The Modesty Wall 2-for-1 @ #sinfulsunday

The wonderful fun I had in meeting the lovely Curvaceous Dee earlier this year is never too far from my mind. The memories of our Scavenger Hunting afternoon always make me smile, then giggle, then laugh out loud . . . and, of course, feel good all over!!!

As I did when Dee posted her Flying the Flag on last week’s Sinful Sunday!!!

Modesty Ablaze & Curvaceous Dee 2 for 1So, with Dee’s permission, I’d like to share another one of our 2-for-1 fun locations from that same afternoon.

Curvaceous Dee & Modesty Ablaze 2 For OneIt wasn’t on a Sunday . . . a Tuesday early afternoon actually.  LOL!!!

Modesty Ablaze and Curvaceous Dee 2 for 1But with city workers having their picnic lunches nearby, or walkers and runners out for their mid-day exercise, some would say we were behaving rather Sinfully . . . but being Sinful is such fun don’t you think???

And you can see just how many others are having Sinful fun this Sunday by gently leaning-up against the lovely lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Oh . . . and P.S.  . . . Does this qualify for a notch on the “Wall” category Dee ???

Xxx – K


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Stumped at #WickedWednesday

As I mentioned in a recent post I’m finding it so difficult to balance all my time and motion at present. Motion in the sense that I’m loving life so much I just can’t seem to find enough Time to type all my thoughts out on my keyboard.

So I am completely Stumped trying to come-up with some words for this week’s Wicked Wednesday prompt on being the “last tree standing”.

But I do love trees, so I’m hoping that this picture . . . taken in the wickedly entangling roots of one of my favourite trees . . . will suffice.

ModestyTreeGreyBut there will be lots of enchanting, and entangling, tree stories available at Wicked Wednesday from the button below!

rainbowcircle1-200Xxx – K


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Modesty’s Toy Review Round-Up: HedoVibes#51

Uberkinky-Stainless-Steel-Chastity-Cage-1Photo courtesy of Gritty Woman

Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form.

Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition.












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Sinful Strings @ #sinfulsunday

I’m really enjoying my lingerie and club-wear at present . . . and especially this new dress that arrived during the week from a secret wishlist admirer.

ModestyBumJust sliding it on this morning made me feel very, very Sinful . . .

SinfulstandingAnd I’m certainly looking forward to wearing it on my next club visit . . . possibly even later this evening!

Check out lots of other Sinful people by kissing the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Lovely Latex from & Lacey Lingerie @ Buttress & Snatch

I know we are all comfortable with buying clothes and accessories on the internet nowadays, but I still find it’s nice to have a personal recommendation or to physically see and touch and feel something. At least it is for me . . . and especially so when it comes to my latex and lingerie.

ModestyHonour1So I was really excited to discover two new (to me anyway) companies during my visit to The Great British Tatoo Exhibition recently.

I love latex, but for me it is just one of those items that I just have to see and feel so that I know it is right for me. It always looks so pretty and stylish in those on-line photographs with all those slim and shapely young models. But however much I may like the look,  I am never confident if it would actually be “right” for me. So it was wonderful to discover that Honour had a booth at the show . . . and this “Glamour Corselette” immediately caught my eye.

Lilly, one of the charming young Honour girls, was extremely helpful and suggested a size that she assured me would be the perfect fit. And I’m happy to say she was right . . . it just felt so wonderful to slide into and I just loved the stylish little bow-tie. Sometimes latex can be difficult for me to easily get in and out of (my bumps are not in the right places!) but with a liberal sprinkling of talcum powder, or my “special latex-friendly body moisturiser”, I’ve never had any problems when I’ve worn it since. The shoulder straps are adjustable and it has underwired bust cups which just seem to fit so comfortably and make it feel as though it could have been custom-made especially for me.

ModestyHonour4Hubby was transfixed by lots of the other items on display . . . but I told him I WANTED “this one” . . . and I  received lots of nice compliments when I wore it out to one of our club-visits recently. It has suspender clips attached at the hem (I have them tucked-up here for these photographs) so I wore it with simple black stockings.

And then imagine my delight when just two stalls along from Honour, I discovered the absolutely wonderful lingerie and swimwear of Buttress & Snatch.

ModestyStairsSnatchBumI just LOVE clothing that is different, and fun, and stylish!!! And it’s not very often that I find all three of those elements combined. But finding the Buttress & Snatch stall was like discovering a treasure trove of all sorts of wonderfully colourful and intriguing garments that made me just want to stop and feel them all.

