Most couples, especially men and women who have been together for a long time, are always looking for new ways to keep things fresh and exciting in the bedroom. Sex with another couple, better known as swinging, provides them with a chance to do exactly that. And while having sex with another couple can be rather exciting, finding the right people for this is not always easy. You can’t just go to the swingers dating site and choose the first couple that sends you a message. No, you have to get to know these people before you get into bed with them. This is why we are going to talk about the 5 things you need to know before you get into swinging.
Talk To Your Lover First
Suggesting something like this to your partner out of the blue is never a good thing. They might think that you have some problems in the relationship or that you don’t find them attractive anymore. So, if you want to talk about this with your lover, make sure you bring it up in a casual conversation. This will allow you to see where they stand on swinging. If they are okay with it, then you can suggest you try it out together.
Know Where To Look For Other Swingers
In case you and your spouse want to try out swinging, you have to know where to find other swingers in your town. You can’t just approach any couple you meet and ask them to have sex with you because this is sexual harassment. If you want to find another swinger couple, you have to visit swinger clubs in your town. There, you will find a lot of men and women who are looking for the exact same thing as you.
If One Of You Is Jealous This Won’t Work
Swinging implies that you have sex with other people and if one of you is jealous, this simply won’t work. If seeing your lover with another person makes you jealous, you won’t be able to enjoy swinging. In this case, it’s better not to try it because it can ruin what you have with your spouse.
It’s About Spicing Up Your Sex Life
One of the most important things you have to remember is that swinging is about spicing up your sex life, not an excuse to sleep with other men and women. Swinging is supposed to help you have better sex with your lover. If you are trying to find a new person to sleep with, swinging is not for you.
Be Discreet About It
You should know that most people don’t have nice things to say about swingers. So, if you don’t want to be judged in public, be discreet about your adventures. If, however, you want to talk about it, talk, but don’t mention the names of people you are having sex with. Respect their privacy because they might not want to be known as swingers.
As you may have gathered, this has been a sponsored post, but you won’t be surprised to know just how much I LOVE Swinging! LOL !!! So I hope you have enjoyed reading. – Xxx – K
While we are recording massive growth in different areas of tech, sex-tech appears to be taking a lead position even ahead of drone development. According to an article in Forbes which you can read here, the sex-tech industry is worth about $30 billion with an annual growth rate at about 30%.
To say that this is a massive industry will be a failed attempt at modesty. With this growth rate, it is clear that it is going to be a major global force within a few years. But what exactly do we mean by Sex-tech?
Sex-Tech? What Is This? To put it in the most basic of terms, this refers to any technology or process driven by technology that has the sole purpose of improving, modifying, innovating or impacting the sexual activities of humans in any way. While it now appears that the growth of this sector has picked up pace, it’s been around for a while.
Some examples of sextech include dildos, vibrators, the fleshlight and recently, the lifelike and life-size human dolls. Current advancements are even adding virtual sexual relations where parties can experience sexual satisfaction virtually, using some devices that will connect them despite being miles apart from each other.
This certainly is a revolution that is gradually but surely catching on. It is now easier than ever before to find a source from which to get any of these tools, be they online or offline. This further confirms its increasing acceptance in the society.
Benefits of Sex-Tech These sex toys or tech have loads of benefits for the man, woman and the couple. We will be looking at these three categories because if the individuals in a relationship are not doing okay, the relationship cannot work.
Benefits for Men These tech toys can help men relive a lot of tension whether they are single or in a relationship. Men are biologically known to have an average sexual urge and drive that is higher than that of the average female. Many men will testify to those frustrating times when their partners are not in the mood and so cannot oblige them.
With the right toys, no man has to endure such frustration since you can simply get the relief you desire with any of the many available tools.
Benefits for Women Men may claim to have a higher sexual urge than the average female but no man can claim to be more sensitive or demanding when it comes to sex. Many females have been left frustrated by insensitive and selfish partners who do not bother to take the time to satisfy them.
Focused only on their own release, they work at it and once they climax (many times too soon), they leave the female literally hanging in space. With the right tool, the female can reach her own fulfillment without recourse to the man.
Benefits for Couples Couples may probably be the highest beneficiaries here. There are different areas in a couple’s life that these technological innovations can be very useful. Let’s look at some of the more obvious ones.
Adding Spice to Your Sex Life A lot of people do not appreciate the fact having sexual relations with just one person can get boring very quickly. Variety they say is the spice of life and in no other aspect of life is it more real than in the area of sexual relations.
There is a need for couples to spice up their sexual activities so as to make it more exciting and fresh. There are a variety of sex toys that can help with this.
Helping with Dysfunctions Many relationships have broken up because of one sexual inadequacy or another. This sadly appears to affect the men the most. Erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation and other such situations have caused many female partners a lot of frustration.
There are different tools that can be used to manage some of these conditions. Even if they cannot directly manage the condition, they can at least provide the other person with a route to achieve personal relief.
Stress Arising from Unavailability for Sex There are times (and this can be very common in today’s reality) when one partner is just too tired to oblige the other. If the other party is seriously in the mood and has no other available option than the tired partner, some strain could result in the relationship from such a situation.
