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A Modest Intent #sinfulsunday


“I always have only the best intentions . . . for both of us!!!”

“Yes Mistress” he answered, kneeling in front of me.

For more Sinful intent this Sunday kneel and kiss the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Modesty Ablaze “Love Bites” new video


One of the things I enjoy about meeting new friends is discovering new, different, and fun experiences. We all have different desires, different fetishes and different things that excite and arouse us. And I always find that discovering . . . and sharing . . . those different experiences with new friends can be so fulfilling and enjoyable.

And that’s exactly what makes all of the #realworldsex videos at so relevant and such fun . . . because it’s real-life emotions and pleasures shared with real-life people!!!

And “Love Bites”, my newest video at is a perfect example of that because my new young friend surprised me by begging me to indulge his passion for “Love Bites” – and not in a place where you would normally think that love bites would be . . . !!!


. . . because, you see, he wanted me to give him love bites . . . down there!!! . . . if you know whereabouts I mean.

I wasn’t really sure I would be able to indulge him in his desires at first . . . at least not as “hard” as he seemed to want them. But he does have such a “lovely package” that I just couldn’t resist! And despite my initial reservations, I quickly began to really enjoy myself . . . and his lovely “package” . . . as I think will be obvious from this fun video!

You can view my introduction to “Love Bites” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . or from >here< . . . BUT, as I mention at the end of my introduction, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction. (AND, no it’s not like all those other video-sites! There are none of those horrid pop-up adverts and unwelcome invitations. is simply about other #realworld people just like you and me, celebrating-in, and sharing their sexuality and love.

I urge you to view, and see for yourself, exactly what I mean).

Love Bites MLNP Clip

There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Love Bites” is my 32nd video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my thirty-two #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

I really do hope you get as much fun . . . and excitement . . . and wonder . . . from viewing “Love Bites” as my new friend and I,
rather obviously, had making it!!!

Xxx – K


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A Modest Flogging #sinfulsunday


Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Modestly Red #Boobday Friday


We all have a favourite outfit don’t we? You know . . . one we just have to wear for that “special occasion”.

And although I can’t possibly wear it all day today, I am planning on wearing my favourite red dress out this evening for another “special occasion”.

But then Hyacinth’s #Boobday Friday, is also always a special occasion,
because as she says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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A Modest Fetish #Boobday Friday


It’s London Fetish Weekend this weekend . . . so I’ll be very busy!
Very, very busy LOL!!!

But as today is  #Boobday Friday I thought I would share one of the outfits that I will be wearing at some point over the next three days and nights.

And if you tap Hyacinth’s #boobday logo below, you are sure to see lots more boobs on display this weekend, because as Hy says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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Modestly Humble #sinfulsunday


Sometimes one stumbles across something that makes one just want to . . .


Slap ones hands together and . . .


Stamp ones feet . . . in excitement, happiness and joy!

Today was a day just like that . . . and I’m sure there will be lots more exciting happiness and joy to be found this Sinful Sunday from slapping the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Modestly Spiked #sinfulsunday

“Looking Up” is this week’s theme at Sinful Sunday, but . . .


. . . things may not be “looking up” for everyone within my crasp . . . depending, of course, on how “upward” one grows during the evening!!!

Experience more upward trends this Sunday by smacking the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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So . . . let me begin! #sinfulsunday

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And, tell me . . . how much time did you say we had ???

There is bound to be more Sinful beginnings, middles . . . and ends, to be discovered at this week’s Sinful Sunday from slapping the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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The Waiting Over #sinfulsunday

This time last week I was patiently Waiting at Sinful Sunday . . .


And then came the knock . . . and the waiting was over !!!

I’m sure you will find lots of other people who have had a busy week, by gently slapping the Sinful Sunday lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Modesty Ablaze reviews “The Breathable Ball Gag” at


It’s always nice to discover new people and new organisations entering the Fetish market-place, particularly so when the company concerned is female-focussed, female run and female staffed!!! So I was delighted to hear about Pink B.O.B. and the fledgling Kink-side of their business, Masterkink . . . after-all, we all have a kink-side don’t we? (Well I know I do !!!).

Pink B.O.B. is a small, but growing company based in New Hampshire in the USA (close-ish to the bottom of the state line with Massachusetts, so not too far from Boston). The B.O.B. part of the Pink name stands for Battery Operated Boyfriend which always makes me smile warmly when I repeat it to myself as I’m sure we’d all like our “boyfriends” to be battery-operated from time to time!

But Pink B.O.B. has so much more than just battery-operated toys in their growing product range and I really do recommend my American readers especially, to visit their website as I think all of their products are extremely reasonably priced.

Earlier this year I reviewed theirFlexi Plug Suction Cup Anal Toy” and am currently having their vibrating cock-ring “road-tested” for me by one of my trusted “colleagues” . . . but for the purpose of this post I am especially excited to focus on two items from their Master Kink range. Two separate items which can, of course, be used together if the mood should take you . . . as it often does for me!

Firstly the Master Kink Breathable Ball Gag . . .

ModestyAblazeGagBoxNow, I do quite frequently come across this item hanging from the “utensils” rack at various dungeons I use for my mistress sessions. But I have always been reticent to “re-use” them with my own companion(s) at the time. Almost all of the “toys” I use, or play with, during my own sessions, are my own. Items I have collected myself for home playtime with my No.1 submissive . . . because playtime fun always starts at home!

