One small step for #ScavengerHunt 43

Continuing the celebration of Scavenger Hunt September . . . and re-living wonderful memories on viewing Curvaceous Dee’s Observing Carefully scavenger post yesterday . . .

I thought I’d add one of my own celestial memories of that astronomically exciting day. We wandered around the exhibits at the Stardome Observatory and Dee was in great form posing with her Planets of the Sun, flashing Astronauts and Rockets ready for lift-off!!!

Modesty Ablaze SpacemanAnd, of course, I love an adventure as well . . . particularly discovering and exploring new frontiers!!!

Modesty Ablaze SpacesuitPossibly space travel might experience a renewed boost in popularity with such astronautically naughty hostesses as Dee and my space-suit above!!!

I’m not sure if this will qualify as a Scavenger Location (Spaceman???) . . . but it was such a fun and adventurous day, that I wanted to share it here.

But there are certainly many, many more adventurous explorers on view at Dee’s Scavenger Hunt page.

And also lots of my own, at my SH Listings  . . . and may I suggest you join in the fun with some sharing of your own??? ESPECIALLY, as this is September Scavenger Hunt Month. Come on – Dare to Bare !!!

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Xxx – K


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Oral sex skills at #wickedwednesday

This week’s Wicked Wednesday prompt is “Communication” and as that was the subject of one of my posts from October of last year, I thought this would be an ideal opportunity to re-post it again in it’s entirety.

Because . . . of course . . . communication is always the key in anything we do, but most especially in our interaction with partners and our personal relationships with each other.

So . . . from October of 2013 . . .

ModestyShirtA recent comment on one of my posts mirrors several emails I’ve received recently mentioning things along the lines of “I wish my wife was like you”.

I always try and respond with “well – do you talk with them about your feelings and desires? . . . Because, deep down inside, they MAY actually want to be someone different!!!”

Any relationship, no matter how much you actually love someone, can become routine and mundane. And, particularly if one is trying to balance the pressures and stress of bringing-up ones children, running the family home . . . and very probably going out to work as well . . . it can be incredibly tiring and draining.

I know that despite the fact that we’d always had a fun and adventurous relationship, and despite my Hubby always encouraging me to express my deepest feelings right from the very beginning, I still felt it hard to completely “open-up”, or even admit to myself, the things that really excited me. Perhaps it was my Catholic upbringing. Perhaps a lack of self-confidence. Perhaps a fear of being rejected.

So I couldn’t admit to feeling flattered, and excited, and interested by the approaches of other men. And despite all the feelings of guilt and probably initially at least, shame . . . I found myself embarking on an office affair. It was an escape, a distraction, a release from my “ordinary” life. And it was a thrill and an excitement I just couldn’t deny.

And yet . . . I also couldn’t deny those feelings of guilt and deception . . . and the moment I felt I had to “confess my sins” was one of the most frightening moments of my life. But instead of exploding in fits of rage Hubby insisted he knew that I had been seeing someone else, almost from the start. He told me he loved the fact that I could experience that excitement, and difference, and fun . . . and that it simply enriched our lives.

That moment was truly life-changing. Realising that we could both share absolutely everything about ourselves, all our deepest personal secrets, desires and needs, was an incredible feeling.

Of course it didn’t change our lifestyle overnight. We still had all those normal, everyday, pressures. The work, the home . . . and the children. But suddenly that one emotional, heart-wrenching conversation meant that nothing could come between us. If we could talk so openly, and understand, and share each others sexual desires and needs, we could talk and understand anything and everything.

My affair continued and my new-found “freedom” meant I was able to meet and develop other relationships over the coming months and years. My sharing all of the details with Hubby of my “evenings out” grew and developed with an almost natural unplanned progression into him meeting several of my lovers. Then into him actually joining us . . . then into Swingers Clubs . . . then into . . .

And the more we shared, the more we talked, the stronger our relationship became . . . and it continues still !!! Our life just continues to get better . . . and more fulfilling, and more exciting . . . and more fun.

Why am I telling you all this???

Because . . . I understand how difficult it can be sometimes to just open-up and tell someone we really love, just what we really, really feel inside. Particularly about sex! Why is it that we find something so natural, so basic, so fundamental, so difficult to talk about? If we can only just put aside all those feelings of guilt, shame . . . and jealousy . . . we can unlock not only ourselves, but also those nearest and dearest to our hearts. It may not be easy, and certainly those feelings of jealousy may be the single most difficult factor to overcome. But perhaps just communicating those ideas to each other may open up new areas of fun and excitement.

So . . . communication is the key!!! Talk to your partner, your husband, your wife.

Maybe THEY want to be that someone that YOU want them to be too . . . !!!