Whether it is the male or the female, they can simply pick up a toy and achieve their sexual bliss by themself.
Conclusion In conclusion, we can all agree that sex, good sex is essential to most individuals, be they female or male. Whether as individuals or couples, having the ability to have great sexual experiences whenever we desire is something that has now been made very achievable with these tools.
All tools may not work for everyone which is why it is important to take some time to find out what works for you as an individual or as a couple.
As you may have gathered, this has been a sponsored post, but you won’t be surprised to know just how much I LOVE trying new things! LOL !!! So I hope you have enjoyed reading. – Xxx – K
I always enjoy being asked to review what many people would normally regard as “men’s sex toys” because it gives me the fun opportunity to test them out during one of my sessions.
So I was particularly thrilled to receive the “Classic Erection Stamina Penis Pump” from Bestvibe as the majority (not all LOL!!!) of the submissives that arrive at my dungeon door, can usually do with some “enlargement”.
And I can immediately tell you that in every case, the Bestvibes Penis Pump, definitely did work . . . and was definitely fun to use.
It arrived in the post, neatly packed and wrapped in plain outer packaging . . . and I do like Bestvibes pledge regarding post and packaging, “With completely plain and boring packaging, you will receive your package discreetly. Our shipper name appears as “Mr X” on the return address. Neither Bestvibe nor our logo will appear on the outside of the package and there will be no mention of the nature of the contents. We also will state it contains Novelty and Gift on Customs Declaration form to avoid custom charges”.
And once unwrapped, even the internal product box itself is quite plain and tastefully branded with just the “Fondlove” logo. But as you will see from the accompanying photos here, the enlarger is certainly not a small item that can be discretely packed away in one’s bedside cabinet drawer. But then you wouldn’t expect it to be would you.
There are four main, detachable, parts to the Pump and these are quite easily and quickly connected and pushed into place in order to have it ready for action.
The main cylinder itself is made from a firm, clear ABS plastic, 2.5 inches in diameter and 11 inches in length from the base to the curved top with the impressive looking pressure gauge.
The 9 inch hose connecting the cylinder to the operating handle is made from quite a strong black plastic, and I must say that all of the components feel strong, well made and would appear to be quite durable. I have used the pump on quite a number of occasions now without any problems at all . . . and as I mentioned earlier, with complete success every time.
The assembly is completed by a flexible, thin black rubber cap that fits tightly over the bottom of the cylinder. It has an insertion hole in it’s middle, through which the subject pushes his member. The application of a little lube abound the hole, and over the penis, will help ease it through the hole whilst keeping it airtight to allow the vacuum suction to begin.
Now . . . this is the bit I particularly enjoyed . . . squeezing the handle!!!
The pumping, or squeezing action of the trigger-like handle, is actually quite easy and one can immediately see the effect of the suction beginning to work it’s magic as the penis inside starts to grow with each squeeze.
The pressure gauge dial shows the pressure increasing . . . and is quite addictive to keep checking actually, as I strive to better my previous readings! LOL !!!
But it is actually fun to see the penis swelling and enlarging inside the cylinder, as well.
One does have to be conscious of not squeezing too much too quickly though. I tend to squeeze and pause . . . squeeze and pause . . . and check with my “subject” that he is not feeling any discomfort. If he does, or if he feels he has reached his enlargeable limit, there is a “quick release, safety valve” located at the base of the handle which quickly deflates the pressure . . . but hopefully not the erection!
During my initial “testing” I was pulling the pump, with it’s rubber-sealed base, too quickly off the subject’s penis once he told me he had reached his limit.
But I soon found it easier, and more effective in maintaining the erection, to lift the edges of the black rubber seal away from around the base of the cylinder itself, thus leaving the seal impaled on his dick, where it can be more easily, and tenderly, slid off with some gentle massaging actions.
As I say, I found that doing it this way, especially when combined with some more lube in the palm of one’s hand, tended to help maintain his excitement at seeing his unusually enlarged erection.
So, in summary, the Classic Erection Stamina Penis Pump certainly works . . . though of course, putting it to good use is, as always, down to those involved.
And although I said myself at the beginning of this review that it is probably considered a “for him” toy, I really do feel that this device is much more fun for two, rather than just for playing “solo”. It certainly has been for me anyway!!
More “technical descriptions” and all the important information, and browsing links, are as below:
Classic Erection Stamina Penis Pump: Modesty Rating: 10 out of 10 Pros: Strong, sturdy and very easy to hold and operate. Cons: I haven’t found any at all so far. Packaging: Tastefully packaged in a strong, black cardboard box in three detachable main items, plus the black rubber seal and a small printed instructions leaflet! Material: Firm and strong Plastic. Measurements: Overall length, from the bottom of the cylinder to the tip of the pressure gauge dial = 11 inches. Cylinder diameter = 2.5 inches. Handle = 6 inches. Connecting hose (including the release valve) = 9 inches. Operation: Manual squeezing of trigger-type handle. Use Time: Dependent on the participants. Colour: Clear plastic with black attachments. Waterproof: Would be difficult to operate underwater, though would probably work in the shower. Lubricants: Use with water-based lubricants (not oil). Cleaning: Clean immediately after use with warm soapy water, a damp cloth or a water-soluble cleaning agent. Noise level: Nice air-suction sounds, and accompanying gasps of pleasure from the recipient. Country of Manufacture: China. Supplier Product Link:Classic Erection Stamina Penis Pump Supplier Website: bestvibe.com Twitter: @Bestvibe1 The Modesty Video Review: You can view this fun Penis Pump in action from my Clips store >here<.
