In a Modest Stile #sinfulsunday


Whilst I’ve always been a city-girl at heart, I do enjoy a stroll out and about in the country most weekends.


It was still quite mild for this time of year as Hubby and I set off on our favourite ramble yesterday afternoon, so I decided on just shorts and my waterproof jacket . . . in case of showers. Oh, and my wellington boots of course as one never knows about muddy fields and brooks.


“We will have to hurry-on though” I said to Hubby as I climbed the stile from the main road. “There’s another car just pulling-up by the side of the road”.


“No, I won’t take my jacket off . . . not yet anyway. I can hear they’ve got a dog with them so they will probably be racing past us shortly. Just be patient . . .
I’ll see how warm I get after we’ve walked on for a while.”

But . . . if you are as impatient as Hubby . . . there’s bound to be lots of other “jackets-off” at this week’s Sinful Sunday by
tapping the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.S. Now there is a “Stile” category at Jades Scavenger Hunt pages,
so I’m sure you will find lots more interesting country strolls there too.
And don’t forget, there are lots of other Scavenger Hunt strolls at
my Listings page . . . and now over 90 different locations on
my Scavenger Slideshow page as well!!!   

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxxx – K


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A Modest Morning Workout . . . #Boobday Friday


Sometimes I just have to force myself, to wake-up ten minutes earlier than normal, for a quick morning work-out.

Though I normally end up thinking that this type of “morning work-out” is
not as much fun as many that I’ve enjoyed in the past!!!

For more morning boobs on display this #Boobday Friday, just flex Hyacinth’s cleavage below, because as she says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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Nominate your Top Sex Blogs of 2016


Every year around this time, nominations open for the annual Top 100 Sex Bloggers List. I believe this will be the eighth year of the lists existence . . . and it has become something I so look forward to scrolling through every year, to discover new gems of excitement, education and, of course, stimulation!!!

Now of course, lists, recommendations and compilations are always subjective aren’t they? What appeals to one person may be of no interest at all to another. But to me what is so important about the Top 100 Sex Bloggers List is that it is the perfect starting point for discovering a hugely diverse and entertaining group of people discussing, promoting, and most importantly in my view, celebrating  one’s sexuality in a way that it is never, ever approached in mainstream media.

And that is important in enlightening, educating and helping to hopefully remove all of the stigma, shame and guilt from what is, after all, the most basic and empowering . . . and exciting . . . of all of one’s natural emotions and instincts.

But enough of the preaching and finger-shaking from me . . . because none of us like too much of that do we? (Depends exactly where the finger is shaking actually!!!)

I will let the wonderfully remarkable, curator-supreme, Molly, explain the history and ethos of the list >herewith< but I really, really urge and encourage you all to scroll through the names, and links, of those blogs already listed . . . and investigate as many as you can . . . because I am sure you will find lots and lots of fun reading and, as I mentioned earlier, lots of enlightenment and stimulation!

And we all need more fun and enlightenment and stimulation in our lives from time-to-time don’t we???

Xxx – K


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A Modest Thank You #sinfulsunday


It’s always lovely to receive a surprise gift in the post . . . it makes one feel special and nice . . . especially when the gift is as lovely as this Black Net Body Stocking!!!

Normally the gifts are followed, or even preceded, by an email message from the sender. But this lovely present arrived recently without any notification before
. . . or since . . . from the person who sent it.

So, as it as made me feel very sinful whenever I’ve slipped it on, I thought I would model it here today by way of a “thank you”.

To see lot’s more sinfulness this Sunday just gently, and respectfully please,
kiss the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.s.More “thank you’s” await for the sender of this lovely gift. Just email to let me know if it was you . . . and I shall reply by return!!!


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Modestly Yawning #Boobday Friday


As the mornings are getting colder, so it’s becoming more and more difficult to get up for the commute into the office.

Especially after waking from wonderfully sleepy . . . and naughty . . . dreams beneath the covers!!!

For more morning boobs to wake up to this #Boobday Friday, just kiss Hyacinth’s cleavage below, because as she says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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Modesty Ablaze “Forbidden Pleasures Part 2” video


When I introduced my “Forbidden Pleasures – Part 1” #realworldsex video at MakeLoveNotPorn last month, I mentioned that there was more, much more . . . from that amazing evening Hubby and I shared with the wonnderful Lover No.14 . . . still to come.

