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Modestly Looking Up #Boobday Friday

I always like to look at things from a different viewpoint or perspective!!!

And I’m sure you will find more different views at today’s Boobday Friday, because as Hyacinth says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

For more Boobday perspectives, this and every Friday, simply click on Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Summertime Fun Pt.3” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

As you may have gathered from my two previous Summertime Fun #realworldsex videos at MakeLoveNotPorn . . . and several of my recent posts here . . . I had an absolutely magical vacation this summer.

I just didn’t want it to end . . . and even on the last morning, after we’d packed our bags for the flight home, and we were sitting on the balcony finishing our last bottle of wine . . . I started getting horny all over again just thinking of all the wonderful fun we’d had.

With just an hour or so to spare before we had to leave for the airport, I was feeling so hot and sticky I insisted on dragging Hubby back to the bedroom for “one last cuddle”!

And even though he said his batteries were running low . . . LOL !!! . . . we managed a last-gasp(ing) finale to our holiday (with the help of an ice-cube or two to try to cool me down!)

I never like to be rushed, so although Hubby reminded me that we couldn’t be late for our check-in, I was too lost in my memories to care!!!

But we made it, of course, with just enough time to quickly record an introductory video . . . actually at the airport (click the preview screen above) . . . for “Summertime Fun Part 3 – Last Gasp Goodbye”.

And if you watch the introductory video directly from my profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn some free-peek clips from Summertime Fun Part 3 have been included at the end of the intro. It’s free to register at MakeLoveNotPorn where you are sure to discover lots more videos from like-minded people from all over the world . . . all celebrating, and enjoying, their own desires and risqué #realworldsex moments!

You can view my introduction to “Summertime Fun Part Three” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Summertime Fun Part Three”  is my 41st video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my forty-one #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Summertime Fun Pt.2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

As I said a few weeks ago in my introduction to Summertime Fun Part 1, being on holiday always makes me feel relaxed . . . and usually very horny.

But being horny on holiday is not just about being naughty on the beach . . . it’s also about evenings out to a local taverna, enjoying lovely food and fine wine . . . before returning to our wonderful apartment, to continue the fun with some indulgent me-time play and wild cocktails.

And in “Summertime Fun Part Two” I do just that, indulging in several, long, me-time moments on the bed . . . and the sofa . . . with my favourite holiday-toys.

Sharing is caring of course . . . so I eventually reward Hubby for his patience in having to press the “record” button for so long . . . by instructing him to join me on the sofa.

And after another gasping climaxtic explosion, I reward the both of us, by concockting my very own Tequila Sunset. And no that concockting is not a spelling mistake, you’ll have to view the video to see just what I mean!

And if you watch the introductory video directly from my profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn some free-peek clips from Summertime Fun Part 2 have been included at the end of the intro. It’s free to register at MakeLoveNotPorn where you are sure to discover lots more videos from like-minded people from all over the world . . . all celebrating, and enjoying, their own desires and risqué #realworldsex moments!

You can view my introduction to “Summertime Fun Part Two” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Summertime Fun”  is my 40th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my forty #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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More Than Just the Sex: 5 Reasons Why Younger Men & Older Women Are the Perfect Match

If you have visited me here occasionally before, you will know how much fun I have in my regular evenings with one of my younger lovers.

So my curiousity . . .  and attention . . . was immediately drawn by the “More Than Just the Sex: 5 Reasons Why Younger Men & Older Women Are the Perfect Match” article I was recently sent (see below), and which I find myself nodding along in agreement to, as I read. Not to mention becoming aroused all over again at so many pleasant memories!


Well, okay, it is partially about the sex.

Times, are changing. LGBTQ rights are making progress and younger women are dating men on television. Consider Alicia Florrick’s one-night stand with her campaign manager (gasp, a double-whammy) from the ever popular legal drama, “The Good Wife”.

For the rest of us mid-life mortals still biting our lips every time a pretty young (male) thing walks by, you hereby have scientific and actual permission to go after what you want.

Or, at least, 5 reasons worth considering, if satisfaction and happiness are something you’ve been taught to just deny, deny, deny.

But, everyone needs to start somewhere.