The Fondlove Classic Erection Stamina Penis Pumpwas sent to me, free-of-charge by Bestvibe.com, for an honest and un-biased review.
The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review
sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the
technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes
and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about
adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to
approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in
a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously!
Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good,
it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.
Visit some of my previous Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.
I’m definitely a clit-girl, but have always had an on / off relationship with Rabbit Vibrators.
On when I’m in the mood for some quick stimulation and satisfaction . . . but often just as quickly off because I can lose concentration with the twitching and tickling motions of the “ears” over my clit. I much prefer slow and building pressure, rather than constant tickling you see!
And, my first impressions of this Rabbit, when I slid it from it’s impressive black box were actually much better than I’d felt about the Paloqueth Tongue.
Though still a mid shade of purple, not my favourite toy colour I must admit . . . but clearly Purple and Black are Paloqueth’s corporate colours . . . the Rabbit feels quite substantial and weighty (though not uncomfortably so) to hold in ones hand.
Made from body-safe silicone elastomer material, the body of the vibrator, and the shaft leading to it’s penis-shaped head, is lovely and silky-smooth to the touch. As are the lovely ears that sit on a rabbit-shaped protrusion half -way up the body.
The base, handle part, of the vibrator has three control buttons housed in a white smooth plastic shield embedded in the grooved stem. So they are very easy to find, and operate, even with one’s eyes closed!!!
The base has slightly bevelled edges so, rather annoyingly for me, it’s not possible to stand it up on one’s bedside table, though I suppose the ear-protrusion would make it difficult to balance upright anyway. But I just seem to always naturally want to stand it up proudly on it’s end whenever I’m finished . . . though of course I never do this with any of my other toys, so it’s clearly just my own problem!
As I say, those buttons easily control the, quite powerful, dual motors of the Rabbit. The bottom button is to power on, and off, both motors simultaneously . . . and it works perfectly, without some of the faff and struggles I sometimes have with other vibrators.
The middle button controls the, seven different patterns of intensity of the rabbit-ears . . . and I can tell you straight away that pattern three always does it for me . . . always!
The top button controls the three rotation speeds of the shaft, and head, of the Paloqueth. Now, with it’s embedded stainless steel balls, this feels interesting and quite lovely when holding, or squeezing, in the palm of ones hand.
But actually for me it is the one disappointment of the Rabbit. Paloqueth says this rotating shaft is designed to “give you that extreme internal stimulation”.
Now, as I said at the beginning, I’m a clit-girl and as such, “extreme internal stimulation” doesn’t really do it for me anyway. But even if I was craving for that stimulus I don’t think this shaft is long, or thick, enough to reach the spot for me. And I’m not trying to suggest that I’m some sort of insatiable size-queen . . . I just think that as this part of the shaft only extends for just over four inches further “in” from where those lovely vibrating tongue-ears are flapping and lapping over my clit, that I just can’t feel it once it has slid inside. But that is possibly just my own, personal, problem . . . my “internal-design” is not of the right shape, or curvature, for the shaft to do it for me.
But, my word, those ears certainly DO do-it-for-me . . . and how !!! Because, despite being remarkably quiet for such powerful and intense vibrations . . . pattern three is just wonderful!!!
So although the “rotating” of the Paloqueth Rotating Rabbit Vibrator doesn’t quite reach the spot for me . . . in every other respect, this is a wonderfully fun addition to my toy-box and one I would certainly recommend to any lady looking for a clit-tacularly lovely rabbit-vibe.
For more “technical descriptions” of this impressively powerful, and really wonderfully priced vibe, all the important information, and browsing links, are as below:
Paloqueth Rotating Rabbit Vibrator: Modesty Rating: 7 out of 10 Pros: Strong, sturdy and easy to hold and operate. Lovely silky smooth to the touch, and amazingly powerful vibrations. Cons: For me, the rotating shaft is not quite long, or thick, enough! Packaging: Wonderfully packaged in a strong, black, heavy cardboard. The vibrator itself nestles in perfectly shaped, black foam base, with it’s supplied USB charging cable and a small printed instructions leaflet! Material: Lovely silky smooth, medical grade body-safe, medical grade, silicone. Small stainless steel beads embedded within the rotating shaft. Measurements: Overall length, from the bottom of the handle to the tip of the head = 8.75 inches (220mm). Handle diameter = 30mm. Diameter at “penis-head” = 30mm. Two “vibrating ears” = each 20mm long and 3mm thick which sit on the 40mm rabbit-shaped protrusion half-way along the length. Charging: USB (cable included), via charging port in the base of the handle (small lift-up flap). Charging time = 2 hours. Use Time: 75 minutes? (Though who could last that long with those ears flapping!!!). Colour: Purple. Waterproof: Yes apparently (though I have not, yet, tested this). Lubricants: Use with water-based lubricants (not oil). Cleaning: Clean immediately after use with warm soapy water, a damp cloth or a water-soluble cleaning agent. Noise level: Very quiet for such powerful vibrations. Country of Manufacture: China. Supplier Product Link:Paloqueth Rotating Rabbit Vibrator Supplier Website: paloqueth.com Twitter: @paloqueth_love The Modesty Video Review: If you ask nicely, you may just see a clip of the Paloqueth in action here in the very near future.
