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Modestly Over Exposed #sinfulsunday

I’ve never been very good with photography . . . so this week’s Sinful Sunday theme of “Over Exposed” has left me at a complete loss! Especially as I had an important function . . . a Friday Fun Function actually . . . in a lovely hotel directly overlooking Waterloo station last night, which meant I just haven’t had the time to give photography much thought this weekend.
Though, of course, I did indulge in Over Exposure of a different sort!!!

Now we often hear of complaints about train delays and cancellations don’t we? But although I was quite busy and not really paying too much attention, I must say I was very impressed! It seemed that every time I glanced down, another train was arriving or departing. “Just like cock-work” I said at one point.
“Oh, I meant clock-work, I shouldn’t be speaking with my mouthful.” I quickly corrected myself.

And I could quite clearly see a sense of satisfaction . . . and appreciation . . . on the faces of some of the passengers in their seats as they reached the climax of their journey.

Even through our sound-proofed windows (just as well!!!) . . . I’m sure I heard the Station Master announcing “The 19.45 Express from Waterloo is about to . . . depart from Platform 14. Calling at . . . ”

But anyway . . . to bring things back on track . . . if we click on the lips below we are sure to find the sort of Over Exposed that Molly really had in mind for this week’s theme!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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More Than Just the Sex: 5 Reasons Why Younger Men & Older Women Are the Perfect Match

If you have visited me here occasionally before, you will know how much fun I have in my regular evenings with one of my younger lovers.

So my curiousity . . .  and attention . . . was immediately drawn by the “More Than Just the Sex: 5 Reasons Why Younger Men & Older Women Are the Perfect Match” article I was recently sent (see below), and which I find myself nodding along in agreement to, as I read. Not to mention becoming aroused all over again at so many pleasant memories!

Well, okay, it is partially about the sex.

Times, are changing. LGBTQ rights are making progress and younger women are dating men on television. Consider Alicia Florrick’s one-night stand with her campaign manager (gasp, a double-whammy) from the ever popular legal drama, “The Good Wife”.

For the rest of us mid-life mortals still biting our lips every time a pretty young (male) thing walks by, you hereby have scientific and actual permission to go after what you want.

Or, at least, 5 reasons worth considering, if satisfaction and happiness are something you’ve been taught to just deny, deny, deny.

But, everyone needs to start somewhere.

  1. Lasting Longer
    For all you newbies and monogamy converts, there’s something in it for you: those dates and encounters that start casually between an older women and younger man are much more likely to end up turning into a lasting relationship. While “4ever” may not be quite forever, there’s a greater chance, according to studies for the symbiotic affinity younger men have for older women to transform the connection into a long-term relationship.
  2. Millennial Men Are Setting a New Standard
    It’s not just women’s social status, attitudes and expectations that are changing alongside their newfound power and professionalism. It’s also the status of younger guys. There is a lot more flexibility and younger men are more likely to be “open-minded” – and this doesn’t only have to do with their youth. It’s also because millennials, as a group, tend to be more self-reliant, highly educated and entrepreneurial. So if she’s dating a millennial man, he’s more like “young money”.
  3. The Tables Have Turned
    Usually, older women who date younger men are painted as desperate to cling on to a notion of youth that’s long passed them. Or else, they’re just closet-dominatrixes. After all, popular culture has a Maddona-Whore complex in the age of the 2010s for a reason, okay? But, now, it’s younger men who are actively attracted to older women, specifically singling them out as potential dating material – and are more than willing to take commitment to the next level with them. And it’s not because they have mommy issues, either. It’s because older women in this day and age tend to be financially and emotionally stable.
  4. Baggage Check – It’s no secret: older men tend to have baggage – and masks for hiding the baggage. The baggage is usually a couple of (failed) marriages, losses in life, emotional stagnation, teenagers and alimony. And their masks have been perfected over a century. Younger guys are not only less likely to have accumulated these fodder-for-a-therapist issues, they’re also less likely to internalize them so deeply or have it affect them as intensely as older men. Seriously though, younger guys have a greater tendency to roll with the punches – for now. So make hay while the sunshines.
  1. Older Women Make Younger Men Feel…Sexy! Another myth we’re turning inside out, folks: it’s actually younger men who end up feeling way sexier in a relationship with older women. See, older women who are confident enough are confident enough to go for younger guys. They don’t need a man, they want a man. They’ve lived with their beautiful bodies for long enough to know what they’re capable of, what their best features are and why they should respect themselves. Which means they’re more willing and able to tell their younger male counterparts how sexy they find their bodies, or their minds, or their voices. It’s often the younger man that will blush and feel shy and yet delighted at the genuine attention and care an older woman showers him with.

