The morning tease #Boobday Friday


“Which one will you wear today?” Hubby usually asks as we race between shower, breakfast and bedroom, every morning before we leave for work.

He knows I’d rather go without . . . and very often do !!! But sometimes one
has to be modest and not allow too much straining or wobbling beneath
ones office blouse!

“How about this?” I will tease,  as I slowly . . . very slowly . . . slide into my morning selection.

Usually I will have to slap him away with warnings of “No, no . . . we’ll be late . . . you’ll have to wait”!!!

And if you race over Hyacinth’s  #Boobday Friday cleavage below, I’m sure there will be even more reasons for running late this morning.
Because as Hy says:

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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Modesty’s Life Buoy #wickedwednesday


June . . . and the weather here in London still doesn’t know what it wants to do! So I was so glad I wore my coat on my walk into the office yesterday. It was sunny and pleasant as I strolled through Regent’s Park . . . but the clouds overhead looked like the rain was already on it’s way again.


I always make a point of stopping here at the Life Buoy Ring . . . just to check and make sure that no-one has strolled inadvertently into the lake and might be needing assistance.  I suppose it’s just from remembering my short, but fun, Lifeguard Duty stint I had on my hols two years ago!

I’m always ready to shout “Don’t Give Up” and throw the ring into the water should there be an emergency! And as this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is “Don’t Give Up” I thought it quite appropriate.

You will find more helpful examples of not giving up from Marie’s #wickedwednesday button below!


Xxx – K

This will also be my latest contribution to Pieces of Jade’s, fun
Scavenger Hunt for the “Life Buoy Ring category!
And you can discover lots more of my Scavenger-moments on my current playlist at my
Scavenger Slideshow page!!!   

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxxx – K


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Celebratory Kisses #sinfulsunday


These past two weeks has been Pride in London 2016 – a festival celebrating something we should all celebrate more often . . . love TO . . . and FOR . . . EVERYONE.

Love and acceptance, to and for, not just family and special, special friends . . . but love and acceptance for everyone, everywhere.

And I am sure there will be lots more love to enjoy at this week’s
Sinful Sunday from kissing the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Modestly In or Out #Boobday Friday

I always make it a golden rule to never, ever ask my Lovers about political things. But I do, of course, always give them the freedom to choose, when I ask . . .


“Do you prefer them in . . .


. . . or do you prefer them out?”

And whether it’s to the left . . . or whether it’s to the right . . . they always seem to prefer them being . . . out?”

And just to make it perfectly clear, this post was posed and prepared, before any political results from the UK this #Boobday Friday . . . and if you hover over Hyacinth’s cleavage below, there are sure to be more distractions from the news of the day. Because as Hy says:

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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A Modest View #wickedwednesday

ModestyAblazeBeachViewIs it just me, or does summer seem to be so slow in starting this year???

I’m having to resign myself to closing my eyes, and thinking of my secluded beach, blue skies, warm sand and the gentle lapping of the waters edge.

I just can’t wait to re-live my “view”, from last summer, in a few weeks time!!!

And I’m sure you will discover lots more “Views” at this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday from the-button below!


Xxx – K


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Modesty Ablaze Tees off #sinfulsunday

ModestyAblazeGolfCourse1Please excuse me for posting so late this Sinful Sunday . . . I’ve been out today exploring ways to change my exercise routine. So, instead of my normal Sunday Stroll, I’ve been thinking about taking-up . . . Golf !!!

ModestyAblazeGolfCourse4I’ve never played the game before, but . . .

ModestyAblazeGolfCourse2. . . I’ve often been told that I have a good grasp of anything to do with balls . . . and more recently . . . clubs!!!

ModestyAblazeGolfCourse3And it has been quite relaxing today, just enjoying the peacefulness of the green, the rustling of the leaves in the breeze . . . . . . and hearing that lovely sound of balls being whacked . . . from the very next tee.

ModestyAblazeGolfCourse5Hubby says I shall have to change into something “more formal” when I get back to the clubhouse to speak to the Membership Secretary.
But it does say on the Application Form I picked-up on the way in, “A recent photograph is required for Photo ID purposes”. So I’m wondering if one of these photos would suffice???

Anyway, I am sure that there has already been lots more applications to this week’s Sinful Sunday from clicking the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.S. – I shall let you know the response of the Ladies Secretary at the Golf Club, but in the meantime I thought I would also submit these as Photo ID for the “Golf Club Location” at Pieces of Jade’s, fun Scavenger Hunt.
And, if you are interested, you can discover lots more of my Scavenger submissions at current Scavenger Slideshow page!!!   

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxxx – K


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A Modest Identity #wickedwednesday


Modesty Ablaze – Sultry in 1989

I suppose our “Identity” . . . in the sense of who we think we are, or how we want others to perceive us . . . changes over time, in much the same way as our appearance does.

I know that from my own point-of-view, I now worry far less about others perception of me, than I used to. Accepting who we are, not trying to be the sort of person whom we know we are not, is all part of maturing and feeling comfortable in one’s self. And having that self-confidence, in just being ourselves, shapes how we interact with others around us and how, ultimately, they accept us . . . or otherwise!

So, as I say, I worry far less about those things than I probably did in my younger days. And looking at this picture from my #polaroidspast in 1989 makes me giggle now. Just who was I trying to be? A Sultry Siren ??? LOL!!! . . . or perhaps I was just sulking and getting annoyed at Hubby seeming to take forever to actually set-up his camera and “just click-the-button!” (Some things never change, he’s still the same!!!)

Anyway, there will be lots more thoughts on “Identity” to discover in this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday from clicking-the-button below!


Xxx – K

Modesty Ablaze in Polaroids Past

Oh and P.S. – Be Proud of Who You Were . . . and
Who You Have Become!

