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A Modest Whisper #wickedwednesday

Sometimes those spur-of-the-moment . . . moments . . . are the most exhilarating and most exhausting!!!

Loud, twisting and thrashing gasps and screams and then . . . at that moment of orgasm . . . just rolling over onto one’s side, shuddering and collapsing onto the sheets with quiet groans and whispers!!!

For more quiet whispers at this week’s Wicked Wednesday simply tap
on the button below!!!


Xxx – K


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White Lace #Boobday Friday

I do love lace! It makes one feel . . . well you know . . . lady-like.
And I do love this particular white lace.

I may not wear it often, but when I do it does make me feel nice!!!

  And I’m sure that when you visit Hyacinth’s Boobday Friday today, you will feel nice too, because as she says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s
lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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Modesty Ablaze reviews the Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt from @UberKinky


We all enjoy having new additions to our wardrobes occasionally don’t we . . . well, actually not just occasionally for me, I enjoy new additions all the time!!!

Because new clothes always make one feel special, and sexy . . . and this lovely new Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt certainly makes me feel like that, and has quickly become one of my favourites when opening my wardrobe for a kinky evening out.


It arrived from my favourite on-line Kink store, Uberkinky, a few weeks ago and I was instantly captivated by the naughty, open-back look . . . and feel . . . as I slid it on.   It felt just lovely, sexy and clingy without being tight or uncomfortable. In fact the fit was absolutely perfect and the front zip fastening makes it so quick and simple to put on . . . and to take off  LOL!!!

The double-stitched shiny PVC waistband is 2¼ inches wide and adds a stylish look to the trim, whilst the skirt itself is made from that lovely polyester-spandex-type material which seems to just stretch and cling in all the right places, complimenting one’s curves rather than squeezing them tightly and making my bumps too obvious. I like wearing tight rubber and latex, but often feel my curves are being pushed and squeezed out of shape. But this skirt just feels so comfortable and shapely to wear and I’ve always, ALWAYS got such lovely comments whenever I’ve worn it.

But, of course, a lot of those lovely comments are about the look when I turn-around because, this Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt has the most wonderfully naughty open-back to show off one’s bottom. The open-cut shape just seems to perfectly accommodate my cheeks. It’s almost as though that “handmade” feature was in fact made-to-measure . . . but I’m sure that’s just because of the way the material stretches and clings so naturally.


The skirt arrives with the three removeable straps attached of course. They are secured in place with popper studs on each side of the perfectly hemmed “openness”. The straps are each 1¼ inches wide . . . my “modesty straps” I call them . . . and are spaced equally apart to allow for teasing and tantalising glimpses of lots of one’s bare bottom. And, should you decide to display even more bare skin, as I have on the several occasions I’ve worn them out, the straps are easily and effortlessly detached from their studs.


I’ve started my evening with the straps on, and then as I’ve become a little more daring (naughty???), I’ve discretely removed them and popped them into my handbag. Perhaps starting out by leaving just the middle one attached . . . and then, later in the evening, removing that one too!


And I can certainly tell you I’ve then had even more attention . . . and nice comments . . . as the evening has gone on!!!

The whole skirt is so lovely and light, that it can be easily folded and carried in your bag if you’re travelling to a club or event and planning to change on arrival, and you prefer not to wear it on the way there!

The skirt is supplied with a complete spare set of studs, and another thoughtful and lovely touch, are the hanger-loops stitched into the PVC waistband. In fact the quality and whole “feel” of this lovely skirt is just wonderful, and the sizing chart . . . available from the product-link below . . . offers one of the most comprehensive and descriptive size ranges I’ve ever come across.

So, needless to say, I shall definitely be adding more from the Noir Handmade range. And if you are looking for some new stylish, sexy . . . and kinky . . . apparel for yourself, or your kinky partner in fact, . . . I suggest you make the Noir Handmade page at Uberkinky >here< your very next click!!!

The Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt with Open Back and PVC Details:
Modesty Rating:
 10 out of 10
Pros: Stylish, sexy, slinky, sexy, kinky. Lovely to feel and wear, curve-hugging but in just the “right” way. Lovely quality stitching. Oh . . . and did I say “sexy”!!!
Cons: I’ve been having too much fun wearing it to notice any.
Material: Polyester Spandex (elastane) skirt with PVC trim and detail.
Sizing: Available from X-Small to 10XL (see the sizing chart from the product link below!).
Colour: Black.
After-care: Handwash separately in cold water.
Supplier Product Link: Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt with Open Back and PVC Details
More from Noir at Uberkinky: Noir Handmade
The Modesty Video Review: Now you are being naughty! But ask me nicely and you just never know!


The Noir Handmade Wet Look Skirt was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.


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A Modest Thank You #sinfulsunday


It’s always lovely to receive a surprise gift in the post . . . it makes one feel special and nice . . . especially when the gift is as lovely as this Black Net Body Stocking!!!

Normally the gifts are followed, or even preceded, by an email message from the sender. But this lovely present arrived recently without any notification before
. . . or since . . . from the person who sent it.

So, as it as made me feel very sinful whenever I’ve slipped it on, I thought I would model it here today by way of a “thank you”.

To see lot’s more sinfulness this Sunday just gently, and respectfully please,
kiss the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s.More “thank you’s” await for the sender of this lovely gift. Just email to let me know if it was you . . . and I shall reply by return!!!


Filed under Female Dominatrix, Fetish Fashion, Latex & Lace, Sexy Lingerie, Sinful Sunday

A Modest Red Bra #Boobday Friday


I had a nice new bra and panty-girdle set arrive in the post this week.
A gift from a “Mystery Admirer” . . . he obviously knows that Red and Black
are my favourite colours.

So, by way of a “thank you” . . . today seems the perfect day to share them here and at #Boobday Friday, because as Hyacinth says:

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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The Modesty Ablaze Valentine’s Day Bulletin No.1

Valentine’s Day . . . you all know it’s coming soon don’t you . . . don’t you? . . . Well, just in case you might forget, I’ll be reminding you over the next week or so. Starting gently, from today and then slowly building to a crescendo . . . and you know just how much I REALLY LOVE slowly building to a crescendo!!!


So, to help start things off, the lovely people at The Fantasy Box, who I reviewed >here< before Christmas, have just launched a series of Special Edition Boxes just in time for Valentine’s day!

You can see them all on their site at

ModestyAblazeFantasyBoxMisdirectThere are four different Special Edition Fantasy Boxes to choose from . . . I’d like to try them all of course, but I’m especially intrigued by the sound of the ‘Valentine’s Day Mis-Direction – it’s Payback time’ box . . . after all, I do often enjoy some naughty and fun payback time!!!

But whichever option you choose . . . and why not choose ALL FOUR, one for every other night of the whole Valentine’s week (with an evening’s rest and recuperation in between!) . . . oohh where was I before I got all excited? Oh yes, they tell me you must be quick because you need to order this weekend (by the 31st) to be sure of getting your box(es) in time.

And they’ve even given us a special code to use to get 10% off

Order now to ensure it arrives in time, and get 10% of with the code 

Oh, and look, one of the other boxes is for a Valentine’s Day Red Party! Perhaps if you are good, and do as I ask, I might just invite you all to a Red Party of my very own soon.


So . . . clickity quick . . . don’t miss this wonderful opportunity to gift your loved one a special, sexprising, Valentine’s Treat. You’re bound to make a big impression!!!

You may get a little hint of what you will find when you open your choice of Fantasy Box, from my Video Review of the Fantasy Box concept at the beginning of December by clicking the screen below.


Now off you go . . . get clicking on that 10% OFF Voucher Code . . . and keep yourself up-to-date with all the new “Fantasy Boxes” on their website . . . and although I don’t do FB (well I do, but not this sort of FB) . . . I believe they also have an FB page at:

Bye for now . . . I expect you all to be reporting back though!!!
Xxx – K

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Mirror Mirror @ #sinfulsunday

ModestyAblazeMirrorJan18Mirror, mirror on the wall  . . . of all the things that you must have seen,
what is the most Sinful of all?

Our premier-room mirror during a wonderfully fun evening with our most special of special friends last November, as we joked about what sights those mirrors must have seen.

