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Marking Milestones #wickedwednesday

Life is full of milestones . . . and I think we probably worry far too much about many of them. Especially reaching that mystical No. 50 !!!

But actually my recent Highlights  Wicked Wednesday post . . . and the fact that Eroticon 2017 is just two weeks away . . . reminded me of when I reached that particular milestone!

Because it was at Eroticon 2013, after attending his wonderful “Erotic Photography Session”, that I nervously approached John Tisbury and asked him if I could commission a private session with him. It was to be Hubby’s birthday gift to me (or one of them!!!) . . .  and it marked what turned into a simply wonderful year.

A year which far from marking an “all downhill from here” sort of feeling, turned into the start of wonderful new adventures and experiences which have developed and continued and in fact spiralled onwards and upwards ever since.

A year in which incredible friendships blossomed and bloomed into what I’m sure will be life-long relationships and liaisons.

And a year in which my modesty really seemed to be set fully ablaze.

So “Frightening 50?” became “Fabulous and Fun 50!” . . . and it just get’s better and better as every year passes.

And as “50” is this week’s theme at, lovely birthday girl, Marie’s Wicked Wednesday, there’s bound to be lots more Fabulous and Fun 50’s to discover by tapping the button below!

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Xxx – K

Oh and P.S. – Huge thanks to the lovely, lovely John Tisbury for one of those 50th Birthday photos above!!!

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Modesty’s High Tea #Boobday Friday

One expects to be served tea and breakfast in bed every morning . . . in fact
I insist upon it!

And, whilst most take “High Tea” in the afternoon or early evening, I prefer mine to start the day.

After all, afternoon’s and evening’s are for a glass of wine . . . or two . . .
aren’t they? And for visiting Hyacinth’s, Boobday Friday whilst I tipple,
because as she says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Festive Friday Fun” new video @makelovenotporn.tv

We all know that Christmas is a time for goodwill, festive fun and laugher . . . and, of course, . . . sharing gifts and presents. And my newest video for MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is certainly all of those things!!!

I’ve called it “Friday Fun” . . . because it is from a Friday evening, just a couple of weeks ago, with Lover No.50 and is full of ALL of that fun and laughter . . . and much, much more!!!

It started with me gifting myself as a present for No.50 . . . wrapped in a festive bow of course . . . followed by lots of passionate kisses and cuddles. And if you’ve seen any of my previous MakeLoveNotPorn . . . #realworldsex videos with Lover No.50 . . . you will already know just how those kisses and cuddles can soon turn into a wonderfully loving . . . and pounding . . . session of orgasms and climaxes for each of us (although, on this occasion, I was spent and exhausted long before No.50 was).

But after a short relaxing rest to recover my composure and following some more gentle, spooning cuddles . . . I turned over to give No.50 some special attention of my own.

I absolutely love giving my lovers “special attention” of course . . . and I was soon lost in the moment, concentrating on his . . . very obvious . . . enjoyment of my caresses, and knowing that we were very close to that special moment that I love so much . . . when all of a sudden we were interrupted by the loud ringing of his phone alarm.

You will see, and probably laugh along with us, at the rather “inconvenient timing” of this interruption. But Hubby came to the rescue, managing to turn-off the ring-tone of the unfamiliar phone without No.50, or myself, having to move from our position. And, as I’m sure you can imagine, it didn’t take me too long to resume my special caresses and give No.50 that loving reward he so definitely deserved.

And that is what #realworldsex at MakeLoveNotPorn is all about . . . real fun, between real people, in real situations . . . just completely enjoying the moments and making the most of that loving and sensual time together.

MakeLoveNotPorn.tv previewed “Friday Festive Fun” in their special Make Holiday Love Not Porn edition as:

Modesty Ablaze knows that the holidays are a time of goodwill and generosity, so it’s only natural that she should give lover no. 50 a gift during their pre-xmas rendez-vous. And, lucky for him, she’s the present! First taking their time to ‘unwrap’ each other, Modesty, hubby, and lover no. 50 are soon having such a good time that nothing can get in the way — not even someone’s phone alarm going off at a most inopportune moment! Filled with laughter, chatter, and lots of #realworldpleasure, this brand new video is the perfect gift.

So I hope you will find unwrapping, watching . . . and sharing our fun with us . . . just as rewarding and enjoyable as we did!!!

