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Modesty Ablaze “Summertime Fun” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

Being on holiday always makes me feel relaxed . . . and when I feel relaxed . . .
I usually feel very horny.

And “Summertime Fun” is a collection of short, fun . . . and naughty . . . moments from my recent vacation on my favourite Grecian island.

From testing just how waterproof my newest Vibrator really is (underwater in the ocean) . . . or getting quite worked-up sitting on the beach reading one of the new erotic novels I’d brought away with me!!!

As you can see here, my Satisfyer Pro 2 Next Generation, certainly passed my “100% waterproof test” . . . even underwater in the ocean!!!

Now, I often receive messages from people telling me that I say, and do, the sort of things they wish they could. And my answer is always the same, “Just follow your instincts and as long as it’s not causing harm or offence to others, just let yourself go and be who you really want to be.”

We all have risqué or naughty thoughts occasionally, it’s only natural, and it can often be wonderfully liberating and enjoyable . . . and relaxing . . . to just do and say what you really feel. Even if only for a short period of time.

And that’s exactly what “Summertime Fun” is all about . . . just some lovely fun-time moments away from the normal pressures and stresses of everyday life.

Now, Hubby & I filmed this introductory video on the beach, near the end of our first week, thinking we would just have some short clips of our naughtiness. But I suppose I should have known we would have lots more fun than could fit in just one video. So, this is just Part One, of what was a magical, wonderful, relaxing two weeks of naughty summer fun playtimes. Sometimes on the beach, sometimes underwater and sometimes back in our apartment!

I hope you will enjoy Part One. We certainly did . . . and do keep checking back here for news of Parts Two, and Three, still to cum . . . as I re-live some lovely memories of a magical vacation!

You can view my introduction to “Summertime Fun Part 1” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

Oh, and P.S. . . . Do you like a banana occasionally? . . . I know I do !!!

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Summertime Fun”  is my 39th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my thirty-nine #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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A Modest Wives Tale #Boobday Friday

Have you heard that old wives’ tale that . . . apparently . . . if a buttercup glows under one’s chin it means you like butter???

Well I do like soft and squishy . . . slippery and slidey . . . spreadable and tasty!!! So . . . does this buttercup appear to be glowing to you???

I am sure there will be lots more glowing boobies on display at today’s Boobday Friday. Because as Hyacinth says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

And you will be able to view more different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Friday Fun Pt.2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

As you can probably imagine, I don’t get much opportunity for early nights!
But when I do I often make myself snug and comfy and I re-watch one of my #realworldsex videos at MakeLoveNotPorn.

And recently Hubby and I were looking back through our archives and reminding ourselves of an absolutely fabulous evening with Lover No.50 which resulted in my “Friday Fun Video” some months ago. Well we discovered that we had a “Part Two” of that Friday Fun that we had never uploaded!!!

So feeling quite annoyed with ourselves that we’d obviously been so busy to have overlooked it, we knew we just had to share it on my MakeLoveNotPorn  pages as soon as we could. But as we were leaving for our summer vacation the very next day . . . and plus the fact that we got carried away with the excitement of watching it . . . it’s only now some weeks later, that we have returned home, that we are finally able to share it.

But I think it will be well worth the wait . . . as we had just as much loving fun as we had in Part One.

In fact this Part Two was just a little while after we’d recovered from our orgasmic frolics . . . me from an amazing, pounding fucking and No. 50 from that amazing explosion he’d had from me administering a “special massage” with my lips and hands.

I’m always amazed just how quickly No.50 can recover from his first spurting orgasm to soon be hard again and ready for a repeating burst. I mean, I was still lying on my back slowly recovering all my senses and feelings when he began giving me those wonderful deep passionate kisses again . . . you know just where I mean. And I so loved how quickly wet and juicy he made me . . . that I just had to taste it myself!!!

Now, as I said, it takes me longer to recover, especially after my second cumming of the evening, but because I just love giving him those passionate kisses of my own, I leant over to make sure he had a second cumming as well.

