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Modest Beds #sinfulsunday

Beds . . . I’ve lost count of how many I’ve laid on over the years. Especially as
I’ve often been in more than one on the same day!!!

Whether just indulging in mirrored-ceiling fun, whilst running a bath.

Or recovering, re-energising . . . and admiring the view.

Or maybe standing-up to stretch one’s tired limbs.

Or, perhaps just relaxing and sharing the moment !!!

So yes a lovely . . . firm . . . bed is certainly one of my favourite, regular,
everyday things!
And “regular, everyday things” is this week’s topic at Sinful Sunday . . . see for yourself by gently pulling at the lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Modest Exposure Pt.2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

If you have viewed my recent “A Modest Exposure” real world sex video at Make Love Not Porn, you will have gathered that there was more fun to come. Lots and lots more fun actually . . .

Well I’m thrilled to tell you that I have just uploaded Part 2 of that amazing evening to my pages at Make Love Not Porn Dot TV.

And it continues on from where we all left off in Part One . . . with more champagne and more loving kisses . . . I’m sure you can guess just where . . . and with all three of us celebrating our own special Love-In !!!

Things start out with some more “Exposure” by the windows . . . before moving back to the sofa where we become entangled in a loving . . . threesome circle . . . of fun and indulgence.

Lover No.14 always inspires that sense of naughtiness in us . . . and with lots of fingers and thumbs and kisses and tongues . . . I’m soon engulfed in lovely, if somewhat muffled, orgasmic pleasure. And face-timing certainly takes on a whole new meaning!!!

We do eventually take a short break to re-energise ourselves with more champagne and snacks . . . but as you can probably imagine, it’s not too long before our fun play time begins again . . . though I think we shall probably save that for a Part 3 of “A Modest Exposure”.

You can view my introduction to “A Modest Exposure Part Two” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“A Modest Exposure”  is my 44th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more (much more) to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my forty-four #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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A Modest Tree #sinfulsunday

Twas the night before Christmas . . . well, in this case, the night before
the night before actually.

All was quiet . . . all was still . . .

. . . until Modesty Ablaze arrived to turn-on the lights on the tree
in the park on the hill!!!

Wishing everyone here at Sinful Sunday . . . and everyone who follows me here at Modesty Ablaze . . . a loving, sharing, peaceful . . . and FUN . . . Christmas!!!

See who else is sharing this Christmas Eve by lovingly kissing the lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “A Modest Exposure” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

When Lover No.14 joked that I should arrive at his plush hotel dressed in “as little as possible” . . . I took that as I challenge that I couldn’t possibly refuse.

The hotel was right in the middle of central London . . . so about a 30 minute Taxi journey from our home . . . and, as it was just a couple of weeks ago and the start of some really cold weather here, I had to wear a coat . . . the coat I’m wearing in my video intro above actually . . . but that was all I wore, just my coat
. . . oh, and my black-net hold-ups of course.

I don’t know who was more excited, Hubby or I, as we sat together in the Black Cab, knowing I was completely naked beneath my coat as we travelled slowly through the West End traffic, chatting away to the driver . . . London’s Black Cab drivers are always chatty and friendly.

And, as I’m sure you can imagine, there was lots more excitement to follow after we arrived and joined No.14 in his room . . . with champagne on ice and lots of fun and abandonment ahead of us.

And lots . . . and lots . . . of that fun is featured in my newest Real World Sex video at Make Love Not Porn.

I’ve called it “A Modest Exposure” . . . and you will see just why I’ve given it that title as you watch the movie unfold.

But, first things first . . . I start out with a little mini-tour of the very fancy hotel room . . . before teasingly opening the shoulder bag I’d brought along and showing No.14 the array of toys I’d packed before leaving home.

No.14’s room directly overlooked one of the busiest mainline train stations into London . . . so once we’d popped-open and poured the champagne . . . we began to admire the view and indulge ourselves in some of that fun exposure, that I mentioned earlier.

Watching the trains arrive and depart in such close-proximity outside our window, just seemed to heighten our playtime fun and excitement even more, as I’m sure you will be able to tell when you watch my “Modest Exposure”.

As you can probably guess . . . this video is just the first of several that we recorded over the course of the evening . . . and if you watch this introductory video directly from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn . . . you will see some “Free Peek Clips” from the movie itself included at the end of the intro.

You can view my introduction to “A Modest Exposure” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“A Modest Exposure”  is my 43rd video released on Make Love Not Porn with more (much more) to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my forty-three #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Neighbourly Love #wickedwednesday

This week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Neighbours” and it got me thinking this morning, not so much of the people next door, but rather neighbours as in a sense of community and like-mindedness. A sharing of thoughts and experiences, trials and tribulations, adventures and celebrations with people of, broadly speaking of course, similar interests.