Buttress and Snatch Tassle Skirt Knickers

Hubby’s initial reaction was that the clothing seemed “out-of-place” at such an event and he wanted to lead me straight past. But I exclaimed that they “were all so sexy” . . . and I immediately fell in love with a pair of beautiful black lace knickers with a tassel-skirt attachment. “These are lovely, so unusual” I showed him.

Rachel, the wonderfully friendly owner, explained that the garments were all custom-made . . . normally to order, and that this was the first time she had exhibited at a show of this nature.

I was completely enthralled and enchanted by so many of the unique items hanging from her stall . . . they had an almost vintage, retro look about them, yet every item seemed to exclaim “I am a one-off, I am yours, no-one else will look like this”. Rachel explained that her company had been making lingerie for almost 15 years and that her garments had been worn by people like Madonna, Neneh Cherry, Kate Upton and Kate Moss.

But I wanted those knickers . . . before any other Kates (or Katies) came along!

And they are so lovely. They have this wonderful tassle-skirt which can be worn at the front (see my picture above) for those more “modest” moments . . . or reversed to cover one’s bottom (as in my photo below) and display the delightful sheer black lace at the front, and . . . encourage me to wiggle my bottom more!

Buttress and Snatch Lingerie

I just LOVE them . . . they make me feel special . . . and unique, whenever I wear them.

And even better for me having met Rachel, albeit very briefly, I immediately felt at ease in her company and knew I was talking to someone who has a passion for what they do. I love her story (Our Way) and the history of her Buttress and Snatch.

I’m sure I will ordering more from Rachel’s sewing machine very soon.

So, if like me, you like something a little different and unusual . . . I certainly do recommend you explore both of these exciting Latex and Lingerie companies.


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The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adapt at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me sexy clothes and lingerie . . . and sexy toys . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.


Xxx – Katie


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Why I so love #realworldsex

If you have visited me here before you will know how much I love the message, and videos, of #realworldsex at

From a women’s point of view, I find MLNP so empowering because it is so real and portrays sex as I feel it should be portrayed. Completely consensual, fun and loving and yet still arousing and erotic. And yes, I really do think that #realworldsex can still be exciting and “naughty” and stimulating . . . in fact much, much more so than what you see on those “other” on-line sites.

I like watching sex that is erotic . . . BUT . . . I want it to be real and respectful and fun. Something that I can relate to on my own, personal, level. And that is why, since discovering , I haven’t watched any of those other sites at all!!! Because I want my adventures to be fun, and respectful and . . . real, not forced, not staged or choreographed . . . just wonderfully indulgent, fun and enjoyable as the best sex should always be!!!

And I hope you might be able to enjoy and experience some of that fun by discovering the huge and growing variety of MLNP-porn stars and their videos at . . . I urge you to investigate!!!

**It is FREE to register at MakeLoveNotPorn and FREE to view >**Free Peeks< of all the videos available for rental at this wonderful #realworldsex-positive website. I hope you will register your support for the message . . . and FUN . . . of this truly wonderful concept.

I currently have TEN #realworldsex videos at MLNP, (with several new ones cumming shortly). And if after showing you some of the photos here, or the accompanying free-peek links, I manage to arouse your curiosity enough to investigate MLNP further, I will feel I have achieved at least one more little step in empowering us all to enjoy #realworldsex.

1) Modesty Ablaze Toytime – Playing with several of my toys, (mainly solo with just a brief cameo appearance from Hubby!!!)

>** Toytime Free Peek Pictures< >My YouTube Intro<

2) Modesty Unmasked – Introducing our wonderful friend, Lover.14, along with his whips and canes . . . and yes, I am not wearing my mask!!!

>** Unmasked Free Peek Pictures< >My YouTube Intro<

3) Modesty Bound & Unbound – Over 40 minutes of an amazing multi-orgasmic session . . . again with Lover.14 who this time brought along his ropes to have me Bound and then slowly, and delightfully, Unbound . . . whilst he and Hubby played with me!!!

>** Bound & Unbound Free Peek Pictures< >My YouTube Intro<

4) Modesty Winding Up & Then Winding Down – The first video where Hubby really comes out from behind the camera and Lover.14 takes over the filming . . . well just for awhile, as he then gives me a wonderful “relaxing” full massage!!!

>** Winding Up & Winding Down Free Peek Pictures<

5) Modesty Hubby Gets a Beating – Hubby really does “come out” in this video (in more ways than one! – LOL). I loved helping giving him a tender beating . . . but don’t worry, he certainly gets his reward !!!