MakeLoveNotPorn.tv previewed “Friday Festive Fun Part One” in their special Make Holiday Love Not Porn edition as:

Modesty Ablaze knows that the holidays are a time of goodwill and generosity, so it’s only natural that she should give lover no. 50 a gift during their pre-xmas rendez-vous. And, lucky for him, she’s the present! First taking their time to ‘unwrap’ each other, Modesty, hubby, and lover no. 50 are soon having such a good time that nothing can get in the way — not even someone’s phone alarm going off at a most inopportune moment! Filled with laughter, chatter, and lots of #realworldpleasure, this brand new video is the perfect gift.

And, as I say, “Friday Fun Part Two” just carries on from where we left off in Part One . . . with an even more explosive finale!!!

You can view my introduction to “Friday Fun Part Two” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Friday Fun Part Two”  is my 38th video released on Make Love Not Porn with more to come soon, and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my thirty-eight #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modest Sunglasses #Boobday Friday

As I mentioned in last week’s Boobday Friday I was so looking forward to getting some Grecian sun on my boobies !!!

And so I did . . . and it felt so lovely that I just indulged for peaceful, calming and relaxing days and days on end. And judging from all the photos in his camera, Hubby was indulging himself as well. In fact, he is telling me that he has lots more to share for several Boobdays to come!!!

But for now I am sure there will be lots of other lovely summer boobies on display at today’s Boobday Friday.

Because as Hyacinth says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

And you will be able to view more different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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A Modest Bus Station #sinfulsunday

“Why don’t we travel on the buses today, instead of you having to drive?” I said to Hubby as we came upon the Central Bus Station in the island’s main town
in the first week of our summer holiday.

“Then you could have a glass of wine with me at each stop . . . instead of all those Iced Tea’s you’ve been having to drink”.

“There are people in the queue behind me getting ready for the next bus. Shall I pop back to the ticket office and enquire what time it leaves?”

“Look . . . they are all very big and have air-conditioning.” I said, finally managing to convince him.

“Well, that first bus driver did give me quite a funny look when I asked him if he offered a Hop-on Hop-off service!”

“Do you think I should go back and tell that family in the yellow shirts that the bus doesn’t stop at that corner . . . and that it will be arriving here shortly?”

Anyway, Hubby had to agree that we had a lovely day discovering lots of different little bus shelter’s at each stop . . . and, of course, some nice Taverna’s and lots of refreshing glasses of wine together along the way!

And I’m sure that you will discover more Sinful Travels this Sunday,
by pushing the lips below!

Sinful SundayAlthough I’ve often waited at London Bus Stops before . . . and, of course, travel on the bus almost every day . . . this was wonderfully different and lots of fun, which I’m hoping will qualify for the “Bus Station” section
in Jade’s Scavenger Hunt.

And don’t forget, there are lots of my other Scavenger Hunt travels at
my Scavenger Listings page . . . and now over 100 different locations on
my Scavenger Slideshow page as well!!!   

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxx – K

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Modestly Tender #sinfulsunday

It’s important to know when one should be tender and soothing sometimes!!!

Especially after a long, hard session of prodding, stamping, kicking . . .
and squeezing!!!

And I am sure there will be lots more tender-ness to be found by prodding
. . . gently please . . . on the Sinful Sunday lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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Modest Bathtime #wickedwednesday

As I mentioned in my Bubbles Boobday two weeks ago, I do so love some indulgent, relaxing . . . and bubbly bathtime! Especially when there is a really . . . really . . . powerful jet-tap to play with.

And . . . as I’m sure you can imagine . . . I just loved letting it pulse all over every bit of me. Before just collapsing back to soak-up those lovely bubbles.

You can dip-into lots more Bubbles at this week’s Wicked Wednesday from tapping at the button below!

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Xxx – K

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Top 50 Sex-Positive Websites @Lubezilla

It’s always nice when people say lovely things about you . . . and it was especially nice for me recently to be mentioned in Lubezilla’s “Top 50 Sex-Positive Websites listings.

Because . . . as I’ve said before . . . the over-riding reason for me posting here as Modesty Ablaze, has always been to encourage people to make their lives and experiences “fun and natural and sharing”. Not to suppress, or feel guilty about one’s sexual thoughts and desires, but rather to celebrate and enjoy those feelings and express and share them within their own relationships, and their own everyday emotions.