Well I am so thrilled to say that “Forbidden Pleasures – Part TWO” is now available from my profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn, and it continues on from just where Part 1 left off, with even more sharing and passionate sexy fun.

And I say “sharing”  because as you will see, all three of us take turns at filming our naughtiness, with the boys especially enjoying themselves with some sensual massaging play of their own . . . mostly with their mouths, if you know what I mean. And you will also see how I loved the opportunity to use my new anal vibrating P-spot massager with No.14, which he clearly enjoys.


But most of all, “Forbidden Pleasures – Part TWO” shows how our evening together continued with just hours of different pleasures, different positions and different #realworldsex fun!!! previewed “Forbidden Pleasures Part 1” as:

When Modesty Ablaze, hubby, and lover no. 14 get together, you know it’s just going to be a simply amazing time. Quickly melting into a puddle of pleasure (both literally and figuratively), Modesty allows lover no. 14’s skillful hands do all the “work” while she enjoys waves of #realworldpleasure. Featuring a rope-a-licious “bikini top” and some slippery toytime, nothing beats Modesty’s laughing #realworldorgasms!!

And I can happily tell you that “Forbidden Pleasures Part TWO”  has even more “waves of #realworldpleasure” . . . not to mention lots more “#realworldorgasms” . . . for all three of us!!!

You can view my introduction to “Forbidden Pleasures Part TWO” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . . . . and, as I mention, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction.


There are lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Forbidden Pleasures Part TWO” is my 31st video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my thirty-one #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

Make Love Not Porn

I really do hope you get as much fun . . . and arousal . . . from viewing “Forbidden Pleasures Part TWO” as all three of us, obviously, had making it!!!

Xxx – K


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A Modest Day at the Building Site(s)

“Have you noticed” I said to Hubby as we drove down the hill to our apartment, “that lots of the building sites we’ve passed haven’t changed much since we started coming here three years ago? Perhaps we should take a photo of them each year to see how they change or progress”.
“That’s a great idea” he replied. “Let’s start tomorrow!”


So the very next morning, as we set-out to re-aquaint ourselves with the island, we stopped at the first site at the top of the road.


“Well actually, they are obviously doing some new work,” I said. “Look they have barrels of water and new materials to work with.”


“But this hasn’t changed at all” he said at the next stop, further up the hill. “Yes, it’s such a shame as it’s right between two nice new houses.” I had to agree.


“Well, this is encouraging” I pointed out, as later on and much further along the coast road, we came across a completely new building.
“Yes, I think there was just an olive grove here last year” he said.


“It’s a lovely view . . . and quite close to the beach”.


“Hopefully it will be a nice new house when we come back next year”.


But later that evening, as we drove on to one of our favourite tavernas, we came across another site that hadn’t changed much at all since our last visit.


“Well they have started to add a new level here” I said. “I don’t think all these rods were sticking up like this last time . . . I’d be bound to remember such impressive erections!!!”


“Anyway, can you come along and hurry up please, that’s someone else probably driving on to our restaurant”.


“I mean it you know. If you don’t put that camera away, I’m just going to walk on without you! I don’t want to miss out on a table and you promised me a special meal . . . and a nice bottle of wine . . . to celebrate our first night back!!!”

I got my way of course . . . as I almost always do. Well, I’m sure you’ll agree it’s what a lady who’s been on her feet all day . . . traipsing around building sites, stepping over stones and piles of wood and around cement-mixers and cables . . . simply deserves.

And I’m sure you’ll come across lots more deserving ladies, and gentlemen, at this week’s Sinful Sunday by tapping the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.S. I’m also hoping that all that traipsing around will qualify for the “Building Site” category at Jades Scavenger Hunt pages. And don’t forget, there are lots of other Scavenger Hunt “sights” at my Listings page . . . and now over 90 different locations on my Scavenger Slideshow page as well!!!   

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxxx – K


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Modestly Sheer #Boobday Friday


Despite what you may think, I don’t always like to have my nipples in full view.

So this lovely black top is one of my favourite club-wear items . . . just to preserve my Modesty you understand!!!

