in the UK, and you are
aged over 50, it is actually free!!!

  And then we can all continue to view different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K

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