So I was thrilled to receive the Master Kink Breathable Ball Gag in the post . . . though I did see an immediate look of apprehension in No.1’s eyes as I unpacked it and dangled it before him.

But I’m happy to report that he soon felt better when I passed it to him to look at, and feel, for himself. I think because the ball itself has 10 small breathing holes, and being made from an ABS Plastic type material, it is actually quite light and smooth. (Unlike some of the harder rubber and wooden balls we’d come across in our “travels”). The leatherette-type straps are quite light as well, and also reasonably flexible . . . so he felt that perhaps it wouldn’t be quite so restrictive after all . . . and soon succumbed to my command (see below!).

ModestyAblazeFaceGagThe ball itself is approximately 2 inches in diameter and slides along a short (4”), thin strap which slots through the ball itself. This strap is then attached via light D-ring connectors to the main strap. Made from a patent-leather type material, the buckle end is almost six inches long, whilst the strap-end (with 9 holes for the fixing) is just over double that length. That means the ball gag and strap has an adjustable fit of between 14” to 21”.

The strap is 1” wide and approximately 4mm thick and . . . according to No.1 . . . is quite comfortable once attached. Although, of course . . . I am the one to do the attaching . . . I did briefly try it on myself (for the purpose of this review only of course!) and he is right, I found it quite easy to breath and experienced no unpleasant taste or discomfort.

But, as I said, I am the one to do the attaching, and I have now done so on several occasions at home . . . and also quite recently with another of my subs, in-session.

Which brings me to the very necessary subject of cleaning! Because, although the Master Kink Breathable Ball-Gag is very nicely packaged in a quite strong and stylish shiny-gloss box, there is very little product information on the box itself . . . and nothing about the best method of cleaning (the ball particularly). I always clean all my toys with anti-bacterial wipes, and hot soapy water, both before and after use and, so far at least, that has had no discernible negative impact on the ball itself. But I would have liked a little more specific information on that aspect.

However, that aside, this Master Kink Breathable Ball Gag is proving to be a wonderful and fun addition to my kink-box. And, if you are just beginning to explore some kinky fun at home . . . or even if, like me, you are expanding your horizons in your journey through Kink . . . I think this is an ideal starting point.

As is . . . The Master Kink Bondage Rope.


If you have been visiting me here for some time, you will know how much I love rope play. Not actually doing the binding, or rigging itself, but . . . for the times when I switch roles and allow myself to be bound and played with.

This doesn’t happen very often of course . . . I have to be in the right sort of mood . . . and then only with my “very” good friend and rope expert Lover No.14.
But I just love the feel of rope being wound closely, and tightly, around my naked body. There is something so sensual and arousing about that total sense of submission to the will of someone you completely trust! As I say, it doesn’t happen very often, but when it does happen next, I will definitely be requesting this soft and sensual cotton rope to be the first thing wrapping around me.

It is almost 33ft in length and quite soft to the touch . . . so once again . . . perfect for beginning one’s experimentation with rope and bondage play. I’ve only played briefly with it once so far . . . and not yet with Lover No.14. But we do have a meeting planned very soon, so I shall be reporting back to you here, on just how The Master Kink Bondage Rope actually feels in practice!!!

So, as I said at the beginning of this post, I do so love discovering new people . . . and new companies . . . and I certainly do recommend you follow my links below and discover more about Pink B.O.B. and Master Kink for yourself!!!:

The Breathable Ball Gag:
Modesty Rating:
 9 out of 10
Pros: Tactile feel. Air-holes for safe use and reasonably comfortable and easy to attach . . . and detach!!
Cons: None to report just yet.
Ball Material: ABS Plastic.
Strap Material: Leatherette/Patent Leather and Nickel Free Metal D-rings.
Measurements: Ball Diameter 2 inches; Strap Width 1 inch, Buckle and Strap adjusts to fit between 14 to 21 inches.
Noise: Allows just the occasional wimper or squeal!!!
Colour: Black.
Batteries: None for the Ball Gag, but you may need some for your other toys once the strap is in place!
Waterproof: Probably, but do not submerge with your submissive attached!!!
After-care: Obviously always wash with hot soapy water after, and before, use. (I use anti-bacterial wipes as well!).
Supplier Product Link: Pink B.O.B. Master Kink Breathable Ball Gag
The Modesty Video Review: To possibly follow if you are interested!

The Master Kink Bondage Rope:
Modesty Rating:
 7 out of 10 (though yet to be tested fully).
Pros: Soft and just the right thickness for beginners-play!
Cons: Yet to be tested fully.
Material: Cotton.
Measurements: Length 33 feet; Diameter 1/3 inch.
Colour: Black.
After-care: Machine washable (in mesh laundry bag).
Supplier Product Link: Pink B.O.B. Master Kink Bondage Rope
The Modesty Video Review: I think there may be one coming within the next month! LOL!!!



Additional links: Pink B.O.B. at Twitter ; Pink B.O.B at Instagram . . . and I also do recommend you browse the lovely Pink B.O.B. blog pages for Helpful Hints, Tips and Tricks, and How-To-Guides!!!

The Master Kink Breathable Ball Gag and Bondage Rope were sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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