For even more of this Wednesdays communications, simply click on Marie’s button below!

rainbowcircle1-200Xxx – K

P.S. – Thank you to the wonderful John Tisbury, (see my side-bar), for my photo-silhouette above.


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#afterrealworldsexselfies No.2 @#sextalktuesday

I’ve previously mentioned that my favourite website, MLNP, have started their own Instagram and Twitter tags for #afterrealworldsexselfies . . . for just after #afterrealworldsexselfie pics.

And, after posting my own first contribution, I received several emails asking if I would post some more.

So, never one to turn down a challenge, today’s submission is a very recent (very, very LOL!!!) “selfie”. Taken (as was that first photograph btw!) by Hubby’s, still-shaking-hand reaching his phone up above us, just a minute or two . . . #afterrealworldsex!!!

ModestyRealWorldTwoNow I hope you will all join-in and post some of your own, because . . . to quote Madam Curator Sarah from MLNP . . . #afterrealworldsexselfies are:

“a great way to spark a healthy dialogue around sex and to celebrate the fact that #realworldsex isn’t exactly over as soon as everyone’s had their orgasm. We truly believe that the cuddling, eating, showering, or whatever it is that you do after #realworldsex is also part of the fun!”

And today is the perfect opportunity to join-in and be part of the fun because today (Tuesday, September 16th) the lovely Madam Curator is leading a #sextalktuesday discussion about what makes great #realworldsex at’s SexTalkTuesday.  For my North American readers you can follow the discussion live-online at 3 p.m. EST or for those of us in the UK I think that is 8 p.m. GMT. The show is usually available for streaming afterwards, should you not be live on-line at the time of the broadcast.

Madam Sarah explains more >here< about some of the points being discussed . . . and to actually participate in the discussions with your own questions or points-of-view, you can log on to Twitter and use the #SexTalkTuesday hash tag during the hour-long show.

But even if you can’t make it on-line for #sextalktuesday you can still be part of the fun by sharing your own #afterrealworldsexselfies at

It will make me smile (and tingle) if you do !!! – Xxx – K

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The Bus Stop @ #sinfulsunday

You know what it’s like waiting for a bus . . . even on a very busy Friday evening in London . . . Shoreditch High Street actually . . . sometimes you just seem to be waiting so long that you become distracted!!!

Modesty Ablaze Bus Stop OneSo much so, that you cross the road looking for a little more privacy (very, very difficult on a busy Friday evening in Shoreditch!!!) . . .

Modesty Ablaze Bus Stop TwoOnly to see your Bus suddenly arrive and then drive off without you. “See we’ve missed it now!” I’m complaining (well, not really complaining)!
“Don’t worry darlin’ there’ll be three more along in a while!” my friend replied.

And, he was right, after we’d all calmed down and re-arranged ourselves, another bus did appear . . . in just enough time to get us here to Sinful Sunday . . . and to make my 42nd Scavenger Hunt Location.
(With thanks to my special friend No.37)!!!

To discover lots more Sinful Sunday Fun simply hop-aboard by clicking on the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Oh, and to find out MORE about why I love Scavenger Hunts so, so much click >here< for Scavenger Hunt September.


Xxx – K


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#scavengerhunt September – Join me and Dare to Bare!

September is Scavenger Hunt month at the wonderfully fun Curvaceous Dee’s Meme ! And, as we are now almost half-way through a month of some lovely new images there, I thought it would Scavengerly Sexciting to celebrate the fact by spreading the news and hoping to encourage even more of you to join in the fun.

Because, from my point-of-view, Scavenger Hunt is not just about flashing one’s private bits in public, it is ALSO a Sex-Positive, Body-Positive, means of spreading dialogue and discussion, understanding, recognition and . . . hopefully . . . acceptance of the importance of talking more openly about one of the most basic of emotions (possibly the most basic) that we all share.

Far too many of us still feel repressed or shameful or embarrassed to talk openly about our sexuality, our bodies, and our feelings. Dee’s Scavenger Hunt is a wonderful example of how we can help to dispel and overcome that repression and shame. I challenge you to scroll through the long, and growing, lists of Scavenger Participants and Scavenger Locations, and not smile, giggle and gasp. I am positive (Sex Positive) you will feel happier and better about the world around you after clicking through those links . . . and that you may possibly, hopefully, be inspired . . . as I was . . . to join in the fun.

You can see some of my own submissions to this most wonderful of Meme’s from the Gallery below, BUT I really to urge you to follow those other Participants and Locations links above for much more inspiration and fun!!!

Come onDare to Bare !!!

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 (More about the locations of the above photographs, and other pictures from those adventures are available at my Scavenger Hunt Listings page!)