You are bound to find lots more Sinful Sunday fun by
gazing into the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


Filed under BDSM fun, Female Dominatrix, Fetish Fashion, Latex & Lace, Sexy Lingerie, Sinful Sunday, womens Erotica

Lovely Latex from & Lacey Lingerie @ Buttress & Snatch

I know we are all comfortable with buying clothes and accessories on the internet nowadays, but I still find it’s nice to have a personal recommendation or to physically see and touch and feel something. At least it is for me . . . and especially so when it comes to my latex and lingerie.

ModestyHonour1So I was really excited to discover two new (to me anyway) companies during my visit to The Great British Tatoo Exhibition recently.

I love latex, but for me it is just one of those items that I just have to see and feel so that I know it is right for me. It always looks so pretty and stylish in those on-line photographs with all those slim and shapely young models. But however much I may like the look,  I am never confident if it would actually be “right” for me. So it was wonderful to discover that Honour had a booth at the show . . . and this “Glamour Corselette” immediately caught my eye.

Lilly, one of the charming young Honour girls, was extremely helpful and suggested a size that she assured me would be the perfect fit. And I’m happy to say she was right . . . it just felt so wonderful to slide into and I just loved the stylish little bow-tie. Sometimes latex can be difficult for me to easily get in and out of (my bumps are not in the right places!) but with a liberal sprinkling of talcum powder, or my “special latex-friendly body moisturiser”, I’ve never had any problems when I’ve worn it since. The shoulder straps are adjustable and it has underwired bust cups which just seem to fit so comfortably and make it feel as though it could have been custom-made especially for me.

ModestyHonour4Hubby was transfixed by lots of the other items on display . . . but I told him I WANTED “this one” . . . and I  received lots of nice compliments when I wore it out to one of our club-visits recently. It has suspender clips attached at the hem (I have them tucked-up here for these photographs) so I wore it with simple black stockings.

And then imagine my delight when just two stalls along from Honour, I discovered the absolutely wonderful lingerie and swimwear of Buttress & Snatch.

ModestyStairsSnatchBumI just LOVE clothing that is different, and fun, and stylish!!! And it’s not very often that I find all three of those elements combined. But finding the Buttress & Snatch stall was like discovering a treasure trove of all sorts of wonderfully colourful and intriguing garments that made me just want to stop and feel them all.

Buttress and Snatch Tassle Skirt Knickers

Hubby’s initial reaction was that the clothing seemed “out-of-place” at such an event and he wanted to lead me straight past. But I exclaimed that they “were all so sexy” . . . and I immediately fell in love with a pair of beautiful black lace knickers with a tassel-skirt attachment. “These are lovely, so unusual” I showed him.

Rachel, the wonderfully friendly owner, explained that the garments were all custom-made . . . normally to order, and that this was the first time she had exhibited at a show of this nature.

I was completely enthralled and enchanted by so many of the unique items hanging from her stall . . . they had an almost vintage, retro look about them, yet every item seemed to exclaim “I am a one-off, I am yours, no-one else will look like this”. Rachel explained that her company had been making lingerie for almost 15 years and that her garments had been worn by people like Madonna, Neneh Cherry, Kate Upton and Kate Moss.

But I wanted those knickers . . . before any other Kates (or Katies) came along!

And they are so lovely. They have this wonderful tassle-skirt which can be worn at the front (see my picture above) for those more “modest” moments . . . or reversed to cover one’s bottom (as in my photo below) and display the delightful sheer black lace at the front, and . . . encourage me to wiggle my bottom more!

Buttress and Snatch Lingerie

I just LOVE them . . . they make me feel special . . . and unique, whenever I wear them.

And even better for me having met Rachel, albeit very briefly, I immediately felt at ease in her company and knew I was talking to someone who has a passion for what they do. I love her story (Our Way) and the history of her Buttress and Snatch.

I’m sure I will ordering more from Rachel’s sewing machine very soon.

So, if like me, you like something a little different and unusual . . . I certainly do recommend you explore both of these exciting Latex and Lingerie companies.


Buttress and


The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adapt at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me sexy clothes and lingerie . . . and sexy toys . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.


Xxx – Katie


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