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Neighbourly Love #wickedwednesday

This week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Neighbours” and it got me thinking this morning, not so much of the people next door, but rather neighbours as in a sense of community and like-mindedness. A sharing of thoughts and experiences, trials and tribulations, adventures and celebrations with people of, broadly speaking of course, similar interests.

I started Modesty Ablaze-ing here, all those years ago, for just those very reasons . . . to celebrate the wonderful sense of empowerment and enjoyment my “lifestyle” had given me. I wanted to shout to all who may listen, that it shouldn’t matter what size and shape we are, what different desires or fantasies we may have . . . or what we may feel the expectations or pressures from those around us are. I wanted to scream out that we all have the right, the necessity actually, to enjoy those things that make us feel good. To enjoy our sexuality . . . to embrace and express it. And, that as long as our relationships and interactions with our “neighbours” were honest and consensual . . . and responsible . . . then we shouldn’t feel ashamed about having fun.

And over the years those feelings have been strengthened through this wonderful neighbourly community . . . meeting on-line, and in-person, some simply lovely people . . . so I wanted to take this opportunity to say “thank you for sharing” to just some of them.

So, in no particular order of excitement . . .

@kay_jaybee  – the most arousing and evocative erotic writing I have ever read and re-read . . . and read all over again!

Cindy Gallop of @Makelovenotporn  – the most inspirational and motivational public speaker and advocate of sexual freedom of expression, I have ever heard.

@holden_cammie – stylish and inspiring photo-shoots and backdrops.

@girlonthenet  – always entertaining, amusing and wonderfully direct “wordage”.

@Exposing40  – constantly creative and empowering photos.

@RebelsNotes  Marie Rebelle and Molly @Mollysdailykiss  for their fun Meme’s and awesome energy and ability to post daily on so many different views and subject-matter.

@TabithaErotica  for her passionate writing, artistry and photos on all things erotica.

@BibulousOne  his Pain as Pleasure postings are so intelligently descriptive of not just the physical, but more importantly, the psychological and emotional aspect of submission and domination.

@sassycat38  for her fun, and inspiring, approach to her photos . . . oh and those incredible eyes (and amazing collection of shoes).

@ZenNudist  aka @Kilted_Wookie   – interesting, intriguing, insightful writings . . . and, I’m not normally one for a hairy-chest, but this gentleman’s photo-posts often prove the exception to my rule.

@ElliottHenry5  of The Life of Elliott – general naughtiness and sense of fun
. . . and “penile-adventurousness”

So, if you are not already familiar with any of the above Neighbours, I urge you to investigate and introduce yourself!!!

For more sharing thoughts and experiences of Neighbours visit this week’s Wicked Wednesday by knocking on the button below!!!


Xxx – K


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A Modest Holiday Home #sinfulsunday

“It’s right on quite a busy road” I said to Hubby after we’d parked in the driveway, and began to wander around towards the front of the property.
“Don’t you think there might be a lot of traffic noise?”

“Well the front is so overgrown with tree’s I can’t see anything anyway” he called back. “Let’s take down the number and call the Agents when we get into town.”

We never did of course, as we ruminated over all the probable difficulties of buying property abroad. But as I mentioned on Friday, it’s turned very chilly here in London over the past week, and suddenly thoughts of having a summer holiday home seem quite attractive to me again!

I suppose I shall just have to try to distract myself with more immediate, warmer, things to view at this week’s Sinful Sunday by
dialling the lips below instead!

Sinful Sunday

P.s. But I do think our short summer distraction will surely fit the “Real Estate” category at Jade’s wonderful and fun Scavenger Hunt pages!

There are lots of my earlier Scavenger Hunt distractions at my
Scavenger Listings page . . . where there are now over 100 different locations.
Most of which are on my Scavenger Slideshow page as well!!!   

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxx – K


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A Modest Shrug #Boobday Friday

Goodness it’s turned chilly here in London over the past few days. So I decided it was definitely time to slip on my Woolly, fleece-lined, Shrug to try to keep my “nips and bits” warm in this winter cold.

And I know I’m sure to find more winter warmth at this week’s Boobday Friday, because as Hyacinth says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

Be sure to visit . . . and why not join-in . . .  Boobday sharing, this and every Friday, by clicking on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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Modest Favourites #sinfulsunday

Favourite things . . . we all have them don’t we? And this week’s theme at
Sinful Sunday
seems the perfect opportunity to share three of mine.Starting with my favourite . . . and rightful . . . Position!