The Paloqueth Rotating Rabbit Vibrator was sent to me, free-of-charge by paloqueth.com, for an honest and un-biased review.
The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review
sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the
technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes
and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about
adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to
approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in
a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously!
Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good,
it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.
Visit some of my previous Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.
Getting
a sex toy is one of the best ways to spice up your solo bedroom play, add some
fire to your relationship or simply survive when your partner is far away on a
business trip. For the inexperienced, shopping for a dildo isn’t going to be an
exactly easy task. Luckily you have guides like this as one
of the top resources online to help you find the perfect plaything.
There
are a number of factors to consider when picking out a dildo. The ultimate goal
is to find something that can bring you maximum pleasure. This means everything
has to be spot on in terms of the shape, size, material and even the color and
texture of the dildo. You also have to decide whether you want a vibrating
dildo or not. Your choice of dildo should also be safe to use.
There
is a plethora of options to choose from which presents exciting variety but at
the same time might leave you confused as to which one to choose. Here’s a
quick guide on the things to look out for when shopping for a dildo.
Shape
When
shopping for dildos, you will find a lot of variety in terms of shapes to
choose from. Generally, Curved dildos are considered the best for working the
G-spot and hitting it right on. However, some women might just find the twisted
contoured types better and a preferred option for them. If what you are looking
for is something that feels more realistic, then a dildo sculpted to look like
an actual penis should be your choice. Some of them even come complete with
veins and ridges to further improve the look and feel.
Size: Girth and Length
The
same way women have preferences in terms of penis size, the size of your dildo
is also a major requirement in choosing the perfect one. If you pick something
too small, it might not hit the spot the way you want it to, and you might not
even be able to use the dildo at all if it is too large.
Again,
choosing a perfectly sized dildo depends both on experience and fantasy. You
might judge what would be the perfect size for you based on your previous
experience with an actual penis. At the same time, it can be based on partly or
entirely on fantasy. You need to consider both the length and girth of the toy
you are choosing.
If you have no prior experience and you are unsure of what would be a perfect size, you can carry out a small test to verify the perfect dildo size using fruits. Find out more on how to do that here.
Another
innovative way to work your way around the problem of size when using a dildo
is to but an inflatable dildo which can be pumped up after insertion. That way
you can still get the full fill-up feeling without having to bother so much
about insertion.
Material:
the flexibility of your sex toy this depends almost entirely on the material it
is made of. If you want something solid and rigid, then a metal or glass dildo
is the perfect choice in terms of material. Silicone dildos also offer a lot in
terms of flexibility but still has a solid feel to it as well making it great
for hitting the G-spot. You should consider Jelly or rubber dildos if you
prefer something softer. They are also easier to insert and will require you to
use less lube compared to the solid types.
However,
when considering the material, flexibility isn’t the only thing that is
affected. You have to consider how easy it will be to maintain and clean your
dildo. A jelly dildo, for example, is harder to maintain than a glass or
silicone type since it tends to be permeable to water.
The
material type also determines how adaptable your dildo will be to use. Glass and
metal dildos, for example, can be warmed up or cooled to add extra variety to
bedroom play. A silicone dildo also warms up very quickly and adjusts to body
temperature than other types of dildos.
If
you want something that feels as close to the real deal as possible, then a
realistic dildo is a recommended choice. Not only are they shaped to look like
a real penis. But they are also made with materials such as Cyberskin which
give them a feel similar to that of an actual penis. However, just like jelly,
realistic dildos are also hard to clean which is a downside if you are
considering buying them.
A
workaround for the problem of maintaining and cleaning your dildo is to always
use a condom with it anytime you use it. This will reduce how often you have to
clean it up and help prolong its life.
The base of the dildo: many women might not give thought to this point when
purchasing their sex toy but as you might come to find out it plays a part in
how convenient playing with your dildo will be. A dildo with a balled end gives
you greater control over the toy and helps to attain deeper thrust. One with a
suction cup at the base is a recommended choice if you intend to attach your
toy to a surface to use. Lesbian couples and some straight couples looking to
experiment might find a strap-on dildo the perfect choice for them. You can
also look out for regular dildos that are harness compatible for this same
purpose.
There is no stereotyped guide or fixed rule for choosing a dildo. At the end of the day, your choice depends largely on your personal preferences. You might not always get it right the first time, but with time and experience, you will get better at choosing a dildo on your own.
As you may have gathered, this has been a sponsored post, but you won’t be surprised to know just how much I LOVE dildos . . . for women AND for men! LOL !!! So I hope you have enjoyed reading. – Xxx – K
It arrived in my postbox the day before we left London for a long-planned Christmas / New Year vacation . . .