What’s the Big Deal, Anyway?

As an older woman, you’re likely to encounter many “boy toy” comments. And they’ll mostly come from other older men or (particularly judgemental) younger women. This happens because these groups feel threatened.

So consider this spin: you’re so in charge of your own desires, it actually threatens others who secretly want what you want but are “too afraid”  to go and get it.

Let that really sit for a moment. Now, if you’re feeling more mischievous and inspired than ever before, head online to Milf Area, gather a few close girlfriends and head to a local clubbing event dressed to the nines or chat up that cutie in the gym.

After all, what is that all those younger guys are saying?
“YOLO”: You only live once, right?

I am so happy to enter into such a fun collaboration with Milf Area because . . . as I mentioned in my opening paragraph . . .  I find myself nodding along in agreement with much of the above. With the rider of course that, as with ANY relationship, the key factor should always be open and honest communication between both (or in my case, all) parties involved. For as long as one’s desires, intentions and expectations are clear good, and fun things, normally happen!!!

Xxx – K   


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Modesty Ablaze “Friday Fun Pt.2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

As you can probably imagine, I don’t get much opportunity for early nights!
But when I do I often make myself snug and comfy and I re-watch one of my #realworldsex videos at MakeLoveNotPorn.

And recently Hubby and I were looking back through our archives and reminding ourselves of an absolutely fabulous evening with Lover No.50 which resulted in my “Friday Fun Video” some months ago. Well we discovered that we had a “Part Two” of that Friday Fun that we had never uploaded!!!

So feeling quite annoyed with ourselves that we’d obviously been so busy to have overlooked it, we knew we just had to share it on my MakeLoveNotPorn  pages as soon as we could. But as we were leaving for our summer vacation the very next day . . . and plus the fact that we got carried away with the excitement of watching it . . . it’s only now some weeks later, that we have returned home, that we are finally able to share it.

But I think it will be well worth the wait . . . as we had just as much loving fun as we had in Part One.

In fact this Part Two was just a little while after we’d recovered from our orgasmic frolics . . . me from an amazing, pounding fucking and No. 50 from that amazing explosion he’d had from me administering a “special massage” with my lips and hands.

I’m always amazed just how quickly No.50 can recover from his first spurting orgasm to soon be hard again and ready for a repeating burst. I mean, I was still lying on my back slowly recovering all my senses and feelings when he began giving me those wonderful deep passionate kisses again . . . you know just where I mean. And I so loved how quickly wet and juicy he made me . . . that I just had to taste it myself!!!

Now, as I said, it takes me longer to recover, especially after my second cumming of the evening, but because I just love giving him those passionate kisses of my own, I leant over to make sure he had a second cumming as well. previewed “Friday Festive Fun Part One” in their special Make Holiday Love Not Porn edition as:

Modesty Ablaze knows that the holidays are a time of goodwill and generosity, so it’s only natural that she should give lover no. 50 a gift during their pre-xmas rendez-vous. And, lucky for him, she’s the present! First taking their time to ‘unwrap’ each other, Modesty, hubby, and lover no. 50 are soon having such a good time that nothing can get in the way — not even someone’s phone alarm going off at a most inopportune moment! Filled with laughter, chatter, and lots of #realworldpleasure, this brand new video is the perfect gift.

And, as I say, “Friday Fun Part Two” just carries on from where we left off in Part One . . . with an even more explosive finale!!!

