Teasing #sinfulsunday

I’d never wish to be described as a cock teaser . . . but when holding my flogger!

Modesty Ablaze Teasing at Sinful Sunday

I do quite enjoy administering this sort of “cock-teasing” . . . and I know that on this occasion, my newest-submissive certainly enjoyed it as well.

You can find lots more teasing of the senses, at this weekend’s Sinful Sunday from stroking (or flogging) the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

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At the Bowling Club #scavengerhunt 58

As I mentioned in one of my previous Scavenger Hunt posts, we are blessed with so many lovely towns and villages to explore in the English countryside.


And one of my favourite spots is a lovely Dorset market town which, just yards from the town centre, has this wonderfully picturesque Bowling Club.


And despite being so close to the shopping centre and main road it is such a peaceful and tranquil spot that . . .


I just couldn’t resist wanting to join the bowlers in their leisurely activities on the bowling green . . . after they’d finished their afternoon tea of course!

You can see lots of my other Scavenger Hunt activities at my
Scavenger Hunt Listings Page  . . . and may I suggest you join in the fun with some sharing of your own at Dee’s site by clicking on the button below!

P.S. You can also view some of my previous Scavenger Hunts at my
Scavenger Slideshow >here<!!!

Come on, it is such funLet’s all Dare to Bare !!!

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxx – K


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Birthday Hearts #wickedwednesday

“You weren’t listening were you??? . . . I SAID . . . I wanted HEARTS for my Birthday . . . not Hugs!!!”


“Now you will have to have hearts . . . hurty hearts!!! . . . And just you stand still, don’t think for one minute that you can step away!!!”


“There’ll be more smacks . . . lots more smacks . . . if you don’t stand still.
AND . . . I might just throw away that key!!!”

This weeks theme at Marie’s Wicked Wednesday is “Happy Birthday” . . . which seemed quite appropriate really as my blog here has just passed it’s third birthday. I never imagined that something I started out doing as just a “giggle and a dare” early in 2012 would last and carry on for this long.

But . . . more importantly . . . this Wednesday is our hostess Marie’s actual birthday . . . so I hope you will join me, and lots of others, in wishing her a wonderfully Wicked Wednesday Birthday  by covering the button below with big Happy Birthday Kisses!!!



Xxx – K


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Modesty Rub @ #sinfulsunday

ModestyClubRubFeb15The early hours of this Sunday morning and feeling very Sinful . . . after a fab night out at Club Rub . . . and definitely in need of having my nipples rubbed!!!

And I am sure you will discover lots of other Sinful thoughts, and needs and deeds, at this weekend’s Sinful Sunday from rubbing the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Marie’s Red Love @ #polaroidspast

If you’ve been following all the fun photo-posts at Molly’s amazing #febphotofest this month . . . and I hope you have! . . . you will have seen lots of fabulous pictures from Marie Rebelle’s photo-archives.

The photograph above is another of her own #polaroidspast images that I absolutely love . . . and it’s not just the sensuality and erotic nature of the picture itself, it is also the words that accompany it at her Red Love post.  I do urge you to investigate . . . because her story is yet another example of how we should all learn to celebrate, enjoy and share in our relationships.

And that philosophy is also part of what #polaroidspast is all about. A fun and natural way of celebrating our bodies and reminding ourselves that not only are we all different shapes and sizes, and live different lives and different relationships, but we all change and grow in every aspect as the years pass by. That is just how we all naturally develop and change.

If you have some memories . . . words or pictures . . . of your own that you would like to share, then I would LOVE you to join in.

***You can do so by completing the (confidential) submission form below:

Or, if you prefer, simply grab the Polaroids Past logo below and publish a post on your own blog with #polaroidspast as part of the title, and a link from the logo back to my Polaroids Past page >here<. You can submit your Blog Post URL (if you have one) by completing the form, or enter your contact details in the form and I will reply with further details asap.
NB: The form is completely confidential and your details / comments are not displayed.

Come-on . . . Dare to Bare . . . Be Proud of who You have Become!

Modesty Ablaze in Polaroids Past

Xxx – K

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Modesty’s Review Revue #wickedwednesday


For this week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday we are asked “Do you write Reviews?” and “Why?” and “How?”

Well, yes I do now post reviews here from time-to-time. Sometimes about a new book I have read, sometimes about a new sexy toy that I may have received from a special friend (or has been sent to me anonymously from my Wishlist pages) . . . or sometimes about new clothes or underwear that I have fallen in love with at first sight!

But the reason “why” I started is due to a suggestion by one of my special Friends after I’d taken him along to one of my favourite Toy Shops here in London. He joked “you seem to know about everything on the shelves, you should review them on your website” . . . and so, I suppose, more from a sense of “giggle and dare”, rather than from serious intent . . . I thought I would add an occasional summary of my experiences and my likes and dislikes of some of the newer items from my “Toy Shelf” (above).

And, much to my surprise, I started getting requests for more . . .

I’ve always been interested in anything to do with sex . . . and particularly fascinated by the thought of sex-toys themselves from the moment I first heard that such things existed! So, of course, I’ve been collecting all sorts of different items for years and years, long before the internet and being able to order on-line. (I can remember many nervous and hilarious visits to various dark and dingy establishments in Soho or the backstreets of Islington!)

Most of the items I purchased back then have long since been discarded, having lost their appeal . . . or broken and dead from under- (or over LOL!!) use.
But I have kept two or three for old-times sake (can you guess which ones from my shelf above???)

But I digress . . .