I started Modesty Ablaze-ing here, all those years ago, for just those very reasons . . . to celebrate the wonderful sense of empowerment and enjoyment my “lifestyle” had given me. I wanted to shout to all who may listen, that it shouldn’t matter what size and shape we are, what different desires or fantasies we may have . . . or what we may feel the expectations or pressures from those around us are. I wanted to scream out that we all have the right, the necessity actually, to enjoy those things that make us feel good. To enjoy our sexuality . . . to embrace and express it. And, that as long as our relationships and interactions with our “neighbours” were honest and consensual . . . and responsible . . . then we shouldn’t feel ashamed about having fun.

And over the years those feelings have been strengthened through this wonderful neighbourly community . . . meeting on-line, and in-person, some simply lovely people . . . so I wanted to take this opportunity to say “thank you for sharing” to just some of them.

So, in no particular order of excitement . . .

@kay_jaybee  – the most arousing and evocative erotic writing I have ever read and re-read . . . and read all over again!

Cindy Gallop of @Makelovenotporn  – the most inspirational and motivational public speaker and advocate of sexual freedom of expression, I have ever heard.

@holden_cammie – stylish and inspiring photo-shoots and backdrops.

@girlonthenet  – always entertaining, amusing and wonderfully direct “wordage”.

@Exposing40  – constantly creative and empowering photos.

@RebelsNotes  Marie Rebelle and Molly @Mollysdailykiss  for their fun Meme’s and awesome energy and ability to post daily on so many different views and subject-matter.

@TabithaErotica  for her passionate writing, artistry and photos on all things erotica.

@BibulousOne  his Pain as Pleasure postings are so intelligently descriptive of not just the physical, but more importantly, the psychological and emotional aspect of submission and domination.

@sassycat38  for her fun, and inspiring, approach to her photos . . . oh and those incredible eyes (and amazing collection of shoes).

@ZenNudist  aka @Kilted_Wookie   – interesting, intriguing, insightful writings . . . and, I’m not normally one for a hairy-chest, but this gentleman’s photo-posts often prove the exception to my rule.

@ElliottHenry5  of The Life of Elliott – general naughtiness and sense of fun
. . . and “penile-adventurousness”

So, if you are not already familiar with any of the above Neighbours, I urge you to investigate and introduce yourself!!!

For more sharing thoughts and experiences of Neighbours visit this week’s Wicked Wednesday by knocking on the button below!!!

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Xxx – K

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A Modest Ice Bucket #sinfulsunday

I always try to make the most of an over-night stay in a posh hotel. So one of the first tasks is to set-off along the hallway to find the nearest . . .

Ice-making machine, because of course, I’m expecting . . .

. . . things to get quite “hot” during the evening ahead.

So, with my freshly-filled bucket, and chilled champagne . . . the first of several bottles . . . here’s to a lovely evening of fun “over-indulgence” ahead. Cheers!!!

To toast more over-indulgence at this week’s Sinful Sunday
just stir the sinful lips below!

Sinful Sunday

P.s. I’m hoping that my search along the hotel hallways above will qualify for the “Ice Machine” category at Jade’s wonderful and fun Scavenger Hunt pages!

Join lots of my earlier Scavenger Hunt searches at my Scavenger Listings page . . . where you will discover over 100 different locations on my
Scavenger Slideshow page as well!!!   

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxx – K

Xxx – K

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Modestly Over Exposed #sinfulsunday

I’ve never been very good with photography . . . so this week’s Sinful Sunday theme of “Over Exposed” has left me at a complete loss! Especially as I had an important function . . . a Friday Fun Function actually . . . in a lovely hotel directly overlooking Waterloo station last night, which meant I just haven’t had the time to give photography much thought this weekend.
Though, of course, I did indulge in Over Exposure of a different sort!!!

Now we often hear of complaints about train delays and cancellations don’t we? But although I was quite busy and not really paying too much attention, I must say I was very impressed! It seemed that every time I glanced down, another train was arriving or departing. “Just like cock-work” I said at one point.
“Oh, I meant clock-work, I shouldn’t be speaking with my mouthful.” I quickly corrected myself.

And I could quite clearly see a sense of satisfaction . . . and appreciation . . . on the faces of some of the passengers in their seats as they reached the climax of their journey.

Even through our sound-proofed windows (just as well!!!) . . . I’m sure I heard the Station Master announcing “The 19.45 Express from Waterloo is about to . . . depart from Platform 14. Calling at . . . ”

But anyway . . . to bring things back on track . . . if we click on the lips below we are sure to find the sort of Over Exposed that Molly really had in mind for this week’s theme!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Inked #wickedwednesday

No . . . just teasing as you can probably tell!!!

I have often fantasised about having a tattoo though . . . it’s just that I’ve always been too nervous to actually have one done.

However, as this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is Tattoo’s . . . and as I’ve always been so envious of Marie’s wonderful ink-work . . . I just couldn’t resist joining in!

But I’m sure there will be lots more elaborations on real Tattoo’s from tapping on the button below!!!