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Xxx – K

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Grecian Stairs #ScavengerHunt 41

“You must try the Restaurant on the Hill,” they’d told us on the first day of our Greek Island holiday. “The view is beautiful from up there”.

“But how do we get all the way up there?” we asked, remembering that the bus journey down to the beach had been very steep. We weren’t sure we’d have the energy to walk all the way up the hill as it was so hot . . . even in the evening.

“It’s ok, there’s a public stairway, from the sign on the beachfront” we were told.

Modesty Ablaze Scavenger Hunt Restaurant“That must be it” Hubby said. “Look the path behind you leads back to those stairs winding up the hillside”.

Modesty Ablaze Scavenger Stairs Climb“Well . . . it’s still a bloody hot, long climb” I moaned. “But I suppose we’re almost there now. That’s it at the top, I can hear people chattering”.

Modesty Ablaze ScavengerMiddle Stairs“Oh . . . I need a bit of a rest . . .  just to cool-off for a minute!”

Modesty Ablaze Scavenger Naked Stairs“That’s a bit better . . . I’m still hot though! . . . Anyway, pass me my dress now before anyone comes down. I can’t go to dinner like this!!!”

Modesty Ablaze Scavenger Stairs at Top“Well, it IS a beautiful view . . . but I so, SO need a glass of wine to cool down!!!” . . . and I hope after that climb that this will qualify for the “Public Stairs” category at Curvaceous Dee’s Scavenger Hunt ?

There are lots of my other Scavengers, at my Scavenger Hunt Listing page . . . and can I suggest you join in the fun with some sharing of your own??? ESPECIALLY, as this is September Scavenger Hunt Month. Come on – Dare to Bare !!!

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Xxx – K


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Count down!!! #WickedWednesday

She recognised him the moment he stepped through the door. He didn’t have that same arrogant look, the jutting jaw, the assured swagger of the last occasion she’d seen him in the flesh as he’d strode past her desk towards the Executive Suite. But she knew from his eyes and those silvery streaks in his fringe. It was definitely him, definitely Nigel.

His profile, and the face pictures she’d requested when he’d contacted her from her Fetlife account, hadn’t given her any clues. They were just as all the other profiles, friendship requests . . . and bookings for her services . . . that she would always receive. Darkened, out-of-focus, selfie-mobile phone pictures either taken too close-up and out-of-proportion, or too distant and blurry to give an exact indication of the individuals “normal” identity.

Even when she’d asked him to call, as she always insisted, and they’d spoken for a few minutes on her mobile, she hadn’t recognised his voice. Nervous and slightly echoey . . . as these first calls so often were . . . their short conversation hadn’t triggered any alarms, any memories.

But it was definitely him, definitely Nigel.

He didn’t recognise her of course . . . after all, in her five years at the company, they’d never spoken in person. She was just another PA to one of his junior-managers in marketing, another faceless emailer from the third floor. Just a name, a convenient scapegoat, along with her department manager, who would “just have to be let go” when that contract had been approved and signed with one zero, one apparently very important zero . . . before the decimal point . . . had been left off the final paperwork.

“How could it happen?”
“Weren’t these things checked and re-checked?”
“Weren’t the minutes cross-referenced and listened to again and again?”
“They’ll have to be let-go. Replaced! All of them! The whole department!”

It had been a huge shock at the time. Unexpected and cruel. But in one of those wonderful twists of fate . . . one of those life-changing turns in the road . . . she’d risen to the challenge of one of her, very drunken, colleagues at their unofficial, enforced, post-redundancy drinks sessions.

“Why don’t you become a Mistress? You know how you hear about all those suits and execs that like to be dominated and whipped and spanked before they go home to shout at their poor wives and kids?”

And now . . . 18 months on . . . now, in one of those wonderful twists of fate, here was Nigel . . . sorry, “SubNeil71” . . . stepping over the threshold of her dungeon door.

Now, SubNeil71, I want you to count down . . . one nip, one bite, one swipe, one pull-of-the-chain at-a-time . . . One Hundred Thousand and Ten . . . One Hundred Thousand and Nine . . . !!!!”
Why am I telling you this story? Well, because this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is all about other women who have been fired from their job for getting a number wrong. But, take it from me ladies, all is not lost . . . a change can often be good news . . . For Some !!!

And I think you might find more counting and re-counting, from tap-tap-tapping on Marie’s button below!

rainbowcircle1-200Xxx – K

P.S. Any resemblance to real-life instances of Nigel’s or Neil’s, is purely co-incidental, unexpected . . . and unintentional!!!


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Erotic Authoress Spotlight . . . Kat Jameson

I’m delighted today to welcome a debutant authoress to my Erotic Authoress Spotlight page.

Kat Jameson, is a young New York actress and writer and has just released her first two short-stories. Reading both the teaser-excerpts below has certainly left me anxious to know more!!!


