My Sinful Past @ #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Recovering - 1984

Modesty Ablaze “afterwards” – 1984

Whilst we were browsing through photographs for my #afterrealworldsexselfies post during this past week, Hubby remarked that I’ve always had that sinfully-satisfied look in my eyes immediately “afterwards”.

And to emphasise his point, he pulled out this photo . . .  one of our #polaroidspast collection . . . from one of my “afterwards” from 1984. And in all the years since there have been lots . . . and lots and lots . . . of sinful moments of course!

But it’s fun being sinful sometimes isn’t it . . . and I’m sure that all of you here this Sinful Sunday will look back and giggle and feel good about your own sinful-moments-past.

And, for lots of Sinful moments from the present this Sunday, simply click the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

Oh and P.S. – I get lots of messages from people who say they would love to join-in with #polaroidspast but don’t have any old “polaroids”. But the theme is actually about celebrating how you have become who you are now! Just remembering those wonderful . . . fun . . . and perhaps inspirational moments, from even your recent past, that have brought you to the here and now. So Come-on . . . Dare to Bare . . . Be Proud of Who You have Become!

Modesty Ablaze in Polaroids Past


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Modesty’s all arms & elbows @ #afterrealworldsexselfies No.5

Arms&ElbowsYou know those moments . . . those amazing, all-consuming, seconds in the immediate aftermath!!!

Sometimes I twist and turn and bury myself into the pillows and sheets . . . sometimes I pull my knees up to my tummy into a slowly rocking back and forth fetal cocoon . . . sometimes I’m all thrashing arms and elbows!!!

And then I always need a few minutes to recover . . . when I can’t be touched . . . can’t move . . . can’t speak.

Those wonderful #afterrealworldsex moments that I’m sure we all have in different ways . . . and I thought I would share another of my own here and for the MLNP#afterrealworldsexselfies theme.

Because . . . to quote Madam Curator Sarah from MLNP . . . #afterrealworldsexselfies are:

“a great way to spark a healthy dialogue around sex and to celebrate the fact that #realworldsex isn’t exactly over as soon as everyone’s had their orgasm. We truly believe that the cuddling, eating, showering, or whatever it is that you do after #realworldsex is also part of the fun!”

So why not join in with some #afterrealworldsexselfies of your own. You can find out more at

It will make me smile (and tingle) if you do !!! – Xxx – K

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**P.S. Oh and don’t miss the exciting NEW post updates of some wonderfully fun, and REAL, #realworldsex.

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How to . . . dress appropriately #wickedwednesday

In my teens I was always being chastised for “not dressing appropriately” . . .
so, of course, that always made me want to find something even more inappropriate to wear!!!

InappOneFinalSo imagine my delight when I recently discovered the wonderful Inappropriately Dressed website . . . and it’s amazing collection of sexy and revealing Lingerie, Corsets, Hosiery . . . and, of course, the most interesting for me . . . outrageously Sexy Clubwear!!!

InappTwoFinalAs you can see above and below, I’ve already bought several outfits. This montage is from just two Fridays ago trying to decide what to wear for our visit to Torture Garden that evening. Can you guess which one I went for in the end?

InappThreeSo, if like me, you can never have too many dresses or body-stockings in your wardrobe, I would certainly recommend you browsing the pages of Inappropriately Dressed . . . they have a huge range of items and accessories to choose from and I know I will certainly be returning for more!!!

You can also find even more from the Inappropriately Dressed range >here< or from their Facebook page >here<.

For more appropriate, or possibly inappropriate, “How To’s” this Wicked Wednesday, simply click the button below!!!


Xxx – K

Oh, and P.S. – If you’d like to see more photographs of a particular outfit just let me know and I will see what I can do !!!


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Modesty Cupped & Bound #sinfulsunday

Last weeks Sinful Sunday featured a post from Kazi showing some Cupping play . . . something I’d encountered, (unexpectedly and completely by surprise), for the first time just the evening before. It seemed such a coincidence that
I simply had to post some of that cupping fun I had, here this week!

ModestyRopeOneIt started out with my favourite rope-maestro Lover 14 working on a new
rope-dress for me.

ModestyBareHis insistence that he should mask me whilst he worked wasn’t unusual . . .
for him . . . but it was the next sensation, seen coming here, that caught me completely by surprise.

ModestyBreastCupsThe sudden sucking feeling was actually very pleasant . . . until they were unplucked a few moments later!!!

ModestyBottomTwoBut it was such arousing fun . . . that later on in the evening I asked to experience the sensation in “other places”. My bottom being just one of them!!!

ModestyBottomRingsAnd, as I do like having souvenirs of my marks, I just had to ask Hubby for some photographic keepsakes as well.

And I’m sure you will discover many more Sinful keepsakes by cupping
the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Modesty on the Bridge #scavengerhunt

There are bridges . . . some famous and some infamous. And this bridge, near us in North London, probably falls into the latter category.


Because, unfortunately, some people have jumped off it in the past.

ModestyBridge2Actually there is a runner coming up the pavement . . . so I think I should cross over to the other side of the road.

ModestyBridge3That’s better . . . he’s just passing by now. But, where was I, oh yes I was about to say that this bridge is quite high above the road below . . . perhaps we should go down to give you a better idea of it’s size.

ModestyBridge5Being a main road out of the city, it is always very busy . . . so I’ll just wait until this Bus has passed by.

ModestyBridge4So now you can see the bridge up there behind me . . . it is very high above the road isn’t it !!!

But I’m hoping that my occasional strolls across it may cheer-up any passers by, and convince them to keep on walking across to the other side. Perhaps even to consider joining me down here . . . or . . . maybe even joining in the fun at Curvaceous Dee’s Scavenger Hunt !!!