. . . and I’d just had the time to unwrap the postage-packaging and open the very impressive, hard cardboard, black presentation box.
The purple vibrator was cradled nicely in a black foam interior, along with a charging cable, small instruction leaflet and a purple satin pouch. But when I lifted the Paloqueth out of the box my first reaction was that although the ridged, purple tongues, on the face of the vibrator were intriguing, they actually looked, and felt, just a little too-much like a . . . well like a “toy”.
But, I had suitcases to pack, and an early-night’s sleep ahead . . . so I popped the vibrator back into it’s box and into the bottom drawer of my bedside cabinet . . . telling myself that further investigation would have to wait until I returned from our holiday.
And upon my return, three weeks later, I must confess that the rush and worry of getting back into work-mode meant that bottom drawer went unopened. Until that is . . . early last Tuesday (my second week back).
I’d woken in the early hours hot and tingly from one of those fantasies that occasionally just pop into one’s head. A fantasy, that just seems to arrive from nowhere, for no particular reason . . . but a fantasy that is so hot, and so tingly, that I just know I will not be able to get back to sleep until my excitement is satisfied. (I won’t divulge this particular mornings fantasy here now, but if you ask nicely I may just replay it again on my pages here in the future).
Lost in my wetness, and with my fingers playing-out the rhythms of my adventure, I suddenly remembered those intriguing purple tongues that I’d been rubbing across my palms three weeks earlier. I leaned out over the side of the bed, opened the drawer, unboxed the Paloqueth . . . and re-acquainted myself!
The next few minutes of stroking and sliding, and adjusting the speed and pulsing levels, were simply lovely . . . and the resulting orgasm was shuddering and complete. I rolled over onto my side, curled myself up into my usual post-climatic bundle, and drifted off into a warm and satisfied slumber.
But in the cold light of day, (well the next day actually), would the Paloqueth be able to deliver such intense orgasms again, or was it the actual fantasy itself ???
Well, I’m happy to say, that it certainly has been able to deliver . . . again and again !!!
So . . . as for my initial reaction about that “toy” look and feel ? Well I think that was probably because thePaloqueth Tongue Vibratoris quite small (just 6 inches in length) . . . and possibly because I’ve gotten a bit bored with purple as a colour. But, of course, performance is always more important than size isn’t it!
As I said, the body of the vibrator is purple with a chrome finish bottom cap and thin strip which houses the two small control buttons. It is made of medical grade silicone which is quite smooth to the touch, apart from the head which has a pad-like curved surface made up of numerous rows of small nodules parted by a middle row of seven curved “tongues”. The nodules protude several millimetres from the surface, whilst the tongues themselves stand-up about 6 or 7 millimetres higher again.
You would probably think from looking at my photos here that they are quite “spikey” but in fact I would describe both the nodules, and the tongues themselves, as being “stiff”, rather than abrasive, and quite flexible and not hard to the touch at all.
As you can see the head is curved in shape and has a little bit of flexibility and movement at it’s neck, which allows one to slide, and rock, it back and forth during use, to maximise the contact on one’s lips.
The control buttons are quite easy to use, holding the top “on” button down for several seconds to turn the motor on, and then using that same button to control the power and vibration settings. Holding the bottom button down for several seconds turns it off.
The vibrator is actually very quiet for it’s power . . . so quite discreet to use (in fact it was my thrashing about from side-to-side as I orgasmed that woke Hubby from his sleep next to me on that first morning, rather than the buzzing of the Paloqueth itself!)
There are apparently 8 different vibration settings, but as always with my vibes, I much prefer just the constant vibration modes rather than the stop-start pulsing settings. I do like to start with a lower speed and slide the head up and down and over the whole of my vulva . . . even turning it over occasionally to use the completely smooth back of the head to build me up . . . before increasing the speed and directing those tongues more specifically up and down over my clit.
Although I haven’t yet played with the Paloqueth outside of the bedroom, it is apparently waterproof, and as I mentioned earlier, very quiet at even it’s strongest vibrations. Charging is via the included USB cable which pushes into the rear of the handle (see below). But it arrived already charged which is a nice touch, and as I described for my first “wake-up” experience, that was certainly a bonus . . . and probably just as well.
Paloqueth describe the vibrator as an “Oral Sex Simulator”, but of course it doesn’t actually feel like the real thing to me. However, I must say that it can actually bring me to orgasm far quicker than even the most tongue-skilled of my lovers . . . and it gives me completely different sensations than any of my dildo-type insertables, or my on-the-spot wand clittoral vibes . . . and at the moment it is my go-to play-time toy.
So . . . if you enjoy gentle clittoral stimulation, and quiet subtle buzzing and tingling, I really do suggest you give the Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator a try!