So . . . on being asked for more after my first review . . . I decided to add an occasional post as I went along, with the following disclaimer:

I realise that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me sexy clothes and lingerie . . . and sexy toys . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!!
Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating .

After all, everyone is different, and I would never expect things that thrill and excite me to necessarily have exactly the same affect on someone else. But I feel that at least by describing my basic feelings and experiences of a particular item, in as simple and straightforward language as possible, it may give my readers a clearer idea of what to expect . . . rather than rattling on about all the technical details.

But of course I’m sure that’s how all “reviewers” approach their reviews . . .
so I should probably just say that if you are intrigued or curious to learn more about the Modesty Ablaze Reviews Revue there are some video-links from clicking the images below:

The Rocks Off RO-Zen Vibrating Butt Plug

TheGlassDildoShop ModestyInfinitiVideoScreen600x340

Or, if  you prefer . . . and you may do LOL!!! . . . specific item reviews from my Toy Reviews page >here<.

Or, for a really comprehensive weekly compendium of Sex Toy Reviews I can thoroughly recommend you visit Karen Blue’s HedoVibes Review pages >here< . . . You just never know, you may be inspired to join in!!!

And for more (re)views on this weeks theme, be sure to visit Wicked Wednesday  by clicking the button below.



Xxx – K


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Valentines Kisses @ #sinfulsunday

ModestyValentines1Yes, I know I’m late for sending my Valentines Kisses . . . sinfully late . . . I did have every good intention of posting early this morning on February 14th.

But then I got distracted . . . sinfully and deliciously distracted!!!

ModestyValentines2So I hope you will forgive me and I hope that these photo-kisses will, at least in part, make up for my sins!

They were taken just a few moments ago, just before rushing out for . . . hopefully . . . more sinful distractions at our favourite swinging place for celebrating Valentines Day.


And I hope you all will have some special, sinful, Valentines fun of your own
on this special day for lovers!

I wouldn’t be surprised if you find lots of other Sinful Valentines Kisses at this weekend’s Sinful Sunday from kissing the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Modesty’s Trainers 1986 @ #polaroidspast No.9

Modesty Ablaze White Trainers Polaroids Past 1986

Our for a run in the park – My New White Trainers – 1986

Even in 1986, whilst out for a run in my New Trainers, I’d never have been able to keep up with all the wonderful posts this month at #febphotofest.

Especially the number of fabulous pictures from Marie Rebelle . . . follow her own #polaroidspast images throughout this month on her #febphotofest posts.

And what I’m especially enjoying about Marie’s posts . . . along with her own #polaroidspast photographs . . . are her recollections of all the events and changes in her life at the time of each photo. I do urge you to investigate . . .

And, of course, to perhaps think of posting some of your own photographs (and memories) here at #polaroidspast . . .

. . . because I think that re-living some of our past memories, is not only fun, but also a way of celebrating our bodies and reminding ourselves that not only are we all different shapes and sizes, but we all change and grow into different shapes and sizes. That is just how we all naturally develop and change.

***You can join-in by completing the (confidential) submission form below:

Or, if you prefer, simply grab the Polaroids Past logo below and publish a post on your own blog with #polaroidspast as part of the title, and a link from the logo back to my Polaroids Past page >here<. You can submit your Blog Post URL (if you have one) by completing the form, or enter your contact details in the form and I will reply with further details asap.
NB: The form is completely confidential and your details / comments are not displayed.

And, perhaps you would like to join the rolling slide-show Gallery . . . but that is optional of course!!! Come-on, it may be a wee-bit embarrassing . . . but it really is just a bit of fun . . . and I think fun is what life should be all about!!!

Come-on . . . Dare to Bare . . . !!!

Modesty Ablaze in Polaroids Past

Xxx – K

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Modesty’s Toy Review Round-Up: HedoVibes#78 & The RO-Zen Double Cock Ring & Vibrating Butt Plug

missrubyPhoto courtesy of Miss Ruby Reviews

Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form.

Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition.












Watch my latest Video Review of The RO-Zen Vibrating Butt Plug >here<!

Watch my previous Video Review of The Diamond Dream Glass Dildo >here<!

Watch my previous Video Review of The Infiniti Dual Stimulation Vibrator >here<!

Visit my Sex Toys page for some of my new favourites!

Visit my Swingers Clubs page for clubs personally recommended by my readers  . . .


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Modesty’s “A Touch Of Glass” #realwordsex @MakeLoveNotPorn.tv

ModestyATouchOfGlass2The joy of sharing my #realworldsex videos at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv has always been about showing how, for me, the best sex is always about having fun.

When I’m having fun I know that my partner(s) are having fun as well . . . and those occasions are always fulfilling and exciting.

But occasionally I also enjoy that different, special kind of thrill, of playing alone and this video, my newest at MakeLoveNotPorn.tv is of one of those occasions . . . 15 minutes of rippling and exhausting orgasms, and probably the most “personal” of the videos that I have ever submitted to MLNP. Just me, all on my own, with my Diamond Dream Glass Dildo from the glass dildo specialists A Touch of Glass (you can find out more about them and read my recent review of The Diamond Dream >here<).

As I think you will see, I quickly forgot all about the camera as I became completely lost in my own thoughts and desires, and that private cocoon of sensations and emotions.

I hope you will be able to feel and share those emotions with me . . . and yes, there are some glimpses of my butt plug as well!!!

There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to “A Touch Of Glass”, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

“A Touch Of Glass” is my fourteenth video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from the Modesty Ablaze page >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my 14 #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

Make Love Not Porn


Xxx – K


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