You can see lots of my other Scavenger Hunt strolls at my
Scavenger Hunt Listings Page  . . . and may I suggest you share some strolls of your own at Dee’s site by clicking on the button below!

P.S. You can also view some of my previous Scavenger Hunts at my
Scavenger Slideshow >here<!!!

Come on, it is such funLet’s all Dare to Bare !!!

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxx – K


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Modesty’s Toy Review Round-Up: HedoVibes#87 & The Uberkinky Manila Skinned Spanking Cane

TantusPPPhoto courtesy of Omni Lust

Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form.

Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition.












View my Video Review of The Uberkinky Manila Skinned Spanking Cane >here<!

View my Video Review of The Uberkinky Spiral Steel Chastity Cage >here<!

View my Video Review of The RO-Zen Vibrating Butt Plug >here<!

View my Video Review of The Diamond Dream Glass Dildo >here<!

View my Video Review of The Infiniti Dual Stimulation Vibrator >here<!

View my Video Review of Yes Natural Organic Lubricants >here<!

Visit my Sex Toys page for some of my favourites!

Xxx – K

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Modesty On-The-Rocks #scavengerhunt

OnTheRocksOneThe weather has been almost summery in London over the past few days, and it’s been making me think of summer holidays!

OnTheRocksTwoAnd remembering the lovely little cove we discovered . . . just around the corner from the main tourist beach on our Greek Island holiday last year. It was more rocky, with less sand, than the most popular beach . . . but I actually preferred it.

OnTheRocksDuoEspecially as we found this wonderful rocky outcrop which I just HAD to christen as a  “Rocks (big ones!)” notch on my Scavenger Hunt list.
My normally shy Lover No.1 was so excited by our discovery that he set-up the self-timer on his new camera to capture what was supposed to be a “private just for us” picture together. But after posting it for Wicked Wednesday I insisted that we add it here as well.

OnTheRocksExitAs I said, he did get quite “excited” at our discovery. So excited that I had to tell him “it’s far too hot for THAT . . . just go and take a dip to cool off, and if you’re good I’ll think about it when we get back to the apartment!” (You can actually find out what happened back at the apartment >here< if you wish!!!)

Oh and yes, we did put our bathing costumes back on when that boat in the background suddenly decided to turn in to come ashore!!!

You can see lots of my other Scavenger Hunt discoveries on my
Scavenger Hunt Listings Page  . . . and may I suggest you join in the fun with some sharing of your own at Dee’s site by clicking on the button below!

P.S. You can also view some of my previous Scavenger Hunts at my
Scavenger Slideshow >here<!!!

Come on, it is such funLet’s all Dare to Bare !!!

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxx – K


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Exposed “On-the-Rocks” #wickedwednesday

OnTheRocksDuoThis week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is . . . “Exposed”. So in the spirit of full-exposure I thought I would cajole, charm . . . oh, alright then, command . . . the normally shy Lover No.1 into joining me for this post.

We’d slipped out of our bathing costumes for a quick series of On-the-Rocks Scavenger Hunt pictures during our summer holiday last year. Trying-out the self-timer setting on his new camera, he jumped up here with me . . . for what was supposed to be “a private picture just for us”.

But exposure can be fun sometimes can’t it? So I hope this will bring a few smiles and giggles this Wicked Wednesday.

Discover who else is exposing themselves this Wednesday by climbing onto the button below!!!


Xxx – K


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Modesty’s “Cane Love” #realworldsex video @makelovenotporn

ModestyCaneLoveVideoEven though Caning & Spanking is talked about more openly than ever before, I think a lot of people still feel that it is always about trying to hurt someone.

Well, I’ve always enjoyed spanking and bondage play in my relationships as a way of introducing FUN and extra excitement. Something different that I never take too seriously. And whether I am the one giving, or the one receiving, I actually find it to be a really strong, loving and sharing experience. And that can be a huge and wonderfully all-consuming emotion. And I hope you will agree that my new “Cane Love” video at illustrates that perfectly.

It is from a lovely hotel-evening early in March, with Lover No.1. Starting out with some gentle caning with my new Manila Cane from Uberkinky . . . and a spanking-induced orgasm for my submissive . . . I soon commanded him to give me those deep loving kisses I do so really, really love.

Urging him on with my Riding Crop and then my throbbing Doxy Wand . . . more multi-orgasms for us both followed, before a wonderful finale of a loving and relaxing foot massage.

And I was so thrilled when the lovely people at MakeLoveNotPorn mentioned “Cane Love” in their latest blog post:

“In this delicious new video, Modesty Ablaze showcases something we’d love to see even more of – a woman turning the tables and dominating her man in the context of a loving relationship! Excited to try out her brand new cane on her more than willing sub, Modesty teases her husband, allowing the whacks to build in intensity, much to his delight. Continuing to steer the action and ‘get hers’ by way of lover no. 1’s tongue and fingers (operating a Doxie wand) Modesty comes and comes before proceeding to pass out completely. I just love that she left in the gentle snoring at the end of this video, and I think you will too!”

There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to “Cane Love”, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . or, you can view my introductory video >here<.

“Cane Love” is my sixteenth video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my 16 #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Xxx – K

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River Cam #sinfulsunday

ModestyCamRiverHaving just returned from a very Sinful, and very exhausting, NWA . . . most of the pictures from which are far too sinful even for Sinful Sunday . . . I haven’t had the opportunity to prepare a proper post for this week.

So I thought I would simply re-post one of the pictures from our stroll around the lovely town of Cambridge this afternoon.

Having woken early but sinfully delaying our hotel checkout until the last possible moment . . . we enjoyed our afternoon unwinding with a late lunch by the river, strolling around the colleges, and indulging in a Scavenger Hunt picture or two >here<.

But you’ll find many more Sinful photos, and Sinful posts, from kissing the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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