You can view my introduction to “Friday Fun Part Two” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Friday Fun Part Two”  is my 38th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my thirty-eight #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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A Modest 35 #sinfulsunday

Thirty-five today” I said warmly.

“Thirty-five what?” he teased.

Thirty-five years!!!” I repeated. “You’d better not have forgotten!”

“Course not” he tremored.

“All that time together . . . Bound!” I said.

“Tied!” he nodded.

“You’ll be tied alright, if you have forgotten to get me something
very special!” I said.

“Tightly???” he asked.

“Trussed!” I hissed. “Tightly trussed!!!”

“I haven’t forgotten” he laughed. “You’ll just have to wait until tomorrow”.

“Tomorrow!!!” I queried. “It’s today! Why not today???”

“Because . . . because it’s Sunday” he said confidently.

“Well . . . I’d better be impressed!!!” I responded.

“Trust me” he laughed.

“Ok then . . . and here’s to another thirty-five” I said taking his hand.

“Another thirty-five???” he squeezed. “Well you’ll have to slow down a bit
on the trussed then!!!”

See who else is celebrating this Sinful Sunday by squeezing the lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K


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Eyes Closed Shut #wickedwednesday

Last week at Wicked Wednesday I included an excerpt from one of my Diaries entries from my still-to-be-completed E-book, “More Adventures”, from two years or so ago. That was “Part One” of a wonderfully fun, and adventurous evening, which I thought it only fair (after several special requests) to complete at this week’s edition with “Part Two”.

So . . . continued from last week . . .  

As the men followed us into the room I could tell they were both obviously aroused by the fact that D was gently pushing me back onto the bed . . .

I have kissed another woman before . . . playing at the club. But this was something different, completely different.

Her mouth was warm and wet, and her tongue hard yet gentle, in a way that I just couldn’t compare with the kisses I would normally receive from Hubby, or one of my lovers. Not really physically different, I suppose, but different in sensation and emotion. The taste seemed somehow sweeter, warmer, softer. I felt her hands squeezing gently over my nipples again, and then felt her pulling my hand down to her pussy. “I don’t really know what to do” I told her. “Play with me as though you are playing with yourself” she whispered into my ear. Her warm breath tickled my senses, and her words made me tingle and arch my back as her own fingers ran a trail down over my tummy, sliding in between my lips and instantly finding my button. Her lips slid away from my kisses and ran down in little pecks over my neck, down over my breasts, kissing at them each, gently on top, and to the sides, and then, pausing above me for a moment, sucking suddenly down onto my right nipple. Sucking and pinching, and stretching it away from my chest with her lips, before releasing it with a wonderful nip of her teeth, before performing the same task on my left nipple.

I had had my eyes closed tightly shut for several minutes, but could now sense her lifting away . . . and then felt her fingers being replaced with larger and thicker hands. I opened my eyes again to see M leaning over me, spreading my legs wider for a moment before running his fingers up my inner thigh and finding the exact spot that just a moment before was being caressed by his wife.

I lay back, groaning again but heard Hubby’s voice saying something unclear and unintelligible to D. I opened my eyes once more and gasped as I saw D kneeling back onto the bed with a large, very large, dildo in her hands. “Have you ever fucked another woman?” she asked. I suddenly knew that these were the words I had just heard her asking Hubby. “Oh my god” I said. Half giggling, half tingling, as I watched her kneeling between my legs and sliding one end of the long pink shape into herself. “I don’t know, I don’t think I could” I stammered. But a moment later I heard myself gasping louder as M’s fingers slid over me to hold me open and D pushed herself forward. “Ohh, ohh” I knew I was gurgling. I felt her sliding forward into me, the softness of her leg rubbing over mine, and then gasping loudly again as, with a little help from M, she lifted my other leg over the top of hers. She started pushing and groaning and gasping louder with every stroke. I pushed myself back against her and groaned again as M’s fingers twirled between us as I felt us slapping together, each with half of her dildo engulfed within us.

