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Modesty Ablaze “Rope Panties” new #realworldsex film @makelovenotporn

I’m thrilled that my newest #realworldsex video, “Rope Panties” is now available at MakeLoveNotPorn. As you can probably tell from the title, it is from a recent fun evening with Lover No. 14.

Now . . . No.14 just loves rope-play . . . and so do I.  But on this occasion, instead of tie-ing me up in his rope, he decided to make me a pair of Rope Panties.

So, after I rather naughtily topped-up his wine glass, I let him start to weave
his ropes around my thighs and bottom to make me a rather special, and very
tight-fitting, pair of panties.

As always, he was very patient and meticulous in the artistic way he weaved his rope . . . and tied his knots . . . and then slowly and patiently worked me to the first tingling and shuddering orgasm!

MakeLoveNotPorn.tv previewed one of my previous Rope-Play #realworldsex videos with Lover No.14,  “New Red Rope” in their MakeEndlessSummerLove edition as:

Lover No. 14 shows off his mastery of rope bondage as he puts Modesty in an impressive full body harness. Employing her favorite toy, the Doxy wand, to lovingly torture her to a sweet climax, this video is full of communication, giggles and of course, steamy #realworldsex!

And “Rope Panties” is all of those things all over again . . . and I hope you will enjoy, and giggle-along with us!!!

You can view my introduction to “Rope Panties” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as always, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Rope Panties”  is my 36th video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my thirty-six #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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A Modest Pleasure #sinfulsunday

One of the . . . many . . . fun things about attending Eroticon 2017 earlier this year was the opportunity to meet some of the wonderful sponsors of the event and discover and learn about new and interesting toys and accessories.

And one of the loveliest items I purchased was this beautiful blue dildo from Ceramic Pleasures. And I can assure you, it really has given lots of “pleasure” over the past few weeks!!!

Although I have several different glass dildos and, of course, my wonderful Farringdon Titanium dildo, I’ve never owned a “ceramic” one before. And as well as the completely different feel and sensations it gives . . . I also get quite a thrill knowing that my lovely “blue ridged dream”, as I’ve christened it, is a one-off, hand-made item, and completely one-of-a-kind. (As are all of the intriguingly varied range of dildo’s available from John at Ceramic Pleasure).

Now . . . do please excuse me as I simply just have to stroke those ridges again
. . . but whilst I do, I’m sure you’ll discover lots more pleasures of your own from stroking the Sinful Sunday lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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Modestly Released #Boobday Friday

As I mentioned a few weeks ago . . . I do love my White Lace.

But, after a long day at the office, it is so lovely to unclip and release myself!!!

  And I’m sure that when you visit Hyacinth’s Boobday Friday today, there will be lots more lovely boobies being released . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different and powerful boobs, this and every Friday, from clicking Hyacinth’s
lovely cleavage below!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze reviews the “Sex Bondage Kit” from pinkbob.com

Whatever ones thoughts on the merits of the Fifty Shades phenomenon, there is no denying that it certainly  brought the subject of BDSM out of the “shadows” and into the mainstream. And with the second film in the series about to be released here in the UK, it is sure to arouse yet more interest again.

So I was pleasantly surprised when a quite substantial Sex Bondage Starters Kit arrived in my mailbox recently. Not that I’m a “starter” of course . . . if you’ve been visiting me here over the past few years you will know how much I enjoy my BDSM-side . . . but it’s always nice to experiment with new and different play-things. Particularly when those playthings are from PinkB.O.B., the manufacturer of my all-time favourite Rechargeable Wand Vibrator The Lust (see my review from October).

The Sex Bondage Kit is from PinkBob’s reasonably new Master Kink range and contains eight different items (at an amazing price) which is sure to provide lots of fun, and lots of adventures, whether you are indeed a “starter” or, a more “experienceed” kinkster.

Now, I firstly wanted to say that all of the items here appear to have been made in China. But don’t you dare throw up your hands in disgust and tell me that that must mean “low quality”, because that is far from the case! The quality, and strength, of all of the items here (and YES I have already tested all of them in more than one session) is actually very impressive.

All the actual measurements of each item are available from the manufacturers Amazon page links below (in my normal Specifications Panel), so I won’t list them again all individually, but my favourite item is the Black Mini Flogger.  It is just the perfect weight and size for some close-up and personal (I’m sure you know where) flogging. The handle is just over 4 inches in length and about ¾ inch diameter and fits perfectly in ones hand. It is very light and comfortable to hold, and the fifteen thin leather strands (each just over ½ inch wide) make for a lovely stinging sensations when “in use”. I have used it now on several occasions over the past few weeks and it has become one of the first items I reach for from my “Mistress Cabinet” when I am packing for a new session. In other words, it can make more of an impression than you might at first think . . . but equally makes an ideal first-impact-toy for kinky bedroom foreplay as well.

