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A Modest Stocking #sinfulsunday

Most of my stockings are black . . . but it’s nice to slide into something
of a different colour, before stepping out for the evening!!!

To see who else is stepping out this Sinful Sunday, just tap on the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Modestly Abandoned Furniture #wickedwednesday

“It must be rubbish-collection day.” Hubby said as we walked towards the town’s main street. “This is the second piece of furniture we’ve passed since
we parked the car”.
“Well don’t ask me to sit down on it like you did for the last one,” I replied.
“That vinyl is almost melting in this blazing-sun!!!”
“And I don’t even want to touch it, actually. We don’t know how long it’s been
left abandoned here!”

I got my way of course . . . as I always do . . . but as we walked on down the street, I did mention to Hubby that it looked like one of those chairs that one often has to sit on whilst waiting in reception at the doctor’s or dentist.

And that’s so appropriate, as this week’s Wicked Wednesday is all about dentist’s . . . as you will discover by tapping on the button below!!!


As Hubby mentioned, we did come across several instances of “Abandoned Furniture” during our recent holiday . . . so perhaps Jade may consider that as a new category at her wonderful and fun Scavenger Hunt pages!!!

And don’t forget, there are lots of my other Scavenger Hunt discoveries at
my Scavenger Listings page . . . and now over 100 different locations on
my Scavenger Slideshow page as well!!!   

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxx – K



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A Modest Necklace #Boobday Friday


I do love choosing which beads to wear of a morning before I leave for the office
. . . and often I wish I could leave wearing . . . nothing else!!!

A big morning thank you to the lovely John Tisbury for taking this photo of me in my favourite necklace for this week at  Hyacinth’s #Boobday Friday, because as Hy says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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Holiday Stamp #sinfulsunday

A modest stamp

Even when I’m on holiday . . . I still like to stamp my authority!!!

See who else is being Sinful this Sunday by tapping the lips below!!!

Xxx – K




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Eye Candy . . . at Dirty Birdies

When I heard that the theme for today’s Dirty Birdies Flock Hop was “Eye Candy“, I just couldn’t resist joining in and sharing an excerpt, on that very subject, from Part 6 of my Modesty Ablaze Diaries.



Eye Candy . . . Lover 15. This picture just doesn’t do him justice! (LOL!!!)

EYE CANDY . . . Lover No. 15
Suddenly discovering how much I enjoyed my liaisons with younger men at our Club nights had left me wanting more. So much so that Hubby and I decided to take-up the suggestion of one of our new young friends to join a well known internet Swingers site. He assured us that he’d met lots of genuine, like-minded people like us and was sure we would find it easy to do the same.

But my “more cougar moment” fantasies were soon dulled by successions of silly, unintelligible, and off-putting responses to our profile post. And after a week of deleting seemingly every message we received, I was just about to tell Hubby to remove our profile when . . . a real message, and a sensible profile picture, arrived in our in-box. Finally we were motivated to reply to somebody . . . and his further reply was just as sensible. Hubby requested his mobile no. and we were chatting within minutes. And he sounded just as sensible as his messages had been!

We agreed to meet at a bar, near to our normal “play” hotel a week later . . . just to chat and get to know each other better.

I spent the next five days wondering if we really should be doing this! At the Club at least we could chat with people and then politely move on if we felt that we “just couldn’t”, but to be meeting a complete stranger???

But the moment he walked into the bar I knew I wanted him. Stunningly gorgeous, tall and assured . . . “Mmm, eye candy!” I whispered to Hubby as he stood scanning the bar looking around to see if he could recognise us, or if we would recognise him. His smile as he saw us was enough to have me tingling, even from the other side of the room.

And he was as polite and well-spoken as he had been when we spoke on the phone. Charming and delightful, and confident and instantly likeable . . . one round of drinks, led to two . . .

Hubby and I had already agreed a “signal question” as we’d showered and dressed at the hotel. A coded question he would ask me just to be sure I was definitely “interested enough to invite him back to our room” . . . and, finally, finally, he asked me. “Yes I’m fine” I immediately replied.

We were back at our hotel just five minutes later and our conversation continued as we sat down together on the bed whilst Hubby poured fresh glasses of wine. He reached across to fondle first my knee, then stroke my forearm . . . and then that first kiss! Warm and wet and intoxicating . . . 18 years my junior, and yet I was shaking with excitement as the intensity of his kisses grew ever more passionate!

He stood to unbutton his shirt and stepped away from the bed to rest it over the back of the chair in the corner. He’d already told us he was a cyclist and entered road-racing events every weekend. His back was turned as he unbuckled his belt and slid his trousers and pants down over his hips. His bum was perfect, and the muscles on his thighs rippled as he turned back towards me. I tried not to gasp out aloud as he stepped back towards the bed, now completely naked. He wasn’t yet erect, but I couldn’t take my eyes from his cock as it hung and wobbled gorgeously as he knelt back onto the bed in front of me.

I’ve never before found a hairy chest to be attractive, and yet here kneeling immediately in front of me was the hairiest chest I had ever seen. He pulled me upwards into a gasping embrace and it felt surprisingly soft and smooth as I ran my hands up over his chest between us. Like a feathery down, blanketing a wonderfully firm six-pack beneath.

He pulled away slightly and I was gasping out aloud now as I felt the palm of his hands scraping across my nipples. My own arms had dropped to my sides as I swooned under his kisses and I felt his hardness growing and rubbing against my thigh as we knelt against one another. I slid one hand between us to wrap my fingers around him, gasping again as I felt the thickness of his erection, hot and hard as I stroked my hand over him.

Even though my eyes were tightly closed, and our groans of passion were becoming louder and louder, I could sense the flashing of Hubby’s camera and feel him moving around the bed beside us . . .

. . . and then the strong, muscled arms of my newest young lover, gently laying me down onto my back . . .


The above excerpt is a few paragraphs from one of the latter Chapters in my, as-yet untitled (see “Name My New Book”) The Modesty Ablaze Diaries – Part 6, which I hope will be available from all the sites below by the end of July.



You can find out more about me, and how an illicit affair, changed my marriage . . . and my life . . . forever, by visiting my “I Love It, The More I Have” page.

And read my autobiographical diaries of my wonderfully open-marriage and swinging and hotwife lifestyle from the links below:


My latest review at Amazon !!!



Ether Books

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I’m giving away one free copy of any of my Modesty Ablaze Diaries collection currently available at my Gumroad page. Simply add a comment to this page before midnight EST on Thursday, June 27th . . . and I will email the winner the download link at some point on Saturday, June 29th.

AND there are MORE prizes from all the other wonderful contributors to this “Dirty Birdies Flock Hop” . . . I urge you to visit them all over the next few days!!!

Xxx – Katie


I COMMAND you to join me at The Dirty Birdies Flock Hop!

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After Dark on-line

Happy 2nd Anniversary to After Dark Online !!!

After Dark online

It’s always wonderful to discover NEW and interesting places not only promoting new authors and new books . . . but ALSO offering stimulating articles and stories.

One such site is After Dark Online . . . and I urge you all to visit, and enjoy, and investigate it’s pages and links.

And huge kudos to Ray Sostre for his endeavours and inspiration in making it all happen.

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