Pushing against her I could feel her pussy, and legs, and bottom slapping against mine and feel the thickness of the silicon pushing into me, then relaxing again, then pushing back. And M’s fingers working over me, working over the both of us, was making my groans more breathless, and louder and louder. I opened my eyes again to see Hubby standing next to the bed to my right. His cock was standing vertical against his tummy, and kneeling next to me on the bed to my left, M’s cock was swaying back and forth and tapping against my shoulder. I reached out to grasp Hubby’s cock and pull him onto the bed next to me. He eagerly obliged by kneeling right over me and guiding his cock towards my mouth. I sucked him up and down, cupping his balls in right hand whilst reaching out and stroking M up and down his shaft with my left. I felt him turning and shuffling his own knees up the bed closer towards me. I pulled away from Hubby’s cock, loving the plopping sound as his hardness slipped out of my mouth, and turned to my left to immediately guide M’s cock between my lips.

I could hear D groaning as she pushed and I thrust back against her, feeling the thickness and hardness of the dildo straining inside me. And, directly above me, both men were now grunting and groaning as I sucked and swung my mouth back from my left to my right and then back again. Sucking to the left whilst stroking with my hand to the right, and then turning to suck from the right and stroke to my left. My own muffled gasps were getting louder as M was still leaning forward stretching his hands down over my tummy to twist and twirl his fingers over both of our thrusting pussies. Hubby was squeezing and pinching at my nipples and I managed to gasp out “harder, pinch them harder” as I swivelled my mouth from left to right.

I heard D gasping out that she was going to come and felt her shuddering against me with convulsions as her legs squeezed together against mine. She suddenly pulled away and I felt the thickness slide out of me, making me cry out with my own orgasm as M’s fingers slid deliciously inside me for a moment before my own twists and shudders pushed them away.

I heard Hubby’s voice gasping out above me and then felt sudden warm splashes splatter across my breasts and stomach. I opened my eyes as M pulled his cock from my mouth and clasped both his hands around himself as he cried out as well. I saw the first burst of white from the eye of his knob as it shot past my forehead, and then felt the rest spurting onto my cheek and chin and then dribbling down onto my neck.

“I’m so sorry” he gasped, “I couldn’t stop it. I’ll get tissues” he continued as he swivelled off the side of the bed and stood up next to us. His cock was still erect and looked lovely bobbling around, still dripping, as he leant forward to pull some tissues from a drawer at the side of the bed. “You should apologise, you’re such a messy bugger” D said as she sat up at the other end of the bed.

I lifted myself up as well, “No, no, it was lovely. You don’t have to apologise” I told him as I accepted his handful of tissues. Hubby was sitting up on the other side of me, and accepted more tissues from M, so that he could wipe up his own “mess” from my tummy.

D lay down beside me reaching over to pull me closer against her, kissing me first on the cheek and saying “you are just beautiful”, before kissing me full on the lips again, just as she had earlier. “Thank you” I replied. “You are both beautiful too.” She sat up on one elbow and said “Have you ever done that before? Did you enjoy?”

I giggled “No, and Yes” as my reply. “I feel very greedy, it’s all been about me” I said. M sat back down on the bed and said “Well it’s still early yet . . . !”

As I say, there are more of my Diary entries still waiting for me to find the spare-time to finish, and publish, “More Adventures” . . . but finding that time is so difficult! . . . after all, my “spare-time” is my “fun-time”!!!

And just in case you prefer pictures instead of words, I thought I would include another occasion when I was blinded by the light . . . this time the light from the flash of Hubby’s camera as I stood on my favourite Grecian Steps around this time last year.

For more blindingly hot stories, you simply must visit this week’s Wicked Wednesday from lapping at the button below!

rainbowcircle1-200Xxx – K


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Modest Date Night #sinfulsunday

I’m just on my way out for a Sinful Saturday date night this evening,
and I always hope to make an impression . . . from the moment I arrive . . .


. . . to the moment I leave !!!


. . . and, of course, for all of the moments in-between !!!

See who else is having Sinful fun this weekend by smacking the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Modesty Ablaze “Twice As Nice” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn


“Twice As Nice” is my newest video at and is especially for all those people who have been reminding me that I’d promised a “Part Three” from my truly wonderful “Happy Birthday” evening with Lover No.14 last year.