I always feel that, as in every aspect of our lives, sharing smiles and laughter,
and embracing all of our emotions and passions, makes all of us better people. Not just ourselves . . . but those around us, and who may come in contact with us, whether it be in person . . . or by stumbling across these pages in the wider world beyond.

This is not to belittle all those important issues of sexual equality and education and dispelling prejudice, but there are many Lifestyle Bloggers (I prefer that term to that of just “Sex Bloggers”) far more eloquent than I, and much better than I, at addressing and discussing all of those subjects.

But for me, if I can just make people giggle for a few minutes, or perhaps embolden people (through myPolaroids Past pages) to accept that we all change as we “mature” and that we should just embrace those changes and be proud of who we are, where we have come from, and all the fun and good times we have all achieved along the way . . . then I will be happier too.

And I know you will find lots more like-minded people as you scroll through Lubezilla’s wonderful list, who will inspire and motivate you . . . I urge you to click the link below, and have lots of fun exploring!!!

 

Top 50 Sex-Positive Websites

NB: Thank you, as always, to the lovely John Tisbury (see my sidebar!!)
for taking my photo above!

Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “Rope Panties Pt.2” #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

One of the nicest things about sharing one’s #realworldsex videos at Make Love Not Porn, is receiving all the lovely messages and feedback from people saying how much they enjoy them.

And . . . not only enjoy them . . . but also telling me that my videos have helped enliven and expand their own sex lives and relationships . . . and made them feel much more at ease about expressing their own sexuality. One shouldn’t feel guilty about sexual preferences or desires . . . as long as they are fun, inclusive . . . and completely consensual.

And . . . of course . . . it’s also nice to receive comments and requests for more of one particular video.

So . . . to fulfill several requests for more “Rope Play” fun . . . I’m delighted to introduce a “Part 2” of my recent Rope Panties video with Lover No. 14.

And yes, those lovely panties that Lover 14 had made for me in Part One . . . were eventually and slowly pulled off me . . . only for him to decide that he wanted to do some more rope work. This time in the form of a Star-Design
Bikini Top . . . .

But of course his rope play never just ends with knots and ties . . and No. 14 soon had me giggling and gasping . . . especially as he found some very creative uses for my Doxy Massager . . . including some tickling massaging whilst I was laid on my tummy, and then, even some teasing pulsing whilst having me stand to attention in front of him. All ending, as I’m sure you can imagine, in giggling, tingling and convulsing orgasms one after the other.

If you can’t imagine it . . . well . . . you will just have to watch it won’t you ? . . . I’m sure you’ll soon be giggling along with me. And hopefully tingling too !!!

MakeLoveNotPorn.tv previewed “Rope Panties Part 2” with Lover No.14,  in their Make Sexy Playtime Love Not Porn edition as:

You can never go wrong with a Modesty Ablaze video! From giggles and playful banter to a seemingly never ending stream of orgasms, her #realworldsex will introduce you to new techniques, help you let your guard down, and ultimately, leave you basking in the glory of a fantastically liberated 50 year old woman (who also happens to be a mother, too)!

I know I always say that my latest #realworldsex video is my new favourite
but I can honestly say that this evening was truly one of my most enjoyable and spontaneously wonderful times I’ve ever enjoyed . . . so I hope you will enjoy and laugh and giggle along with me.

And . . . don’t forget . . . If you watch this introductory video from my profile page at Make Love Not Porn Dot TV – it continues with some free peek clips from Rope Panties Part 2 itself.

It’s free to register at Make Love Not Porn . . . where you will find lots more videos from like-minded people . . . all sharing their own Real World Sex fun and good times.

And “Rope Panties Part Two” is all of those things all over, and over, again . . . and I hope you will enjoy, and giggle-along with us!!!

You can view my introduction to “Rope Panties Part Two” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Rope Panties Part Two”  is my 37th video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my thirty-seven #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modestly Into Temptation . . . #sinfulsunday

Eve said to Adam . . . “an apple a day???”

And, Adam replied . . . ???

For more tempting, tempestuousness this Sinful Sunday,
Eve would probably have suggested taking a bite from the lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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