And then those special things that no lady can be without . . . Shoes !!!

And my favourite colour?  Well . . . RED of course!
(And as I’m sure you can imagine, there was actually quite a lot more Red
than just my Shoes over the following hour this afternoon).

But having kicked my shoes off, it’s now time to sit down to relax, unwind
and discover lots of other thoughts on my favourite colour at this week’s
Sinful Sunday by stepping gently on the lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K


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Modestly Collared #Boobday Friday

It’s probably just as well I don’t work in “the City” . . . because although I always have an interest whenever there is a rise . . . I just couldn’t be getting-on with all those other things one is expected to be able to do.

I mean, I would never feel comfortable having to have my buttons done-up all the way to my collar! And just imagine being expected to wear a tie ???

No, I think I prefer being able to dress just how I like . . . especially on Fridays!!!

And I’m sure you will find more comfortable wear today over at Hyacinth‘s lovely Boobday Friday, because as she says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

For more Boobday thoughts, this and every Friday, simply click on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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Modestly Inked #wickedwednesday

No . . . just teasing as you can probably tell!!!

I have often fantasised about having a tattoo though . . . it’s just that I’ve always been too nervous to actually have one done.

However, as this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is Tattoo’s . . . and as I’ve always been so envious of Marie’s wonderful ink-work . . . I just couldn’t resist joining in!

But I’m sure there will be lots more elaborations on real Tattoo’s from tapping on the button below!!!


Xxx – K


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Modestly Wired #sinfulsunday

It’s simply amazing the things one can find beachcombing . . .

. . . whilst out for a stroll along our favourite island’s coastline.

Hubby suggested that this concrete and wire, may have been part of some wartime defences . . . but I suggested other ideas for ways it could be used!!!

I’m sure there will lots of other suggestive ideas at this week’s Sinful Sunday,
to be discovered from tapping on the lips below!

Sinful SundayOne of my suggestions . . . just one as I’m sure you can imagine . . . is that this may qualify for the Seawall Category at Jade’s Scavenger Hunt.

There are lots of other Scavenger Hunt categories at my
Scavenger Listings page . . . and now over 100 different locations on
my Scavenger Slideshow page as well . . . why don’t you join me there.
Come on . . . Dare to Bare . . . it is lots of fun!!!   

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxx – K


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More Than Just the Sex: 5 Reasons Why Younger Men & Older Women Are the Perfect Match

If you have visited me here occasionally before, you will know how much fun I have in my regular evenings with one of my younger lovers.

So my curiousity . . .  and attention . . . was immediately drawn by the “More Than Just the Sex: 5 Reasons Why Younger Men & Older Women Are the Perfect Match” article I was recently sent (see below), and which I find myself nodding along in agreement to, as I read. Not to mention becoming aroused all over again at so many pleasant memories!

Well, okay, it is partially about the sex.

Times, are changing. LGBTQ rights are making progress and younger women are dating men on television. Consider Alicia Florrick’s one-night stand with her campaign manager (gasp, a double-whammy) from the ever popular legal drama, “The Good Wife”.

For the rest of us mid-life mortals still biting our lips every time a pretty young (male) thing walks by, you hereby have scientific and actual permission to go after what you want.

Or, at least, 5 reasons worth considering, if satisfaction and happiness are something you’ve been taught to just deny, deny, deny.

But, everyone needs to start somewhere.

