Modesty Waterfall #scavengerhunt 57

Finally . . . for all those that have asked . . . my brisk morning walk, led me to the famous Waterfalls I mentioned in my #scavengerhunt 53 post late last year.

ModestyAblazeFalls1And the torrent of water certainly does make an impressive sight . . . and sound
. . . when standing directly above one of the viewing points along the riverbank.

ModestyAblazeFalls4The history of the falls makes for some very interesting reading! From the legends of the past and how the falls came to be named (Huka being the Maori word for “foam”) . . . to even more recent times. Such as 1989 – when a local Dominatrix was arrested after the body of a well-known Cricket Umpire was found beneath the falls with wrists and ankles bound in bondage fashion!

ModestyAblazeFalls2Little wonder that the falls are apparently the most visited natural attraction
in the country . . . oh, in fact I think I can hear another walking party
approaching now!

ModestyAblazeFalls5Still, even despite the constant thundering noise of the water . . . and the constant stream of visitors (there is yet another party on the opposite bank behind me) . . . the falls do give one a strange sense of peace and tranquility and relaxation.
In fact a perfect location for a Curvaceous Dee’s Scavenger Hunt  photo-set!!!

You can see lots of my other Scavenger Hunt walk-abouts at my
Scavenger Hunt Listings Page  . . . and may I suggest you join in the fun with some sharing of your own at Dee’s site by clicking on the button below!

P.S. You can also view some of my previous walking adventures at my
Scavenger Slideshow >here<!!!

Come on, it is such funLet’s all Dare to Bare !!!

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxx – K


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A Simple Thank You @ #sinfulsunday


It really has been such a frustrating few days! No not sexually silly!!!
But just because I have had issues with my website.

But thanks to Dom M . . . @DomSigns . . . and his wonderful technical skills,
I am now back live and on-line.

So from the . . . bottom . . . of my heart, I would like to blow big Sinful Sunday kisses to M for all his hard work over the last few days and nights!


We all know that Sinful Sunday is about the image . . . but of course it is ALSO about the community. Like-minded people sharing advice and support and making all of us happier and more complete in so many different ways.

And I am sure you will discover lots more Sinful Sunday kisses
from the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Modesty and the London Escort Girl


Fantasy is such a powerful emotion isn’t it!!! The following story is based on a long-standing fantasy of my own, rekindled . . . in fact I should say re-ignited . . . by a recent email.

I giggled at the first in-box message of the day . . . “Could you teach me to be a Dominatrix” it read.

I’d had similar messages before of course, despite only recently embarking on my own journey into the world of FemDom.

I politely replied: “Thank you for your message. But I am new to being a Dominatrix myself . . . and still learning things with every new session . . . so I am probably not the best person to teach a newbie as well. It would be better for you to find a much more experienced Mistress to help.”

I continued on, working my way through the rest of the mornings emails, but within minutes a reply to my message popped back-up on my screen.

“No, I think you would be perfect” it began. “I’m working as an Escort for LondonEscortGirls4u and I want to add more variety to my services. You make everything on your blog seem like such fun. Even from behind your mask, or your sunglasses in your pictures, you look like you are always enjoying the things you do.”

It’s always nice to receive flattering comments and messages, but I knew from past experiences over the three years of Modesty Ablaze, that one shouldn’t take such praise on face value. Sometimes the motive behind such flattery has been something I have not wished to encourage!

But there was one thing about this email that stirred a spark of interest and curiosity within me. Her words “I’m working as an Escort” sent tingles of excitement through me!

For as far back as I can remember, hearing whispered comments of “she’s one of those Escort Girls” or reading scandalous newspaper stories of “The Minister and the Escort Girl”, I’d been intrigued and excited. The reactions of all of those around me, parents and girlfriends, was always one of shock and distaste. But for me, the naughtiness and the scandal, stirred entirely different feelings. Instead of disgust I yearned to know more. The mystery, the glamour and yes especially the sexuality, of those stories always left me tingling . . . imagining and desiring to perhaps be part of that world. Wined and dined at the finest West End restaurants, spotted in my heels and the very latest of outfits from the most expensive of boutiques, being whisked off on the arm of a wealthy city banker or stockbroker to the most exclusive of nightclubs. And now here, all these years later, was someone who really was living that life . . . if my email was to be believed.

I followed the link to the Gallery page in her message and scrolled until I found her. The portfolio of photographs were model-perfect. What could she possibly want to gain from becoming a Dominatrix I wondered.

I re-read her email and noted her mobile number was different from the contact number on the website. I decided to dial . . . after all I could block my caller-id . . . just to see how genuine this message may be.

“Hello” . . . the soft tones were unmistakenly female as my call was answered almost immediately it began to ring.

I introduced myself as “Mistress Modesty” and began gaining in confidence as our conversation progressed. Within minutes we were exchanging experiences and stories, giggling and laughing as if we were old friends. I had no hesitation in accepting her offer to meet the following day for coffee at a bar in Mayfair that we both frequented regularly . . . joking that perhaps we were already on nodding terms.

Try as I might, for the rest of the afternoon, I couldn’t stop thinking about my Escort Girl fantasies of old. And I excitedly recounted everything I could remember about our conversation to Hubby as soon as he arrived home
that evening.

“I imagine she’s every bit as excited about tomorrow as you are” he said.

“Oh no” I replied, “she has a client tonight”.

There was no mistaking her . . . sitting at a table near the door when I arrived . . . somehow more real and natural than in her photographs on the website. Her perfectly styled hair and those friendly, confident sparkling eyes, made me wonder if her meeting the previous evening had actually been quite a short one, she looked so fresh and relaxed.