And if you tap Hyacinth’s #boobday logo below, you are sure to see lots more modestly displayed boobs today, because as Hy says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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Modesty Ablaze reviews the “Lust Silicone Wand” from


I’m not usually one for “love at first touch” . . . well at least not for my toys! Normally I find it takes me several sessions, over the course of several days, or even weeks, to discover whether I really enjoy a new toy . . . or not, as the case may be. This is particularly true for new vibrating or insertable toys.

But . . . I am absolutely delighted to tell you that was not the case for the PinkBob Lust Silicone Rechargeable Wand!

Because this is, quite simply, the most wonderful . . . and powerful . . . vibrating cordless-wand I have ever experienced!!!

But first things first . . . let me start, where I should, at the very beginning . . .


Perhaps because of it’s light pinky colour, and possibly the criss-cross patterns on the handle, it made me think of an ice-cream cone when I first removed The Lust from it’s box. All light and fluffy . . . it looked rather “sweet and innocent” . . . possibly playful but probably quite ineffectual for a properly fulfilling play session I thought to myself.

I liked the lovely smooth silicone surface and the lightness of it in my hand though . . . so I was intrigued and curious as I plugged in the supplied USB charging cable for the first time.

PinkB.O.B.’s items are always nicely, and tastefully, packaged and The Lust comes in a stiff white cardboard box with the PinkB.O.B. logo itself, and a picture of the Lust on the reverse of the box, printed in a shiny glossy and slightly raised process. Hubby informs me this is called “Spot UV Laminating” . . . but I just know that it looks and “feels” nice. And I like it !!!

Inside the box the wand is inserted within it’s own nice silky draw-string bag which just adds to the classy and stylish feel of The Lust. And, being rechargeable, a USB cable and power plug is also supplied within the box.

modestyablazelustwand3The cable-prong pushes into a tiny hole in the base of the handle and being an American company (more on that below) the actual mains power plug is of the North American flat, two-pronged type.

But as it is a USB-cable it just simply detaches from the plug and can be used with any European USB charging plug, or can be easily plugged-into one’s computer . . . though I’d never be able to concentrate on working on my computer with the Lust sitting there next to me in full view!!!

The Lust takes around an hour to fully charge with the power button glowing red whilst charging and then going out when ready for play.

It is wonderfully light and the lovely silicone feel of the whole handle (save for an inch or so of plastic at the base) makes it easy to hold and operate. The handle tapers gently from a diameter of just over an inch or so at the bottom to about one and three quarters of an inch at the neck (about 5½ inches circumference).

modestyablazelustwand5This neck (about 2 cm in height and 2.5 cm in diameter) is slightly flexible so that the head of the Lust can gently tilt against one during use, to help achieve that “perfect angle”.

As you can see from my photos here, the head itself extends
2 inches (5cm) above the neck with a sort-of-domed top. The circumference here is also about 5½ inches, or just over 1½ inches in diameter . . . and it is absolutely LOVELY !!!

The overall length of the Lust from the tip of the base to the top of the head is 7¾ inches and, as I’ve already mentioned, is actually surprisingly light to hold in the palm of one’s hand . . . especially for the power it generates.

In fact it is so light, that to say I was surprised with the power of it’s vibrations would be a huge, huge understatement. Even when I first pushed the power button I could sense that it had quite a strong buzz . . . BUT it wasn’t until I slid it down over my lips that it’s true power, and intensity, truly hit me . . . and then . . . then I knew . . . I was in love!!!

So if clittoral-stimulus does it for you then look no further . . . because, as I said at the beginning, this is simply the most powerful cordless I have ever had the pleasure of playing with. And I mean PLEASURE . . . gasping, turning and squirming . . . pleasure.


