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A Modest Stocking #sinfulsunday

Most of my stockings are black . . . but it’s nice to slide into something
of a different colour, before stepping out for the evening!!!

To see who else is stepping out this Sinful Sunday, just tap on the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Modest Formula #wickedwednesday

Probably the question that I have been asked most often over the past two years, and one that I have not added to my  “Questions You Have Asked Me” pages . . . is what “satisfaction” do I get from my Mistressing adventures.

Most people seem to assume that it is just a simple “enjoyment” from administering pain. It is an easy assumption to make, given most people’s view of Domination and Submission, but actually for me nothing could be further from the truth.

Whilst I had always had a fascination for the “fashionista” imagery associated with Fem Dominatrices, I had also long been curious myself about the emotions and desires of both sides of the relationship for those involved. Surely it couldn’t all just be about the giving, and receiving, of pain . . . I knew there had to be more to it than that.

But for many years, it remained just fascination and curiosity . . . until, during a visit to Sh! my favourite women’s shop in London’s Hoxton, I read about an event they were hosting by Madam Caramel, one of London’s most well known dominatrix.

Fortified with lots of glasses of wine, and accompanied by my lovely friend SheLover, I was immediately captivated and entranced by Caramel’s larger than life personality, her wonderful candour . . . and most of all her engaging sense of “fun” as she explained her experiences and views on her role as a Fem Domme.

My curiosity and interest was instantly aroused. I just had to learn more, and soon discovered that the equally legendary, Miss Kim Rub, held Mistress Workshops nearby. I enrolled for one of her Saturday afternoon sessions . . . and a whole new world of understanding, and adventure, suddenly opened-up before me.

Like everything in life, the power of the dominant/submissive relationship, is different for everyone . . . but for me it is much more about the connection, the chemistry of the psychological aspect of the interaction, rather than just the physical.

And most importantly, it has to be fun . . . on both sides . . . for it to work and be enjoyable for me. Every situation has to be completely consensual . . . and have that fun-factor . . . because being able to fulfil another person’s strongest desires and fantasies, and share in their enjoyment of that fulfilment, is what gives me that sense of “satisfaction”.

And even three years on, I am still continually amazed and intrigued at the different requests I receive . . . and the relationships I continue to build with a growing list of eager submissives.

Because of course, domination and submission is not all about impact, and whether I am requested to “stamp-me-vitals”, or am asked for a “firm hand-spanking”, or a “judicial caning”, or perhaps just sit back and receive a 15 minute “foot massage” or “toe-sucking foot worship” . . . there must always be that interaction, that special chemistry.

For more Chemical Reactions . . . gently smack the rainbow button below!!!

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Xxx – K

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Modestly Nursed #sinfulsunday

“I’ve been feeling under the weather lately. Tired and lethargic” he said.
“Circulation! . . . Probably a lack of exercise and stimulus.” I replied. “Let’s be having a look at you then!”

“Hmm . . . you do seem to have a temperature though!” I said as I began my preliminary examination.

“I suspect too much blood rushing to your . . . um . . . head!!!”

“I think we need to slow down . . . and re-direct some of those red blood cells!”

“Let’s get them moving round a bit . . . wake-up some of those other important places shall we !!!”

“Circulation . . . and stimulation . . . that’s the answer! I’ll soon have you
re-energised and hopping around like a jack-rabbit again!” And, he soon was!!!

And I imagine there will be lots more circulation . . . and stimulation . . . to be discovered at this week’s Sinful Sunday by smacking on the lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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Modest Toys #wickedwednesday

I’ve never been one for Gadgetry . . . but I do love my Toys!

Especially when I know they can give so much pleasure!!!

But as “Gadgets” is this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday I’m sure there will be lots more wires being flexed, and buttons being pushed, to be discovered by tapping on the big button below!!!

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Xxx – K

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A Modest Question #sinfulsunday

“Favourite colour?” I asked, as I always do with a new sub, as we prepared
for his first session during the week.

“Black” he foolishly stammered from his rightful position kneeling before me.

“Wrong answer!!!” I laughed flexing my cane, amazed that he hadn’t
picked-up on the obvious clues.

“MY favourite colour is . . . RED” I exclaimed, emphasising the word ‘red’,
with several swishes of the cane. “And you’ll gratefully accept every bit of red
I give you . . . won’t you???”

And he did . . . in fact he seemed to enjoy all of what I gave so much,
that I wondered if his answer had been cleverer than I’d first assumed!

For more thoughtful Questions and Answers at this week’s Sinful Sunday
just swish, swish, tap on the rather inviting lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Stepping Out #sinfulsunday

I do love stepping out in my boots from time-to-time. Hearing the sound of the stilettos on a hardwood floor . . . and the appreciative sighs of an admirer.

They are devilishly difficult to keep clean though . . . so I always insist on them being freshly polished after every wear!!!

I’m sure there will be lots more devilishly admired sights to discover at this week’s Sinful Sunday by stepping . . . gently of course . . . on the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Invigorating #sinfulsunday

After a long and difficult week at the office . . . one does need an invigorating work-out occasionally. You know what I mean . . . just to stretch the limbs and energise the muscles . . . and warm the senses. Wouldn’t you agree???

And there is bound to be more warming and energising to be found,
by slapping (responsibly please!) those Sinful Sunday lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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Modestly Spilt Milk #sinfulsunday

Whenever I entertain at my table, I make it quite plain . . .

. . . that I don’t expect to hear any body crying . . .

. . . over spilt milk !!!

(Spilt wine??? Well now that would be another matter altogether!!!)

But speaking of Fluids . . . that very subject happens to be this week’s theme at Sinful Sunday.
Soak it up by sipping on the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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A Modest Kneed #sinfulsunday

Sometimes . . . when one’s submissives have purposefully, and willfully, misbehaved . . . there is nothing else for it but a firm, over-the-knee spanking!!!

And, once I’ve finished here, I shall visit this week’s Sinful Sunday, from smacking the lips below, to check-out everyone else’s needs and desires.
Though only . . . as I say . . . once I’ve finished here!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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A Modest Punch #sinfulsunday

After a relaxing and very indulgent summer . . . I thought it was time to start getting back into shape!

So I spent several hours this afternoon . . . re-acquainting myself with my
favourite Punch Bag!!!

Taking great enjoyment from sharpening my reflexes and practicing some
of those jabs and uppercuts!!!

It was a rather intensive and quite exhausting (but Sinfully fun) workout!!!

And now that I’ve had a chance to catch my breath, I think I shall just unwind and check-out what everyone else has been up to by jabbing those naughty Sinful Sunday lips below!

Sinful SundayXxx – K

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