  1. Lasting Longer
    For all you newbies and monogamy converts, there’s something in it for you: those dates and encounters that start casually between an older women and younger man are much more likely to end up turning into a lasting relationship. While “4ever” may not be quite forever, there’s a greater chance, according to studies for the symbiotic affinity younger men have for older women to transform the connection into a long-term relationship.
  2. Millennial Men Are Setting a New Standard
    It’s not just women’s social status, attitudes and expectations that are changing alongside their newfound power and professionalism. It’s also the status of younger guys. There is a lot more flexibility and younger men are more likely to be “open-minded” – and this doesn’t only have to do with their youth. It’s also because millennials, as a group, tend to be more self-reliant, highly educated and entrepreneurial. So if she’s dating a millennial man, he’s more like “young money”.
  3. The Tables Have Turned
    Usually, older women who date younger men are painted as desperate to cling on to a notion of youth that’s long passed them. Or else, they’re just closet-dominatrixes. After all, popular culture has a Maddona-Whore complex in the age of the 2010s for a reason, okay? But, now, it’s younger men who are actively attracted to older women, specifically singling them out as potential dating material – and are more than willing to take commitment to the next level with them. And it’s not because they have mommy issues, either. It’s because older women in this day and age tend to be financially and emotionally stable.
  4. Baggage Check – It’s no secret: older men tend to have baggage – and masks for hiding the baggage. The baggage is usually a couple of (failed) marriages, losses in life, emotional stagnation, teenagers and alimony. And their masks have been perfected over a century. Younger guys are not only less likely to have accumulated these fodder-for-a-therapist issues, they’re also less likely to internalize them so deeply or have it affect them as intensely as older men. Seriously though, younger guys have a greater tendency to roll with the punches – for now. So make hay while the sunshines.
  1. Older Women Make Younger Men Feel…Sexy! Another myth we’re turning inside out, folks: it’s actually younger men who end up feeling way sexier in a relationship with older women. See, older women who are confident enough are confident enough to go for younger guys. They don’t need a man, they want a man. They’ve lived with their beautiful bodies for long enough to know what they’re capable of, what their best features are and why they should respect themselves. Which means they’re more willing and able to tell their younger male counterparts how sexy they find their bodies, or their minds, or their voices. It’s often the younger man that will blush and feel shy and yet delighted at the genuine attention and care an older woman showers him with.

What’s the Big Deal, Anyway?

As an older woman, you’re likely to encounter many “boy toy” comments. And they’ll mostly come from other older men or (particularly judgemental) younger women. This happens because these groups feel threatened.

So consider this spin: you’re so in charge of your own desires, it actually threatens others who secretly want what you want but are “too afraid”  to go and get it.

Let that really sit for a moment. Now, if you’re feeling more mischievous and inspired than ever before, head online to Milf Area, gather a few close girlfriends and head to a local clubbing event dressed to the nines or chat up that cutie in the gym.

After all, what is that all those younger guys are saying?
“YOLO”: You only live once, right?


I am so happy to enter into such a fun collaboration with Milf Area because . . . as I mentioned in my opening paragraph . . .  I find myself nodding along in agreement with much of the above. With the rider of course that, as with ANY relationship, the key factor should always be open and honest communication between both (or in my case, all) parties involved. For as long as one’s desires, intentions and expectations are clear good, and fun things, normally happen!!!

Xxx – K   

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A Modest Kneed #sinfulsunday

Sometimes . . . when one’s submissives have purposefully, and willfully, misbehaved . . . there is nothing else for it but a firm, over-the-knee spanking!!!

And, once I’ve finished here, I shall visit this week’s Sinful Sunday, from smacking the lips below, to check-out everyone else’s needs and desires.
Though only . . . as I say . . . once I’ve finished here!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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Modestly Extreme #sinfulsunday

“Do you think they know I am on my way?” I giggled to Hubby as we pulled over for a comfort-stop on our way to the beach.

“No, I’m sure they mean things like Water-Skiing and Para-Sailing” Hubby replied. “Not the sort of ‘water-sports’ you have in mind!”

“Oh, I’m sure mine would be much more fun!!!” I exclaimed as I got back into the car to continue our journey down towards the beach. “Let’s see what we can do when we get there!!!”*

I’m sure you will discover lots more “sporting fun” at this Sinful Sunday by . . .  carefully . . . para-glanding on the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

And I so loved the fun I had, that I think I will add this to the Signs category at my Exposé Vŭ pages.

*P.S. – As a special treat, my Balcony Members can see . . . some of . . .
what I got up to on the beach from >here<. Enjoy!!!

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Summertime Fun” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Being on holiday always makes me feel relaxed . . . and when I feel relaxed . . .
I usually feel very horny.

And “Summertime Fun” is a collection of short, fun . . . and naughty . . . moments from my recent vacation on my favourite Grecian island.

From testing just how waterproof my newest Vibrator really is (underwater in the ocean) . . . or getting quite worked-up sitting on the beach reading one of the new erotic novels I’d brought away with me!!!

As you can see here, my Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation, certainly passed my “100% waterproof test” . . . even underwater in the ocean!!!