As in fact, do all the items included in the Master Kink Bondage Kit. And, as I mentioned, the kit price is just amazing when you consider it includes The Flogger, two Wrist Cuffs (with a detachable chain link), a quite lovely Black Leather Mask, a Breathable Ball Gag (which I have already previously reviewed in May 2016), a strong Black Bondage Rope, Nipple Clamps, a Black Leather Collar and a Black Leash (which can clip onto either the Collar itself, or the Wrist Cuffs).

And, a nice touch as well, is the inclusion of a small fold-out leaflet of the “Master Kink Official Guide to Bondage” . . . although I would have liked more information to have been included with each item on material details and after-care.

As well as the eight items included in the Bondage Kit itself, Master Kink (which seems more appropriate for me to use in this context rather than PinkB.O.B.) also sent me a Hog Tie Restraint, a thicker Black Leather Collar & Chain Leash, and some Chain Nipple Clamps.

If you’ve never used Hog Tie Restraints before I can assure you they are certainly lots of fun. The soft faux fur material, and velcro fastening, make them easy and comfortable to apply. They really are ideal for some naughty bedroom fun and perfectly safe to use.

As are the Chain Nipple Clamps which are rubber tipped and non-piercing and non-abrasive, and have a sliding catch for adjustable “pressure”, but still easily and quickly removed. So you get all the pleasure and arousal of nipple play without any lasting  pain.

And finally, that thick Black Leather Collar and it’s Chain Leash. With it’s main leather neck strap of 2 ¼ inches wide and attached thinner restraining strap (1 ¼ inch wide and chrome buckle and double rivet holes) it is adjustable from 12 to 17 ½ inches. It has a strong chrome D-ring attachment at the front to which one can attach the supplied Chain Leash. The leash itself is 31 inches long so ideal for leading ones submissive around the Dungeon, (or as I did last week, on a Fetish-Club night out).

As I’ve mentioned already, all of these items are available at quite amazing prices from Master Kink’s Amazon pages from the links below. I don’t think they ship internationally, but if you live within the US, I highly recommend you make Master Kink your first-stop Fetish shop!!!

The Sex Bondage Kit from Master Kink:
Modesty Rating:
8 out of 10
Pros: Well made and strongly manufactured. Amazingly priced for my North American readers.
Cons: Minimal individual product information supplied (though some measurements etc are listed on the buy-links below).
Supplier Product Links:
The Sex Bondage Kit

Chain Nipple Clamps

Black Collar Leash with Chain
Hog Tie Restraint Kit
The Modesty Video Review(s):
To possibly follow, so just let me know if you are interested!

Additional links: PinkB.O.B. at Instagram  . . . and I also recommend you browse the PinkB.O.B. Blog for helpful hints and tips!!!

The Sex Bondage Kit, Chain Nipple Clamps, Black Collar Leash with Chain and the Hog-Tie Restraint System  were all sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

 

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Modesty Ablaze “A Sensual Massage” new video @makelovenotporn.tv

I’m often asked which of my #realworldsex videos at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is my favourite . . . and I normally just have to reply . . . “Well, the latest one of course!”

That’s because they are usually still fresh in my mind . . . and I still have that warm happy feeling of elation and enjoyment that comes after those moments of lovely passion and fun. But I think my newest video  . . . “A Sensual Massage” . . . may actually remain as a personal favourite for a long, long time!!!

It’s from an evening with Lover No.50 that began with me, innocently, just giving him a soothing back massage. I’d told him I’d recently been given some “sensual massage oil” as a gift . . . and that it would be the perfect way for me to give him some attention and help him relax and unwind after a hard day and a long journey to our hotel.

But, of course, as is often the way when I spend time with Lover No.50 . . . that special chemistry that we’ve had right from the very first occasion we met . . . slowly took over and turned into a completely different “Sensual Massage” altogether.

Now I must apologise in advance . . . for my bad language in the early part of this film. I do realise it is rather un-ladylike at times . . . but I always feel so relaxed in his company that I just forget myself, so I hope you will excuse my lack of Modesty !!!

Anyway, as you will see, after quite some time spent massaging 50’s back and legs, he insisted that he give me a massage in return. Well . . . I could hardly refuse could I !!!

And his attentions quickly turned into a Massage Masterclass. I can always tell him exactly what I like, and exactly what I want of course, even when he gets just a little too greedy. But his fingers and tongue soon had me writhing in passion, and gushing and squirting my juices . . . and having it spread everywhere!