You can view my introduction to “Friday Festive Fun” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as I mention at the end of my introduction, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Friday F, f, fun” is my 34th video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my thirty-four #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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A Winter Warmer #wickedwednesday

Goodness it’s been unseasonably warm these past few days for this time of year.

So much so that I built-up quite a sweat on my run this morning . . . and just had to stop for a few, modest, moments to cool down.

And though most of the leaves in the park have now fallen, I found this lovely splash of red to cheer me up, before setting off again for the office.

Of course I put my clothes back on silly . . . but I think if you tap on the lovely Marie’s Wicked Wednesday button below, you’ll find lots more
Winter Warmth this Wednesday!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “By Morning Light” new video @makelovenotporn.tv

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“By Morning Light”, my newest #realworldsex video at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv, is from the morning after myForbidden Pleasures fun with Lover No.14. And what could be more exciting than waking up after an exhausting night of wanton pleasures . . . to begin the morning indulging in more threesome twists and turns . . . and more wonderful orgasms . . . for all three of us!

But if the night before had been full of naughty indulgence and giggling deviations . . . our morning passion was much quieter and much more slowly paced . . . well, at least it was to begin with.

Beginning with patient, tender and loving spooning cuddles . . . naughty No.14 slowly started working his fingers and thumbs into all my nooks and crannies . . . and before too long I began to succumb to his lovely probing from behind.

I have to be in the right mood for anal play, but Lover No.14 is an expert in coaxing me and . . . as you will see . . . I eventually succumbed!  And . . . of course . . . No.14 didn’t need much encouragement to turn those probing fingers into something much bigger . . . and thicker.

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Watching me being slowly fucked to a lovely orgasm obviously had Hubby straining with excitement as well . . . so after I’d recovered my composure it seemed the only decent thing I could do was to lean forward and give him soothing kisses too . . . I think you can guess exactly where!

And that led to Lover 14 rising to the occasion once again . . . and joining us for a most . . . spectacular . . . climax!

You can view my introduction to “By Morning Light” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as I mention at the end of my introduction, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“By Morning Light” is my 33rd video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my thirty-three #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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P.S. As the title implies, “By Morning Light” means the video was filmed with just the subtle light of the rising sun filtering through the bedroom curtains. So, it is quite muted and shadowy . . . but I think you’ll agree that the passion, and love, of the moments here shine brightly through! Enjoy !!!

Xxx – K

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Modesty’s Bannister #Boobday Friday

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Do you ever think that bannisters can be quite . . . well you know . . . phallic ???

I know I sometimes do . . . well quite often actually!!!

But I shouldn’t be dwelling on “those” sort of shapes this morning . . . after all
it is a Friday. And Friday’s are all about celebrating Hyacinth’s #Boobday Friday, because as Hy says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt from @UberKinky

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We all enjoy having new additions to our wardrobes occasionally don’t we . . . well, actually not just occasionally for me, I enjoy new additions all the time!!!

Because new clothes always make one feel special, and sexy . . . and this lovely new Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt certainly makes me feel like that, and has quickly become one of my favourites when opening my wardrobe for a kinky evening out.

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It arrived from my favourite on-line Kink store, Uberkinky, a few weeks ago and I was instantly captivated by the naughty, open-back look . . . and feel . . . as I slid it on.   It felt just lovely, sexy and clingy without being tight or uncomfortable. In fact the fit was absolutely perfect and the front zip fastening makes it so quick and simple to put on . . . and to take off  LOL!!!

The double-stitched shiny PVC waistband is 2¼ inches wide and adds a stylish look to the trim, whilst the skirt itself is made from that lovely polyester-spandex-type material which seems to just stretch and cling in all the right places, complimenting one’s curves rather than squeezing them tightly and making my bumps too obvious. I like wearing tight rubber and latex, but often feel my curves are being pushed and squeezed out of shape. But this skirt just feels so comfortable and shapely to wear and I’ve always, ALWAYS got such lovely comments whenever I’ve worn it.

But, of course, a lot of those lovely comments are about the look when I turn-around because, this Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt has the most wonderfully naughty open-back to show off one’s bottom. The open-cut shape just seems to perfectly accommodate my cheeks. It’s almost as though that “handmade” feature was in fact made-to-measure . . . but I’m sure that’s just because of the way the material stretches and clings so naturally.