Whilst the video itself is from some months ago, I still remember . . . and often re-live . . . that amazing evening and following morning just like it was yesterday. It was such fun . . . such amazing fun . . . that I know I will never forget it.  And I hope you will get a sense of that fun . . . and passion . . . from watching it too.

Like all of the #realworldsex videos at Make Love Not Porn . . . and I mean all of the videos there, not just mine . . . I think that “Twice As Nice” shows how much fun, and how natural and fulfilling, sex can really be.

So much so that once the fun starts we all just forget about the camera and lose ourselves completely in each other and the fun times we are having.  In fact at one point Hubby is obviously so enjoying the fun that Lover 14 and I are having . . . that he slightly loses the direction of the camera! But I’m sure you will still be able to sense exactly what was happening at the time!!!

Plugged with my special present

As I mentioned, this was part of my Happy Birthday weekend, and . . . as if the whole occasion wasn’t a birthday present enough . . . the actual little gift I was bought for the occasion, makes a special appearance. It’s not so little really, but it is rather lovely though, and Lover 14 certainly put it to good use!!!

Oh . . . and why I have called the video “Twice As Nice” ? No, it’s not because there were two orgasms . . . there were lots, lots more than that! LOL!!! . . . it’s because . . . Two Cocks are better than One . . . of course!


The MakeLickjob and Martini Love Not Porn post recently previewed “Twice As Nice” as:

In part three of her “Happy Birthday” evening with Lover no. 14, we see Modesty having a GREAT time. Full of floggers, plugs and wands, (oh my!) and a lover she has an extra crazy connection with (of course), this is the perfect way for Modesty to celebrate a birthday! In part three of this rendezvous, we see lots of succulent #downtown action, before an #explosive climax!

You can view my short introduction to “Twice As Nice” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . . . . and, as I mention in that video, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction.

There lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Twice As Nice” is my 26th video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my twenty-six #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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I really do hope you will enjoy “Twice As Nice” as much as I did!!!

Xxx – K


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For Her and Him #Boobday Friday


My #Boobday post today probably isn’t what you were expecting from the title, but . . . whenever I’m entertaining “special friends” . . . I do like to offer special choices. After all, sharing is nice isn’t it and I think you’ll probably find lots of other sharing boobies at Hyacinth’s Boobday page today, where:

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Oh . . . and P.S. The Her’s and His cards are courtesy of The Fantasy Box . . . and it certainly is a Fantasy I’ve actually enjoyed . . . on lots of occasions!!!

Xxx – K


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It matters to me #wickedwednesday


This Wednesday’s theme at Marie’s #wickedwednesday is “Nothing Really Matters”. Based around a recent song of the same title . . . but a statement that can be interpreted in lots of different ways.

Because . . . of course . . . so many things in our world do, and should, matter!

BUT . . .  sometimes when one is caught in a particular moment of fun and enjoyment, or love and lust, or attraction and affection . . . it is a wonderful release to just completely give-in to those feelings. To let yourself go and to give your whole being to that precise moment in time . . . moments when nothing else really matters at all. Just to share and enjoy, and to give back to those you are with, the pleasure and fun you are experiencing.

And, as you can probably gather from the snapshot above,  for me at this particular moment in time, nothing else mattered at all!!!

And I expect you will discover lots of other things that matter . . . or not, as the case may be . . .  by visiting Wicked Wednesday from the button below!!!


P.S. The snapshot above is the “prequel” of the “sequel” I shared last weekend at Sinful Sunday. Both of which are taken from a new video which I hope to tell you about  soon on my Modesty Ablaze Videos page.

 Xxx – K


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Sinfully Swinging @ #sinfulsunday


It’s been so, so busy lately . . . but I still managed some “Girl On A Swing” fun on a very, very Sinful Sunday!!!

And it really was such (sinful) fun that I may just soon share the . . . prequel . . .
if I’m asked nicely!

You are sure to see lots more sinful fun at this weeks Sinful Sunday from pushing on the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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