At the ripe old age of 27 I decided to let my inner world step out into the limelight through my writing. As a native New Yorker, I have always loved the energy and the pulse this city gives off day in and day out. Being surrounded by Broadway Shows, big city lights and the eclectic mix of people I see everyday, has fed my creative spirit. The dream of being an author and an actress has been my main pursuit for the past three years.

After many years of not feeling like I “belonged” anywhere, I came to terms with my own sexuality at the age of 23. This personal revelation not only renewed my spirit,  it also helped me decide the direction in which to steer my writing. Having a huge crush on one of my female acting coaches helped as well! Allowing my sexual fantasies to finally make their own debut through my writing has been nothing less than exhilarating! I have always written for my own enjoyment and fulfillment, but recently took the plunge and published my works electronically.

I wanted my first few e-books to be a series that takes the reader on a journey with each story leaving the reader anxious for more. I hope that Marina and Linda’s story can intrigue and excite readers as well as reaffirm their belief in love and leave them yearning for book three and book four!

With the release of my first two e-books, I created Facebook and Twitter accounts. Any support and feedback would be greatly appreciated.


From Book 1, The Artist of My Life.

ArtistOfLife“Hi, Linda.” It was Marina. The way she said my name in her light Portuguese accent, Leenda, made my throat catch.

“Marina,” I said and stood, forgetting that I had put my bag on my lap. It fell, spilling the contents of my life all over the floor.

 “Ah, whoopsie!” I cried out as I knelt to scramble for my stuff, thinking, Whoopsie, really? Did I just say that out loud?Marina was instantly on her knees beside me. “Let me help you,” she said. Her hair, a mass of glossy mink brown waves, fell over her eyes as she reached for the lipsticks and coins that had rolled under the seats in the next row. She dropped a handful of them into my open palm. Her face was so close to mine, I noticed three light freckles on her right cheek that I hadn’t before. My stomach did back flips at my sudden desire to connect them with my tongue.


And from Book 2, Love’s Challenge.

LovesChallengeShe trailed her finger down my arm, giving me chills.“Are you waiting for him to bring it up? To ask why you requested time to go on a trip sponsored by the college for a colleague in another department?”

“Well, he certainly knows we’re friends,” I said.

Marina tilted my chin towards her face. Her eyes blazed. “Does he know this?”

She leaned over to kiss me. The rasp of her thick curls against my cheek made her lips even softer. I breathed in her intoxicatingly warm and sensual scent of gardenias and light musk. A soft gasp escaped my throat as I murmured into the hollow of her ear.

“If you keep this up, I won’t be able to hold out till we land.”

Kat’s Buy links:

I hope you will enjoy, and share, the above and if you would like to join my Erotic Authoress Spotlight features . . . and post your own Erotic work here, please email me with your details, from my Ebook page. You can catch-up with previous Erotic Authoress Spotlight guests >here<.

Xxx – K

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Curves & Lines @ #sinfulsunday

Sorting through our cameras after our holiday recently, saving the photographs into “family friendly” and “private” folders (LOL!!!), Hubby mentioned this picture as being one of his favourites.

It was from the first morning of our vacation, trying to start a tan on the balcony of our apartment . . . assuming that I was out of view from the pool below.

Modesty Ablaze Curves and Lines

It wasn’t until I turned over onto my tummy and looked over to the beach across the road, that I could see the life-guard just climbing into his tower and waving a “hello”. Hubby assured me that he wouldn’t be able to tell I was sans-bikini, but in the interests of beach safety I decided to ALWAYS keep my bikini on for the rest of my sunbathing! (Well almost always . . . but that’s for another time!!!)

Anyway, as the theme for this week’s Sinful Sunday is all about “Women, female, feminine”, Hubby begged that I submit the above as he felt that the Curves and Lines are “quite feminine and shapely”.

I’m sure there will be lots more feminity available by kissing the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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The Bandstand #ScavengerHunt 40

We did have some nice warm and sunny days this summer . . . and some lovely weekend breaks away from the hustle and bustle of London.

ModestyBandstand1One such visit was a wonderful day on the south coast enjoying a peaceful picnic in the park by the river.

ModestyBandstand2And this beautiful Bandstand was a lovely spot to relax and enjoy some shade.

ModestyBandstand3And although I’m not very musical . . . I did enjoy my brief moments on the stage!

Now I realise that there is not yet a “Bandstand” category at Curvaceous Dee’s Scavenger Hunt but can I suggest that we start one?

Some of my other Scavengers, that have been allowed, can be found at my Scavenger Hunt Listing page . . . and can I suggest, why not Dare to Bare, and join in the fun with some sharing of your own???.

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Xxx – K


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