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The skirt arrives with the three removeable straps attached of course. They are secured in place with popper studs on each side of the perfectly hemmed “openness”. The straps are each 1¼ inches wide . . . my “modesty straps” I call them . . . and are spaced equally apart to allow for teasing and tantalising glimpses of lots of one’s bare bottom. And, should you decide to display even more bare skin, as I have on the several occasions I’ve worn them out, the straps are easily and effortlessly detached from their studs.

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I’ve started my evening with the straps on, and then as I’ve become a little more daring (naughty???), I’ve discretely removed them and popped them into my handbag. Perhaps starting out by leaving just the middle one attached . . . and then, later in the evening, removing that one too!

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And I can certainly tell you I’ve then had even more attention . . . and nice comments . . . as the evening has gone on!!!

The whole skirt is so lovely and light, that it can be easily folded and carried in your bag if you’re travelling to a club or event and planning to change on arrival, and you prefer not to wear it on the way there!

The skirt is supplied with a complete spare set of studs, and another thoughtful and lovely touch, are the hanger-loops stitched into the PVC waistband. In fact the quality and whole “feel” of this lovely skirt is just wonderful, and the sizing chart . . . available from the product-link below . . . offers one of the most comprehensive and descriptive size ranges I’ve ever come across.

So, needless to say, I shall definitely be adding more from the Noir Handmade range. And if you are looking for some new stylish, sexy . . . and kinky . . . apparel for yourself, or your kinky partner in fact, . . . I suggest you make the Noir Handmade page at Uberkinky >here< your very next click!!!

The Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt with Open Back and PVC Details:
Modesty Rating:
 10 out of 10
Pros: Stylish, sexy, slinky, sexy, kinky. Lovely to feel and wear, curve-hugging but in just the “right” way. Lovely quality stitching. Oh . . . and did I say “sexy”!!!
Cons: I’ve been having too much fun wearing it to notice any.
Material: Polyester Spandex (elastane) skirt with PVC trim and detail.
Sizing: Available from X-Small to 10XL (see the sizing chart from the product link below!).
Colour: Black.
After-care: Handwash separately in cold water.
Supplier Product Link: Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt with Open Back and PVC Details
More from Noir at Uberkinky: Noir Handmade
The Modesty Video Review: Now you are being naughty! But ask me nicely and you just never know!

 

The Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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A Modest Morning Workout . . . #Boobday Friday

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Sometimes I just have to force myself, to wake-up ten minutes earlier than normal, for a quick morning work-out.

Though I normally end up thinking that this type of “morning work-out” is
not as much fun as many that I’ve enjoyed in the past!!!

For more morning boobs on display this #Boobday Friday, just flex Hyacinth’s cleavage below, because as she says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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Nominate your Top Sex Blogs of 2016

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Every year around this time, nominations open for the annual Top 100 Sex Bloggers List. I believe this will be the eighth year of the lists existence . . . and it has become something I so look forward to scrolling through every year, to discover new gems of excitement, education and, of course, stimulation!!!

Now of course, lists, recommendations and compilations are always subjective aren’t they? What appeals to one person may be of no interest at all to another. But to me what is so important about the Top 100 Sex Bloggers List is that it is the perfect starting point for discovering a hugely diverse and entertaining group of people discussing, promoting, and most importantly in my view, celebrating  one’s sexuality in a way that it is never, ever approached in mainstream media.

And that is important in enlightening, educating and helping to hopefully remove all of the stigma, shame and guilt from what is, after all, the most basic and empowering . . . and exciting . . . of all of one’s natural emotions and instincts.

But enough of the preaching and finger-shaking from me . . . because none of us like too much of that do we? (Depends exactly where the finger is shaking actually!!!)

I will let the wonderfully remarkable, curator-supreme, Molly, explain the history and ethos of the list >herewith< but I really, really urge and encourage you all to scroll through the names, and links, of those blogs already listed . . . and investigate as many as you can . . . because I am sure you will find lots and lots of fun reading and, as I mentioned earlier, lots of enlightenment and stimulation!

And we all need more fun and enlightenment and stimulation in our lives from time-to-time don’t we???

Xxx – K

 

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Modestly Yawning #Boobday Friday

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As the mornings are getting colder, so it’s becoming more and more difficult to get up for the commute into the office.

Especially after waking from wonderfully sleepy . . . and naughty . . . dreams beneath the covers!!!

For more morning boobs to wake up to this #Boobday Friday, just kiss Hyacinth’s cleavage below, because as she says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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