As always, there are some more “technical descriptions” and browsing links for you below:
Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator: Modesty Rating: 9 out of 10 Pros: Quite quiet, light and easy to hold, AND easy to position and manipulate for intense, kissing sensations. Cons: It’s purple colour is a little asthetically off-putting for me! Material: Non-porous, hypoallergenic, body-safe medical grade silicone. Measurements: Overall length, from the bottom of the handle to the tip of the head = 6.5 inches. Handle diameter = 1.25 inches. Width of the “head” pad = 1.5 inches. Charging: USB (cable included). Charging time = 1.5 hours. Use Time: 2 hours. Colour: Purple (see above). Waterproof: Yes. Lubricants: Use with water-based lubricants (not oil). Cleaning: Clean immediately after use with a damp cloth and water-soluble cleaning agent. Noise level: Very quiet. Country of Manufacture: China. Supplier Product Link:Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator Supplier Website: paloqueth.com Twitter: @paloqueth_love The Modesty Video Review: If you ask nicely, you may just see a clip of the Paloqueth in action here in the very near future.
The Paloqueth Tongue Vibrator was sent to me, free-of-charge by paloqueth.com, for an honest and un-biased review.
The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review
sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the
technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes
and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about
adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to
approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in
a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously!
Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good,
it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.
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I’ve had a lot of fun over the past few weekends wearing-in the set of Rubber Wrist and Ankle Cuffs, from Honour.co.uk, that I reviewed here several weeks ago. By “wearing-in” I don’t mean that I’ve been wearing them myself of course . . . rather I’ve used them on several of my subs during some fun sessions at my favourite chambers . . . and they’ve proved very useful indeed!
Now I’ve always loved the fabulous range of clothing and accessories available from Honour, particularly their amazingly priced latex range and their wonderful selection of body-stockings. And over the past four years or so I’ve purchased, or had purchased for me, lots of clothing items, and even my wonderful thigh-high red boots which I am so often asked about . . . from the fabulous Honour website.
So when I was invited to visit their Central London shop in Waterloo recently, I just couldn’t resist !!!
Located in a lovely little street called Lower Marsh, it is literally just around the corner from Waterloo station, so really easy to get to by tube, rail or bus. Instantly recognisable from the distinctive Honour logo above the display window, one has to ring the bell to enter, but don’t be put-off, that just adds to the intimacy and personal-nature of the shop. We were immediately greeted by a lovely smiling young lady who opened the door for us and welcomed us in.
The shop was Honour’s founding store, opened 30 years ago, and inside is like an Aladdin’s cave of wall-to-wall garments, neatly displayed on impressive hanger-racks on each side of the long galley-shaped ground-floor. The actual sight of so many wonderful and colourful items was almost overwhelming at first, but actually everything is so neatly arranged in size and style . . . and the two lovely young ladies Amy and Anita so charming and helpful . . . that I quickly felt completely at ease, and able to indulge myself in browsing from rack to rack.
The ground-floor largely features Honour’s Women’s Wear with a wonderful array of PVC and Leather, Latex and Wetlook, Basques & Corsets, Dresses, Tops, Skirts, Bras, Catsuits, Leggings & Trousers, Jackets, Stockings & Suspenders, Body-Stockings, Knickers and Lingerie.
I was in my element . . . and soon had several hangers-worth of items that I simply had to try on.
The changing rooms have been cleverly and stylishly designed to make the best of the available space with ample mirrors and lighting . . . and Amy and Anita were both wonderfully patient in taking turns with helping me with the zips and buttons, in-between serving and helping other customers at the same time, and advising on the most suitable size to best fit my bumps and curves.
Putting my preferred selections to one side . . . so that I could come back to them and be sure that I had made the right choices . . . I then led Hubby upstairs which houses the Men’s Wear and Bondage items and “toys”.
Now as you can probably imagine, I already have quite an extensive collection of restraints and impact implements, but a fabulous thorny-stemmed Riding Crop(see below) quickly caught my eye, and a few short gulps from Hubby as I tapped it gently against the palm of his hand.
Just like the ground floor every space is, stylishly, packed with an amazing array of clothing and some very interesting dildos, vibrators and accessories.
I enjoyed browsing . . . and teasing Hubby with some rather large insertables . . . but decided to stick with my new crop, and instructed him to follow me back downstairs.
As I mentioned earlier, Honour do have a fabulous website which is perfectly laid-out, easy to use and categorizes their complete and comprehensive range of wonderful items. And there is a helpful touch-screen tablet on a stand near the downstairs counter, which makes it easy to search for specific items one may be interested in, or have seen on the website earlier.
But for me, as you might imagine, I much prefer being “hands-on” in everything I do . . . so nothing beats being able to browse in a real shop, to touch and feel . . . and of course to try things on. And it was nice to see other couples, browsing and purchasing whilst we were there, who obviously felt the same way.
And of course, the helpful and knowledgeable attention and advice from Amy and Anita made my shopping feel even more special . . . so I really do recommend you visit and experience some Honour for yourself.
The shop at Lower Marsh (SE1 7AB) is open Monday to Friday from 10.30 a.m. to 7 p.m. and on Saturdays from 10.30 a.m. to 5 p.m. (closed on Sundays). There is also a store in Watford (WD18 7EN), with directions to both on their website.
The Modesty Disclaimer: I was given a voucher for my honest and un-biased review here. But I loved my time in the shop so much that I spent much more . . . or should I say, I made Hubby spend much more . . . because after-all a lady deserves spoiling occasionally doesn’t she !!!