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Xxx – K

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More Than Just the Sex: 5 Reasons Why Younger Men & Older Women Are the Perfect Match

If you have visited me here occasionally before, you will know how much fun I have in my regular evenings with one of my younger lovers.

So my curiousity . . .  and attention . . . was immediately drawn by the “More Than Just the Sex: 5 Reasons Why Younger Men & Older Women Are the Perfect Match” article I was recently sent (see below), and which I find myself nodding along in agreement to, as I read. Not to mention becoming aroused all over again at so many pleasant memories!


Well, okay, it is partially about the sex.

Times, are changing. LGBTQ rights are making progress and younger women are dating men on television. Consider Alicia Florrick’s one-night stand with her campaign manager (gasp, a double-whammy) from the ever popular legal drama, “The Good Wife”.

For the rest of us mid-life mortals still biting our lips every time a pretty young (male) thing walks by, you hereby have scientific and actual permission to go after what you want.

Or, at least, 5 reasons worth considering, if satisfaction and happiness are something you’ve been taught to just deny, deny, deny.

But, everyone needs to start somewhere.

  1. Lasting Longer
    For all you newbies and monogamy converts, there’s something in it for you: those dates and encounters that start casually between an older women and younger man are much more likely to end up turning into a lasting relationship. While “4ever” may not be quite forever, there’s a greater chance, according to studies for the symbiotic affinity younger men have for older women to transform the connection into a long-term relationship.
  2. Millennial Men Are Setting a New Standard
    It’s not just women’s social status, attitudes and expectations that are changing alongside their newfound power and professionalism. It’s also the status of younger guys. There is a lot more flexibility and younger men are more likely to be “open-minded” – and this doesn’t only have to do with their youth. It’s also because millennials, as a group, tend to be more self-reliant, highly educated and entrepreneurial. So if she’s dating a millennial man, he’s more like “young money”.
  3. The Tables Have Turned
    Usually, older women who date younger men are painted as desperate to cling on to a notion of youth that’s long passed them. Or else, they’re just closet-dominatrixes. After all, popular culture has a Maddona-Whore complex in the age of the 2010s for a reason, okay? But, now, it’s younger men who are actively attracted to older women, specifically singling them out as potential dating material – and are more than willing to take commitment to the next level with them. And it’s not because they have mommy issues, either. It’s because older women in this day and age tend to be financially and emotionally stable.
  4. Baggage Check – It’s no secret: older men tend to have baggage – and masks for hiding the baggage. The baggage is usually a couple of (failed) marriages, losses in life, emotional stagnation, teenagers and alimony. And their masks have been perfected over a century. Younger guys are not only less likely to have accumulated these fodder-for-a-therapist issues, they’re also less likely to internalize them so deeply or have it affect them as intensely as older men. Seriously though, younger guys have a greater tendency to roll with the punches – for now. So make hay while the sunshines.
  1. Older Women Make Younger Men Feel…Sexy! Another myth we’re turning inside out, folks: it’s actually younger men who end up feeling way sexier in a relationship with older women. See, older women who are confident enough are confident enough to go for younger guys. They don’t need a man, they want a man. They’ve lived with their beautiful bodies for long enough to know what they’re capable of, what their best features are and why they should respect themselves. Which means they’re more willing and able to tell their younger male counterparts how sexy they find their bodies, or their minds, or their voices. It’s often the younger man that will blush and feel shy and yet delighted at the genuine attention and care an older woman showers him with.

What’s the Big Deal, Anyway?

As an older woman, you’re likely to encounter many “boy toy” comments. And they’ll mostly come from other older men or (particularly judgemental) younger women. This happens because these groups feel threatened.

So consider this spin: you’re so in charge of your own desires, it actually threatens others who secretly want what you want but are “too afraid”  to go and get it.

Let that really sit for a moment. Now, if you’re feeling more mischievous and inspired than ever before, head online to Milf Area, gather a few close girlfriends and head to a local clubbing event dressed to the nines or chat up that cutie in the gym.

After all, what is that all those younger guys are saying?
“YOLO”: You only live once, right?


I am so happy to enter into such a fun collaboration with Milf Area because . . . as I mentioned in my opening paragraph . . .  I find myself nodding along in agreement with much of the above. With the rider of course that, as with ANY relationship, the key factor should always be open and honest communication between both (or in my case, all) parties involved. For as long as one’s desires, intentions and expectations are clear good, and fun things, normally happen!!!

Xxx – K   

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A Modest Wives Tale #Boobday Friday

Have you heard that old wives’ tale that . . . apparently . . . if a buttercup glows under one’s chin it means you like butter???

Well I do like soft and squishy . . . slippery and slidey . . . spreadable and tasty!!! So . . . does this buttercup appear to be glowing to you???

I am sure there will be lots more glowing boobies on display at today’s Boobday Friday. Because as Hyacinth says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

And you will be able to view more different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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