>** Hubby Gets a Beating Free Peek Pictures<

6) More Fun with Rope – Another session with Lover 14 and his ropes and cane . . . and another multi-orgasmic scene climaxing with some passionate kissing of the kind I really, really love!!!

>** More Fun With Rope Free Peek Pictures< >My YouTube Intro<

7) The Main Squeeze – Featuring one of my newest lovers, Lover 36. And I think you’ll understand why I’ve called this session “The Main Squeeze“ when you view it. You can see a snap-shot of Lover 36 at one of my Sinful Sunday posts from August of last year . . . but only the video can completely reveal the real fun of an amazing evening!!!!

>** The Main Squeeze Free Peek Pictures< >My YouTube Intro<

8) With She Lover – This is a really very, very special video for me. I’ve tried to explain just how special in my “Special Edition“ post . . . but suffice to say it shows a wonderful moment sharing some “girly fun” with my friend, and lover She Lover. I hope you will be able to see how easy it is for me to just completely let myself go in her company!!!

>** She Lover Free Peek Pictures< >My YouTube Intro<

9) Mistress Modesty – Normally I’m the one being spanked, but in this video I am the one in complete control . . . and I really enjoyed it. AND, my “mystery submissive” enjoyed it too. I loved being Mistress Modesty, using my strap-on, and I loved using my cane and whip. But, despite all the caning and flogging, there is a happy (if rather messy) ending!!!!

>** Mistress Modesty Free Peek Pictures< >My YouTube Intro<

10) Modesty & The St. Andrews Cross – I was recently given the opportunity to enjoy an evening at The Hoxton Dungeon Suite with Lover No.14 and Hubby.
This 20 minute video is just part of our wonderful evening, and following morning, of naughty fun. I will, perhaps, post more if you let me know you’ve enjoyed my “Modesty and The St. Andrews Cross” !!!!!!!

>** Mistress Modesty Free Peek Pictures< >My YouTube Intro<


You can ask me ANY questions you like about the other MLNP porn stars, and their videos at MakeLoveNotPorn from the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Xxx – K



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Breakfast Celebrations @ #ScavengerHunt 32

I’m celebrating two important P’s this month . . . no not that sort of P silly!!!

P for Pearl (30 years of a wonderful, fun and sexciting marriage)  . . . and P for Platinum (reaching my Platinum Badge for 30 posts at the lovely Curvaceous Dee’s Scavenger Hunt site.

ModestyBreakfastEntranceSo I thought what better way to celebrate than a Platinum Champagne breakfast.

ModestyBreakfast1Hubby chose a wonderful and very stylish hotel . . . and a wonderful breakfast.

ModestyBreakfast2And of course . .  you know me . . . I just couldn’t resist the opportunity, so . . .

ModestyBreakfast3I ordered Hubby to get his camera out to remind us of such an important occasion.

ModestyTableAnd, of course, to share it with you here!!!

You can view my other Scavenger Posts at my Scavenger Hunt Listing page.

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

How about joining in the fun with some sharing of your own???

Xxx – K


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Modesty & The St. Andrews Cross #realworldsex

My latest #realworldsex video is now on-line at  . . . featuring just some of the fun that Lover No.14, Hubby and I enjoyed on our recent evening at The Hoxton Dungeon Suite.

I’ve always loved a little light bondage and BDSM play, and have always been curious and intrigued by “The St. Andrews Cross”, so you can imagine my excitement when I learnt that was just one of the many items available at The Hoxton Dungeon.

In fact there were so many tools and toys, it was quite overwhelming at first deciding exactly where to start. But my choice was always going to be the St. Andrews Cross . . . and you know how much I like to get my own way!!!

The video intro below doesn’t actually show the cross, but you can probably sense the excitement in my voice remembering just how much fun we had . . . and some of the toys we played with.

Modesty Ablaze & The St. Andrews CrossThere are some screen shots and Free Peek links to this, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP and all the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

So . . . I hope you will enjoy not just my fun on the St. Andrews Cross, but lots more of the #realworld sex at !!!

And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about  MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Xxx – K


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Erotic Authoress Spotlight . . . Raven Spencer

Today’s Erotic Authoress Spotlight features another new authoress from America, Raven Spencer, and her novel “A Perfect Dream”.

And that party sounds very interesting Raven . . . I’d love to be invited!!!