I don’t think I’ve ever wanted to come so badly and when it finally came . . . feeling as though I’d had every last breath of air virtually sucked out of me . . . all I could do was gasp and collapse into his embracing cuddle.

So, I hope you will enjoy “A Sensual Massage” because I think it is exactly what #realworldsex at MakeLoveNotPorn . . . is all about . . . just being able to completely lose oneself in the moment . . . and let ones emotions overwhelm and engulf you.

MakeLoveNotPorn.tv previewed “A Sensual Massage” in their special Make Gutsy Love Not Porn edition as:

When Modesty meets up with Lover No. 50 the chemistry is undeniable. What starts with a slow and sensual massage back massage for Lover No. 50 soon turns into him massaging her and then that turns into a whole other kind of body massage. You’ll love watching these two get totally blissed out!

So I hope you will find watching . . . and sharing our fun with us . . . just as rewarding and enjoyable as we did!!!

You can view my introduction to “A Sensual Massage” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as I mention at the end of my introduction, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality, fun and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“A Sensual Massage” is my 35th video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my thirty-five #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Modesty’s High Tea #Boobday Friday

One expects to be served tea and breakfast in bed every morning . . . in fact
I insist upon it!

And, whilst most take “High Tea” in the afternoon or early evening, I prefer mine to start the day.

After all, afternoon’s and evening’s are for a glass of wine . . . or two . . .
aren’t they? And for visiting Hyacinth’s, Boobday Friday whilst I tipple,
because as she says . . .

Boobday is a body-positive meme where women share images of their bodies in order to show that there is beauty in all of us.  With confidence comes power and with power comes confidence.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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Modestly Stepping Out #sinfulsunday

I recently mentioned how excited I’d been to discover this lovely pair of shoes at a charity shop. Well last night I stepped-out in them for the very first time.

And I’m delighted to say they were very well received . . . in fact, I was told they made an immediate, and lasting, impression!!!

There are bound to be lots more people to be found stepping out by prodding the Sinful Sunday lips below.

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Winter Warmer #wickedwednesday

Goodness it’s been unseasonably warm these past few days for this time of year.

So much so that I built-up quite a sweat on my run this morning . . . and just had to stop for a few, modest, moments to cool down.

And though most of the leaves in the park have now fallen, I found this lovely splash of red to cheer me up, before setting off again for the office.

Of course I put my clothes back on silly . . . but I think if you tap on the lovely Marie’s Wicked Wednesday button below, you’ll find lots more
Winter Warmth this Wednesday!

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Xxx – K

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Modesty Ablaze “By Morning Light” new video @makelovenotporn.tv

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“By Morning Light”, my newest #realworldsex video at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv, is from the morning after myForbidden Pleasures fun with Lover No.14. And what could be more exciting than waking up after an exhausting night of wanton pleasures . . . to begin the morning indulging in more threesome twists and turns . . . and more wonderful orgasms . . . for all three of us!

But if the night before had been full of naughty indulgence and giggling deviations . . . our morning passion was much quieter and much more slowly paced . . . well, at least it was to begin with.

Beginning with patient, tender and loving spooning cuddles . . . naughty No.14 slowly started working his fingers and thumbs into all my nooks and crannies . . . and before too long I began to succumb to his lovely probing from behind.

I have to be in the right mood for anal play, but Lover No.14 is an expert in coaxing me and . . . as you will see . . . I eventually succumbed!  And . . . of course . . . No.14 didn’t need much encouragement to turn those probing fingers into something much bigger . . . and thicker.

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Watching me being slowly fucked to a lovely orgasm obviously had Hubby straining with excitement as well . . . so after I’d recovered my composure it seemed the only decent thing I could do was to lean forward and give him soothing kisses too . . . I think you can guess exactly where!

And that led to Lover 14 rising to the occasion once again . . . and joining us for a most . . . spectacular . . . climax!

You can view my introduction to “By Morning Light” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as I mention at the end of my introduction, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“By Morning Light” is my 33rd video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my thirty-three #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

P.S. As the title implies, “By Morning Light” means the video was filmed with just the subtle light of the rising sun filtering through the bedroom curtains. So, it is quite muted and shadowy . . . but I think you’ll agree that the passion, and love, of the moments here shine brightly through! Enjoy !!!

Xxx – K

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A Modest Necklace #Boobday Friday

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I do love choosing which beads to wear of a morning before I leave for the office
. . . and often I wish I could leave wearing . . . nothing else!!!

A big morning thank you to the lovely John Tisbury for taking this photo of me in my favourite necklace for this week at  Hyacinth’s #Boobday Friday, because as Hy says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!

HysBoobDayLogo

Xxx – K

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