  1. Lasting Longer
    For all you newbies and monogamy converts, there’s something in it for you: those dates and encounters that start casually between an older women and younger man are much more likely to end up turning into a lasting relationship. While “4ever” may not be quite forever, there’s a greater chance, according to studies for the symbiotic affinity younger men have for older women to transform the connection into a long-term relationship.
  2. Millennial Men Are Setting a New Standard
    It’s not just women’s social status, attitudes and expectations that are changing alongside their newfound power and professionalism. It’s also the status of younger guys. There is a lot more flexibility and younger men are more likely to be “open-minded” – and this doesn’t only have to do with their youth. It’s also because millennials, as a group, tend to be more self-reliant, highly educated and entrepreneurial. So if she’s dating a millennial man, he’s more like “young money”.
  3. The Tables Have Turned
    Usually, older women who date younger men are painted as desperate to cling on to a notion of youth that’s long passed them. Or else, they’re just closet-dominatrixes. After all, popular culture has a Maddona-Whore complex in the age of the 2010s for a reason, okay? But, now, it’s younger men who are actively attracted to older women, specifically singling them out as potential dating material – and are more than willing to take commitment to the next level with them. And it’s not because they have mommy issues, either. It’s because older women in this day and age tend to be financially and emotionally stable.
  4. Baggage Check – It’s no secret: older men tend to have baggage – and masks for hiding the baggage. The baggage is usually a couple of (failed) marriages, losses in life, emotional stagnation, teenagers and alimony. And their masks have been perfected over a century. Younger guys are not only less likely to have accumulated these fodder-for-a-therapist issues, they’re also less likely to internalize them so deeply or have it affect them as intensely as older men. Seriously though, younger guys have a greater tendency to roll with the punches – for now. So make hay while the sunshines.
  1. Older Women Make Younger Men Feel…Sexy! Another myth we’re turning inside out, folks: it’s actually younger men who end up feeling way sexier in a relationship with older women. See, older women who are confident enough are confident enough to go for younger guys. They don’t need a man, they want a man. They’ve lived with their beautiful bodies for long enough to know what they’re capable of, what their best features are and why they should respect themselves. Which means they’re more willing and able to tell their younger male counterparts how sexy they find their bodies, or their minds, or their voices. It’s often the younger man that will blush and feel shy and yet delighted at the genuine attention and care an older woman showers him with.

What’s the Big Deal, Anyway?

As an older woman, you’re likely to encounter many “boy toy” comments. And they’ll mostly come from other older men or (particularly judgemental) younger women. This happens because these groups feel threatened.

So consider this spin: you’re so in charge of your own desires, it actually threatens others who secretly want what you want but are “too afraid”  to go and get it.

Let that really sit for a moment. Now, if you’re feeling more mischievous and inspired than ever before, head online to Milf Area, gather a few close girlfriends and head to a local clubbing event dressed to the nines or chat up that cutie in the gym.

After all, what is that all those younger guys are saying?
“YOLO”: You only live once, right?

I am so happy to enter into such a fun collaboration with Milf Area because . . . as I mentioned in my opening paragraph . . .  I find myself nodding along in agreement with much of the above. With the rider of course that, as with ANY relationship, the key factor should always be open and honest communication between both (or in my case, all) parties involved. For as long as one’s desires, intentions and expectations are clear good, and fun things, normally happen!!!

Xxx – K   


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A Modest Kneed #sinfulsunday

Sometimes . . . when one’s submissives have purposefully, and willfully, misbehaved . . . there is nothing else for it but a firm, over-the-knee spanking!!!

And, once I’ve finished here, I shall visit this week’s Sinful Sunday, from smacking the lips below, to check-out everyone else’s needs and desires.
Though only . . . as I say . . . once I’ve finished here!

Sinful SundayXxx – K


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Modesty Ablaze “Summertime Fun” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Being on holiday always makes me feel relaxed . . . and when I feel relaxed . . .
I usually feel very horny.

And “Summertime Fun” is a collection of short, fun . . . and naughty . . . moments from my recent vacation on my favourite Grecian island.

From testing just how waterproof my newest Vibrator really is (underwater in the ocean) . . . or getting quite worked-up sitting on the beach reading one of the new erotic novels I’d brought away with me!!!

As you can see here, my Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation, certainly passed my “100% waterproof test” . . . even underwater in the ocean!!!

Now, I often receive messages from people telling me that I say, and do, the sort of things they wish they could. And my answer is always the same, “Just follow your instincts and as long as it’s not causing harm or offence to others, just let yourself go and be who you really want to be.”

We all have risqué or naughty thoughts occasionally, it’s only natural, and it can often be wonderfully liberating and enjoyable . . . and relaxing . . . to just do and say what you really feel. Even if only for a short period of time.

And that’s exactly what “Summertime Fun” is all about . . . just some lovely fun-time moments away from the normal pressures and stresses of everyday life.

Now, Hubby & I filmed this introductory video on the beach, near the end of our first week, thinking we would just have some short clips of our naughtiness. But I suppose I should have known we would have lots more fun than could fit in just one video. So, this is just Part One, of what was a magical, wonderful, relaxing two weeks of naughty summer fun playtimes. Sometimes on the beach, sometimes underwater and sometimes back in our apartment!

I hope you will enjoy Part One. We certainly did . . . and do keep checking back here for news of Parts Two, and Three, still to cum . . . as I re-live some lovely memories of a magical vacation!

You can view my introduction to “Summertime Fun Part 1” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

Oh, and P.S. . . . Do you like a banana occasionally? . . . I know I do !!!

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Summertime Fun”  is my 39th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my thirty-nine #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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