I’ve been very lucky over the past few years to acquire quite a collection of restraint and bondage accessories during my fun “hobby-time” sessions. But of course, it’s always nice to have more to choose from whenever I’m packing my bag(s) for a new appointment.
So it was quite a thrill recently to be asked by my favourite fetish-fashion company honour.co.uk, if I would like to review one of their new HNRX Bondage items.
I first came across Honour in the summer of 2014, at The Great British Tattoo Exhibition, where I bought my first Latex Corselette. And I have purchased numerous items of clothing from the wonderful, and easy to use, Honour website in the four years since.
And having often been seduced by their amazing range of clothing in the past,
I was certainly intrigued to “test” a set of their HNRX Rubber Wrist and Ankle Cuffs.
As always, the parcel arrived perfectly and discretely packaged, in a strong brown cardboard box, which upon opening, contained two separate, black cardboard boxes (approx, 4 inches square) for the Cuffs themselves, and two smaller rectangular boxes for two “Trigger Hook” devices (more on these later).
As you can see from my photos here, the boxes are all stylishly designed in Black and Purple with strong, white corrugated cardboard inner sleeves lining the Cuff boxes which also contain two metal locks and keys for each Cuff set.
Both Cuffs are made from heavy rubber latex which is actually very stiff . . . much, much stiffer than you would probably imagine. In fact my initial reaction on taking them out of the box is that they felt “too stiff and unwieldy” in comparison to my existing collection of (well used) leather bondage cuffs.
However, I am happy to say that my concern was only temporary as the natural curve of the rubber actually made them quite easy to attach to my willing assistant. They seem to hold their shape more than my leather cuffs and, I was told, felt “quite smooth and comfortable” once buckled-up . . . at least until he was clipped to the flogging-frame!
The manufacture of the cuffs is sturdy and impressive with the inner bands themselves being almost 3mm thick and 50mm wide. These bands are secured to a thinner (25mm wide) outer tongue-strap by four rows of chrome double studs. This outer strap has a chrome D and O ring at it’s middle, with a heavy duty chrome buckle at one end, and six slots to fit over the buckle tongue when secured.
The Wrist Cuffs are 27cm in length (to fit wrists from 12 to 22cm circumference), whilst the Ankle Cuffs are 32cm in length (to fit ankles from 20 to 29cm circumference). And, having had the pleasure of using them twice now since their arrival in my mailbox, I must say that despite my initial concern about their rigidity, I am very impressed.
Especially when used in conjunction with Honour’s ES Double Trigger Hooks. These are separate accessories to the Cuffs, but I highly recommend that you purchase . . . not just because they clip so easily into the O-rings of the HNRX Cuffs, but because they clip so easily into absolutely anything with buckles, chains, hooks or loops.
These heavy duty, double-ended Hooks are 10cm in length and are made from Die Cast Zinc, with a Chrome-like finish, with an easy-to-use trigger-release mechanism at each end. They are light to handle and just perfect for quickly attaching . . . and quickly releasing whenever you are ready. So a safe and user-friendly accessory for the user and the used . . . if you know what I mean, and I really do recommend these as must-have items for all of your every-day restraint requirements!
So . . . as I said earlier . . . I have been shopping at honour.co.uk for lots of my play-time latex and lingerie for several years, but these exciting Rubber Cuffs have certainly piqued my interest and I am sure to be tapping on that “Bondage” tab more and more in the future.
As always, there are some more technical descriptions of the HNRX ES Bondage Rubber Wrist & Ankle Cuffs below:
HNRX ES Bondage Rubber Wrist & Ankle Cuffs:
Modesty Rating: 9 out of 10 Pros: Impressively strong and stylish manufacture, both to hold . . . and to use. Cons: The tongue of the buckle was a little “stiff” to engage initially . . . but practice made perfect! Material: Latex rubber, with chrome-finish steel studs, buckles and O-rings. Measurements: The inner bands of both cuffs are almost 3mm thick and 50mm wide, whilst the outer strap is 25mm wide.
The overall length of the Wrist Cuffs is 27cm (to fit wrists from 12 to 22cm circumference).
The overall length of the Ankles Cuffs is 32cm (to fit ankles from 20 to 29cm circumference). Colour: Black. Cleaning: Honour recommends a thorough wipe with a damp cloth after use. Using a latex shine serum, or spray, should also be used occasionally to prolong the durability and life of the rubber. Supplied with: Each set of cuffs is supplied with two small metal padlocks and keys. Country of Manufacture: Pakistan Supplier Product Link:HNRX ES Bondage Rubber Wrist Cuffs Supplier Website: honour.co.uk
Twitter: @HonourClothing
The Modesty Video Review: If you ask nicely, you may just see a clip of the cuffs in action here in the very near future.
The HNRX ES Bondage Rubber Cuffs and the HNRX ES Double Trigger Hooks were sent to me, free-of-charge by honour.co.uk, for an honest and un-biased review.
The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.
Visit some of my previous Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.