And this amazing pleasure is selected from three subtle, touch-sensitive buttons, located halfway up the handle of The Lust.  The power button turns the vibrations on and off, the top button is used to select slightly different levels of vibration speed, and the middle, pulse, button gives some rather surprising and fun variety of pulsing and throbbing sensations. But . . . actually . . . I personally prefer just the single-continuous standard vibration, adjusting the sensation for myself by sliding it up and down, and around and over, different parts of my lips and clit. Lifting it off for a few seconds and then sliding it down again. Pushing it harder against me . . . then lifting it away to just barely caressing my skin. Tilting it back and forth in different angles and even . . . and I know PinkB.O.B. would probably say I shouldn’t be doing this . . . just pushing that lovely smooth head gently inside me. Not far of course . . . but just enough, to turn that intensity into a throbbing, shuddering, explosion. It does it to me every time!!! . . . But, as I say, PinkB.O.B. would probably not recommend it’s use in this way, and in fact, the accompanying little** leaflet actually does say “please be advised not to press the wand tightly to your body as you could risk bending and damaging the head supporter” . . . so, do be warned. But, I just couldn’t resist !!!

And I also couldn’t resist using The Lust again . . . and again . . . several-times-over on that first evening. AND lots and lots of times since. In fact over the past few weeks it has been living under my pillow instead of being packed-away in my toy drawer as all my other toys normally would be.

However, I know I will have to try to exercise more will-power and deny myself The Lust more often though. Too much of something isn’t good for you . . . it’s just that I can’t help it, whenever I’m feeling horny and in need of a quick-release, out it comes.

Anyway, before I get carried away thinking about it again, please do scroll through my summary points below for the important technical details on this lovely, lovely toy.

The Lust Silicone Wand:
Modesty Rating:
 10 out of 10
Pros: Lovely smooth silicone feel. Light and easy to hold. And the most powerful vibrations for a cordless wand I have ever felt.
Cons: **You know what my only complaint is? It’s that the accompanying instruction leaflet is SO small that, for a “mature lady” such as myself, even with my reading glasses, I could barely read it. I had to sneak it onto the office photo-copier and enlarge it several times to make it legible.
Material: Lovely smooth silicone.
Measurements: Overall Length 7¾ inches; Diameter just over 1½ inches..
Vibrations: Several different pulsing modes, and subtle changes of vibration speeds.
Noise: Surprisingly Moderate for such powerful buzzing!!!
Colour: Pink, of course, but almost a subtle violet-pink.
Power: Rechargeable via USB, so no batteries required, nor those annoying fixed power cables which often seem to get caught-up in things at the worst possible moment!!!
Lube: Use with water-based lube only.
Waterproof: No.
After-care: Obviously always wash with warm soapy water after, and before, use. (I use anti-bacterial wipes as well!).
Supplier Product Link: Pink B.O.B. Lust Silicone Wand
The Modesty Video Review: To possibly follow if you are interested!

Additional links: Pink B.O.B. at Twitter ; Pink B.O.B at Instagram . . . and I also do recommend you browse the lovely Pink B.O.B. blog pages for Helpful Hints, Tips and Tricks, and How-To-Guides!!!

modestyablazelustwand6NB: As I mentioned earlier, PinkB.O.B. is an American company based in New Hampshire. However, I wanted to say especially for my European readers, please don’t let that put you off, because as well as shipping all over the world, I know that from all of my dealings with them throughout this year they have been simply delightful to correspond with. AND all of my parcels have actually arrived within a few days of despatch. AND, as they mention in the “About Us” section on their website “women play a large role at our company, from concepts to package designs!” So, there you go, what more encouragement do you need??? I recommend you visit . . . and indulge in some “Lust” as quickly as you possibly can.

The Lust Re-chargeable Silicone Wand was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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Brushing Back The Years #sinfulsunday

Sometimes I whisper to the mirror in the morning . . . “I wish I could brush back the years . . . back to 1982”.


Modesty Ablaze – 1982

But then I remember all of the fun, all of the laughter . . . and all of the love
. . . over the years inbetween.


Modesty Ablaze – 2016

And I know I’m better now . . . than then . . . a better person, more rounded
(and I don’t just mean my tummy)!!!

So whilst it’s fun attempting to re-shoot one of my #polaroidspast . . . I wouldn’t change any of those experiences, and memories at all . . . in fact
I’m hoping for many, many more!!!

And as this week’s theme at Sinful Sunday is to re-shoot photos from
one’s past, I’m sure you will find many more sinful memories from clicking
on the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

Modesty Ablaze in Polaroids Past
Be Proud of Who You Were . . . and Be Proud of Who
You Have Become!

Xxx – K


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