Modesty Ablaze Erotic Authoress SpotlightRaven J. Spencer, lesbian, married, loves everything sensual and indulgent which led her to write erotic romance and fantasies. When she’s not writing, you can often find her on Pinterest in the pursuit of inspiration.


Sex and politics can be an explosive combination. Beatrice, wife to a conservative lobbyist, can’t imagine being out in the open about her preferences and orientation, but lucky for her, there’s A Perfect Dream. Secret parties that only the privileged have access to fulfill every fantasy and need she can think of. Beatrice didn’t count in meeting Sage, a woman who not only satisfies her in every way, but challenges everything Beatrice has believed about herself so far. 


PerfectDreamCoverJuly1“There’s someone I’d like you to meet, before you go off on your own,” Piper said, brushing her hand over Beatrice’s chest, and down to her stomach. In the room next to theirs, things had quieted down. “Wait here for a moment?”

Beatrice obliged as Piper got up to cover herself with the robe. She took a deep breath, taking in the room, decorated in loving detail, for the first time. The pink and white tones made her think of dessert, and she smiled to herself. This weekend was all about the most delicious desserts anyone could imagine, and maybe she’d indulge in sweets as well. She deserved this. She needed this. Closing her eyes, she imagined all the things that would happen in the next forty-eight hours, every fantasy possible coming true. She hadn’t cared much for the blindfold the last time, though she’d wanted to try. Getting tied up, or restraining the woman under her hands–that was a different story. Walking into a dark room, tumbling onto a soft surface, being caressed by more than one pair of hands and lips until she wouldn’t be able to tell how many…She was starting to feel light-headed, aroused by the images in her mind.

“You’re not falling asleep on me, are you?” Piper’s amused voice made her eyes snap open. Beatrice had only a split-second of feeling self-conscious in the presence of the two women who had joined Piper. Both of them were beautiful, but the curvier one with the chestnut-colored hair held Beatrice’s gaze a moment longer. They were both wearing the robes, but not for much longer, Beatrice assumed.

“Meet Sage and Tara,” Piper said. “If you’re okay with that, they would like to hang out with us until dinner.”

“I’m very much okay with that.” Beatrice looked at Sage, long enough for the woman to blush and start to fidget. Beatrice hoped she was okay with the arrangement as well. She couldn’t wait to touch and taste her.

“I’d like to…in the bathroom, if you don’t mind,” Sage said.

“Yeah, why don’t you do that?” Piper sounded amused. “Tara and I will be here in the meantime. I know you like that, Bea. We’ll wait until you two have enough water in the tub, so you won’t miss a thing.”

It was crazy, unreal and thrilling to casually discuss the sex she was going to have with a pretty stranger, with Piper and another attractive stranger right there. A pair of screen doors separated the bathroom from the master bedroom, the en suite consisting almost only of the spacious tub. With jets. Her knees felt weak again.

“I appreciate that,” she said, aware of Sage appraising her naked body. Fortunately, the water pressure was strong, and it didn’t take all that long to fill the tub. Sage waited by the screen doors, arms wrapped around herself. Maybe she was self-conscious, or maybe she didn’t talk that much. Beatrice didn’t mind. At this stage, everyone coming together–a nice pun that was–had consented to sexual activities, details to be specified. It meant that whatever happened in that bathtub, it would be highly enjoyable for both of them.

She added honey scented bubble bath, and finally, Sage gave her a somewhat reserved smile before she let the robe fall to the floor, allowing Beatrice a once-over before she climbed into the tub. Beatrice followed her.

On the bed, Tara and Piper were favoring a slow start, caressing each other, kissing softly.

“So you like to watch,” Sage observed. She sat down in the opposite end of the tub.

“Among other things, yes. What do you like?”?

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I hope you will enjoy, and share, the above and if you would like to join my Erotic Authoress Spotlight features . . . and post your own Erotic work here, please email me with your details, from my Ebook page. You can catch-up with previous Erotic Authoress Spotlight guests >here<.

Xxx – K

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Eyes On The Prize @ #sinfulsunday

I know I’ve mentioned before just how much I’ve always enjoyed a little va-va-voom in my weekends.

Modesty Ablaze Eyes IntroAnd over these past few weeks there’s been lots of opportunities on the television to look out for more.

It’s not over yet of course . . . with the anticipation and excitement building to the final exciting climax.

Modesty Ablaze Eyes Final And that’s just how I like it . . . with so many eyes on the final prize!!!

You can see all the other teams and players from the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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