Vibrators come in a very wide range. We can divide them into vibrators for the clitoris, G point, vaginal stimulation, anal dildo, vibrators with pearls, vibrators with double action, real vibrators, vibrators with triple simultaneous stimulation (vagina, clitoris and anus), vibrating massagers, vibrators for men and more. The amazing variety of vibrators, like models, sizes and materials, can really be a problem when you want to buy a vibrator. Whether you are interested in purchasing a vibrator for you, whether it’s one for your partner, we can help you with some simple questions and answers for the right choice of vibrator.
1. Why do you want to use it? Do you want to stimulate your clitoris? Or do you want it for vaginal or anal penetration?
Since the vibrations create pleasure when you use it to stimulate the clitoris or around it, even the phalanx vibrators can be used for external stimulation if the vibrations they offer are quite as strong at the tip of the vibrator. If you want to use the vibrator for anal stimulation, make sure it has a wide base to avoid unpleasant accidents. Although there are vibrators designed specifically for anal stimulation, most are not, for starters, make sure you buy one designed specifically for anal stimulation.
2. How powerful are the vibrations it offers?
If you have not used a vibrator before, then this is definitely a question that no one can answer, you just have to experiment. However, we can offer you some tips. If, when you masturbate, you prefer a strong clitoral stimulation instead of a slight touch, choose a vibrator with strong vibrations such as Wanachi, Pleasure Dot, Water Massager or Tickle Me Crazy – specially designed for stimulation of the clitoris. If you prefer delicate touches, you can opt for a discreet vibrator, small size and fine vibrations in the form of very delicate pulses – such as Petit Ami, Divine Massager, Play Bunny, FeelzToys Mycero or Jesse’s Teaser Butterfly. If you are not sure how hard or slow you want the dildo to vibrate, then you can choose a dildo with vibrations with adjustable intensity. You can play with it until you find out how you want the vibrations for you. Most dildos fitted with vibration-adjustable intensity are equipped with remote controls for their control, disposed at their base or wired, even wireless. The most appropriate here would be a special stimulator for the clitoris. Also, phalanx vibrators are provided with vibrations with adjustable intensity, you can opt for a small size such as the Lady Finger vibrators, which, besides clitoral stimulation, can also be used for light penetration.
3. How much do you want to spend on a sex toy?
Most people first opt for cheaper sex toys, especially to test the sensation, and then gradually increase to high-tech or luxury vibrators. But if you like a more sophisticated vibrator and think it will make you touch new heights of pleasure due to the shape and countless special features it offers – then without any worries, you can jump over the preliminary steps and buy it and you will surely be happy with the results.
Usually, expensive, ergonomic, last generation vibrators – are specially designed, perfect from an anatomical point of view, to precisely and irresistibly reach all erogenous areas. Plus, vibrations and their intensity are no longer a problem, offering different modes of vibration, pulsation, rotation and many other games, all controlled with the help of the remote control or the advanced controller they are provided with. Read more here.
4. How big should the dildo be?
Discrete, small size toy bags that fit in your purse, such as the Pocket Rocket Vibrator or Mini Vibrators – are an excellent choice if you want to have them on you all the time. However, if your vibrator or sexual toy never leaves the drawer next to your bed, of course the length is not too important. In another thought, if you intend to use the vibrator for penetration, vaginal or anal, then the thickness of the toy is the most important aspect. So, if you do not know exactly what to try, the advice is very simple, try something smaller for the beginning and then you can decide what best suits you.
As you may have gathered, this has been a sponsored post,
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I know that suction-style, clitoral stimulators are not for everyone . . . but ever since I first came into contact (literally as well as figuratively) with the Satisfyer range early last year, I’ve loved regularly reaching into my bedside drawer for my favourite Pro 2.
So I was absolutely thrilled to receive three of the next generation, “Satisfyer Pro”, series recently.
Now as always with new play-things, I like to experiment . . . and experience . . . them over the course of several weeks. I find that different situations and different moods allow me to discover what I like, and perhaps what I don’t, about a new toy, rather than rushing headlong into making an instant judgement.
So . . . over the course of the next month or so, I shall be “reviewing” each of the new Pro Series Satisfyer’s separately here at my Toy Review pages.
But, in the meantime, the lovely people at Satisfyer have a very special Easter Weekend Discount Offer which I am delighted to share with you . . .
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The offer is open to readers from within Europe, Canada or the USA only, between March 30 and April 2, when ordering any items from their lovely website at: www.satisfyer.com.
Just enter my Modesty Ablaze discount code of modestylablaze25
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PLUS . . . I have even more Satisfyer-ingly exciting news, and a little challenge, to share with you. Sally at Satisfyer has given me one extra of each of the three Pro Series toys above to give-away, absolutely free.
So, what I shall do, over the next month or so, is to make a subtle mention or hint, of something “Satisfyer-ing” within the text of my occasional blog-postings here. It won’t be in every post, and as I say, I hope to make the hints quite subtle, but the first reader to message me from my “Contact Modesty” form quoting the specific “hint” in the relevant post, will win one of the three Pro Series toys. It will be first-come, first-served . . . and due to postage etc. will only be available to my readers within the UK. But I’m sure it will be fun . . . and “satisfying” . . . for all of us.
So, keep reading . . . and don’t forget that Special 25% OFF Easter Weekend offer using my discount code above.
You can read my previous “Satisfyer-ing” experiences >here< and >here<.
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