Now, I often receive messages from people telling me that I say, and do, the sort of things they wish they could. And my answer is always the same, “Just follow your instincts and as long as it’s not causing harm or offence to others, just let yourself go and be who you really want to be.”

We all have risqué or naughty thoughts occasionally, it’s only natural, and it can often be wonderfully liberating and enjoyable . . . and relaxing . . . to just do and say what you really feel. Even if only for a short period of time.

And that’s exactly what “Summertime Fun” is all about . . . just some lovely fun-time moments away from the normal pressures and stresses of everyday life.

Now, Hubby & I filmed this introductory video on the beach, near the end of our first week, thinking we would just have some short clips of our naughtiness. But I suppose I should have known we would have lots more fun than could fit in just one video. So, this is just Part One, of what was a magical, wonderful, relaxing two weeks of naughty summer fun playtimes. Sometimes on the beach, sometimes underwater and sometimes back in our apartment!

I hope you will enjoy Part One. We certainly did . . . and do keep checking back here for news of Parts Two, and Three, still to cum . . . as I re-live some lovely memories of a magical vacation!

You can view my introduction to “Summertime Fun Part 1” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

Oh, and P.S. . . . Do you like a banana occasionally? . . . I know I do !!!

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Summertime Fun”  is my 39th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my thirty-nine #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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A Modest Wives Tale #Boobday Friday

Have you heard that old wives’ tale that . . . apparently . . . if a buttercup glows under one’s chin it means you like butter???

Well I do like soft and squishy . . . slippery and slidey . . . spreadable and tasty!!! So . . . does this buttercup appear to be glowing to you???

I am sure there will be lots more glowing boobies on display at today’s Boobday Friday. Because as Hyacinth says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

And you will be able to view more different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Friday Fun Pt.2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

As you can probably imagine, I don’t get much opportunity for early nights!
But when I do I often make myself snug and comfy and I re-watch one of my #realworldsex videos at MakeLoveNotPorn.

And recently Hubby and I were looking back through our archives and reminding ourselves of an absolutely fabulous evening with Lover No.50 which resulted in my “Friday Fun Video” some months ago. Well we discovered that we had a “Part Two” of that Friday Fun that we had never uploaded!!!

So feeling quite annoyed with ourselves that we’d obviously been so busy to have overlooked it, we knew we just had to share it on my MakeLoveNotPorn  pages as soon as we could. But as we were leaving for our summer vacation the very next day . . . and plus the fact that we got carried away with the excitement of watching it . . . it’s only now some weeks later, that we have returned home, that we are finally able to share it.

But I think it will be well worth the wait . . . as we had just as much loving fun as we had in Part One.

In fact this Part Two was just a little while after we’d recovered from our orgasmic frolics . . . me from an amazing, pounding fucking and No. 50 from that amazing explosion he’d had from me administering a “special massage” with my lips and hands.

I’m always amazed just how quickly No.50 can recover from his first spurting orgasm to soon be hard again and ready for a repeating burst. I mean, I was still lying on my back slowly recovering all my senses and feelings when he began giving me those wonderful deep passionate kisses again . . . you know just where I mean. And I so loved how quickly wet and juicy he made me . . . that I just had to taste it myself!!!

Now, as I said, it takes me longer to recover, especially after my second cumming of the evening, but because I just love giving him those passionate kisses of my own, I leant over to make sure he had a second cumming as well.

MakeLoveNotPorn.tv previewed “Friday Festive Fun Part One” in their special Make Holiday Love Not Porn edition as:

Modesty Ablaze knows that the holidays are a time of goodwill and generosity, so it’s only natural that she should give lover no. 50 a gift during their pre-xmas rendez-vous. And, lucky for him, she’s the present! First taking their time to ‘unwrap’ each other, Modesty, hubby, and lover no. 50 are soon having such a good time that nothing can get in the way — not even someone’s phone alarm going off at a most inopportune moment! Filled with laughter, chatter, and lots of #realworldpleasure, this brand new video is the perfect gift.

And, as I say, “Friday Fun Part Two” just carries on from where we left off in Part One . . . with an even more explosive finale!!!

You can view my introduction to “Friday Fun Part Two” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Friday Fun Part Two”  is my 38th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my thirty-eight #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modest Sunglasses #Boobday Friday

As I mentioned in last week’s Boobday Friday I was so looking forward to getting some Grecian sun on my boobies !!!

And so I did . . . and it felt so lovely that I just indulged for peaceful, calming and relaxing days and days on end. And judging from all the photos in his camera, Hubby was indulging himself as well. In fact, he is telling me that he has lots more to share for several Boobdays to come!!!

But for now I am sure there will be lots of other lovely summer boobies on display at today’s Boobday Friday.

Because as Hyacinth says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

And you will be able to view more different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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