Join me at #polaroidspast
Xxx – K



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Modesty Ablaze reviews the Black Leather Flogger from Blackhorses

HeavyFlogger1Some weeks ago I posted a review on the Blackhorses-of-India Brown Leather Flogger FL0021 . . . and . . . as I mentioned, there were several other rather interesting items I received at the same time. All slightly different but all equally wonderful . . . so much so that I decided to review each of them separately . . . one stroke at a time.

And the one I’ve chosen for this post . . . and for my video review >here< is their amazing Black Leather Flogger FL0022.

Like all of the implements I received from Blackhorses . . . the workmanship in this flogger, is simply the best I have ever had the pleasure to hold . . . and use !!!

HeavyFlogger2It has 42 Leather Straps . . . Yes that’s right! 42 !!! . . . made, I’m told, from Indian Buffalo Leather. Each of them are 72mm wide, 3mm thick  and 21 inches in length. I’m not sure exactly how they are secured into the handle . . . as I think the binding trim is more for the look, rather than actually holding them in place . . . but I can tell you, that I have been regularly using this wonderful instrument for three months now without any signs at all of wear and tear. (Well not on the flogger itself of course . . . though the same can’t be said for the backs and bottoms of the subs that I have been using it on!!!) And those lovely 42 straps are still just as firmly and securely attached as they were for my very first session.

HeavyFlogger3The handle itself is made from a solid, varnished wood. It is 8 inches long, one and a half inches in diameter, and 5 inches in circumference. It feels every bit as substantial as it looks . . . and despite feeling quite heavy in the palm of ones hand compared to other floggers I have owned, it is wonderfully comfortable to hold and use. And I think it’s weight and substance actually makes it easier and more comfortable to use for long sessions than any of my other ones.

HeavyFlogger4Blackhorse has apparently been manufacturing equestrian type products . . . such as horses saddles and bridles, halters and harnesses . . . and, I’m quite certain, riding crops and whips . . . LOL !!! . . . since the 1990s. So to diversify into Bondage and Discipline products seems like a marriage made in heaven to me. And the items I have been se nt are certainly heavenly in my mind.

All of the company’s products are handmade and, as I said earlier, the quality and workmanship is simply outstanding.

Now . . . you will probably want to know about the “impact” this particular instrument has made with my submissives when I have used it on them. Well, I always take things slowly and surely . . . building up the tempo of my swinging and swishing to the pace and intensity that I know each particular recipient likes. And no-one is the same. But they all say they like it . . . just as much as I do.

I do love the sound it makes as I swing it through the air . . . and the sound it makes as it strikes the target. And, of course, I love seeing the blushes turning to stripes which apparently can last for several days!

HeavyFlogger5So . . . as you can probably tell . . . I do love this Flogger and I would recommend it, without hesitation, to anyone wishing to add another dimension to their impact play!!!

Now as I mentioned in my previous review, no documentation was supplied with the Flogger so I can’t give you any pricing details, nor specific information about materials. So for the purposes of accuracy my direct questions emailed to Blackhorses, and their emailed answers, were as below:

Q: Can you tell me more about the manufacturing process and materials please. Ie: “handmade”, but in just one factory or do you have more than one production facility? What sort of leather and how is it sourced? And also, my readers normally like to know that products are ethically produced (ie your workers are employed under proper conditions etc. etc.)???
A: We manufacture handmade products by using little help of machine. We using leather and iron hardware and other articles to produce our products. We have our one factory to mainly and some of articles provided by other sources. We are using best Indian buffalo leather for production. Our workers are skilled and experienced.

So, not the most comprehensive of answers, and the website details still seem as they were for my first review . . . but, what can I say other than, I am totally, totally in love with this Black Leather Flogger FL0022, and all of their other wonderful products hanging in my session wardrobe.

Modesty Rating: 10 out of 10
Pros: Wonderfully made. Strong, thick leather and solid and substantial real wooden handle.
Cons: None what-so-ever . . . apart from that lack of documentation / information.
Material: Apparently . . . Indian Buffalo Leather and locally-sourced wood.
Measurements: Overall length 29 inches. Handle length 8 inches, circumference 5 inches, diameter at the grip 1 1/2 inches. Leather strands (42 of them), length 21 inches, width 7mm, thickness 3mm.
Noise: A wonderful “swish”, followed by a loud “thwack”.
Colour: Dark brown wooden handle and black leather strands.
Waterproof: No I would think not.
Cleaning: Obviously always wash thoroughly after use. I first wipe with my anti-bacterial cleansers then with warm soapy water and allow to dry, naturally, before next use.
Supplier Product Link: Blackhorses India
The Modesty Video Review: Click on the Cover Picture below, or visit my Toy Review page for some of my previous reviews.


This Black Leather Flogger FL0022 was sent to me, free-of-charge by Blackhorses,  for an honest and un-biased review.


The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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So . . . let me begin! #sinfulsunday

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And, tell me . . . how much time did you say we had ???

There is bound to be more Sinful beginnings, middles . . . and ends, to be discovered at this week’s Sinful Sunday from slapping the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Modesty Bejewelled #Boobday Friday


Several months ago I posted my then-new Nippleicious Jewellery here at Boobday Friday . . . but I hadn’t had the opportunity to wear it since.

Until, that is, last weekend, when . . . for a visit with a very special lover . . .
I decided to be-deck and be-jewel myself from top (as above) to
bottom (as >here<).

And, as I modelled ALL of my jewels for Hubby’s camera before . . . and during
. . . that visit, I thought it might be fun to share one of those photos here.

If you swing over to Hyacinth’s  #Boobday Friday cleavage below, I’m sure there will be even more nipples on display there today. Because as Hy says:

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


Filed under #boobday, Boobday Friday