We were soon engrossed in further exchanges of our life-style experiences, both different and yet similar in so many ways. She explained just how many roles she needed to embrace to make her the perfect companion for her hosts . . . and I explained mine.

We’d been chatting for over 30 minutes when I felt her eyes gazing more and more intensely at mine as I was speaking . . . and then felt myself stammer and stop in mid-sentence as she slid her hands across the table to softly curl her fingers around my own. “You are enchanting” she said, “I think we have so much in common, you and I”.

I tried to look away, tried to pull my hands back as she gently squeezed them. My pulse was racing, my heart beating.

“I’m still not sure I can teach you anything about being a Mistress” I tried to say, sensing that sudden change between us.

“We can teach each other darling, I’m sure” she almost whispered in reply. “Modesty at LondonEscortGirls4U . . . how does that sound?”

ModestyEscortGlassTo be continued . . . obviously!!!

Xxx – K

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Mirror Mirror @ #sinfulsunday

ModestyAblazeMirrorJan18Mirror, mirror on the wall  . . . of all the things that you must have seen,
what is the most Sinful of all?

Our premier-room mirror during a wonderfully fun evening with our most special of special friends last November, as we joked about what sights those mirrors must have seen.

You are bound to find lots more Sinful Sunday fun by
gazing into the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Modesty’s Earth Moving Moment #scavengerhunt 56

ModestyDiggers1I do so LOVE big “equipment” . . . and loved finding this impressive piece of machinery just around the corner from our holiday apartment
in Greece last summer.

ModestyDiggers2Mmmm . . . it very probably is the largest piece of rubber
I’ve ever encountered!!!

ModestyDiggers3In fact it just felt so impressive wherever I touched and caressed it . . .

ModestyDiggers4And you know what they say about German engineering . . . well the earth certainly moved for me on that holiday . . . lots of times!!!

So I’d love for Curvaceous Dee to include this in her “Earth Moving Equipment” category at her wonderfully fun Scavenger Hunt Meme.

You can see lots of my other “moving moments” on my
Scavenger Hunt Listings Page  . . . and may I suggest you join in the fun with some sharing of your own at Dee’s site by clicking on the button below!

P.S. You can also view some individual scenes at my
Scavenger Slideshow >here<!!!

Come on, it is such funLet’s all Dare to Bare !!!

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxx – K


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A Sinful Smack @ #sinfulsunday

Modesty's Sinful SmackA Sinful Sunday Smack from Friday evening with sub Winst.

I had lots of my Mistress Modesty fun for several hours with my subs in
The Serpent Rooms dungeon.

You are bound to find lots more Sinful Sunday fun from smacking
the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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A 1988 Office Affair #wickedwednesday

Modesty Ablaze Office Affair

Polaroids Past – Modesty in the office – 1988

Oh dear, all our Festive Fun is definitely well and truly over! Back in the office and back to the stresses and strains of “normal” office life.

But have you ever found yourself tempted at the office . . . into an office affair? That is just what Marie is asking at this week’s Wicked Wednesday!!!

“Office Affair. Did you ever have one. Or wished you had one with the hunk of the office or the sexy secretary? Do you have a fantasy about someone at the office? If you have or had an office affair, how did it start? And how did it end? Why did it end?”

Well, I have to honestly answer Marie’s question that . . . Yes I did. A long time ago . . . 1988 actually. So Marie’s prompt brought back (nice for me) memories. I’m  not going to share all the details here, but just couldn’t resist including one of my Polaroids Past” photographs from that very year which seems to perfectly fit the Office-Affair theme.

What I can tell you is that the affair had an amazing impact on my marriage . . . and life since (see The More I Have”).

BUT, But, but . . . I was very, very lucky and I would never suggest that one’s work-place is really the right environment for indulging in extra-curricular activities. But I’m sure there will be quite a wide variety of different answers, anecdotes and memories . . . to be found by tapping on the Wicked Wednesday  button below.



Xxx – K



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Modesty’s New Pair of Panties @ #sinfulsunday

Modesty Ablaze Sinful Panties FrontThe first Sinful Sunday theme of  2015 is . . . fittingly . . . “Something New”.
So I thought it an ideal occasion to share our new “pair” of panties, which I’m hoping will be put to good use in 2015 . . . lots of good use!!!

“Turn around and show the back-side as well” I instructed my submissive.
“After all that’s the view which will be seen the most often!”

Modesty Ablaze Sinful Panties Back

I’m positive that you will find lots more Sinful Sunday views by gently pushing into the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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Marvellous Year #wickedwednesday

ModestyAblazeCollar3This week’s theme at Wicked Wednesday is ushering in the New Year . . . so it seems fitting to look back on the last twelve months as well as looking forward to the year ahead.

2014 really has been a busy . . . and simply marvellous year!!!
A year in which I’ve made many new friends . . . and continued to have marvellous times with existing ones.


A year in which I have had a number of new . . . and fun . . . videos released at my favourite entertainment site, including more of an exhausting but sexciting session with Lover No.36, a wonderfully spontaneous, special moment with She Lover, and a return to the Dungeon for more bondage fun with Lover No.14.

I really do love . . . and I love being part of it . . . (I try to explain just why in my YouTube video above).

DiamondDream2I was also delighted to be asked to review a number of new sex-toys during the year including items from Lelo, Lovehoney, Nomi TangUberkinky and A Touch of Glass.

So I wanted to say a special “thank you” to those people who sent me those items for review. My Toy Reviews page has more information on these . . . and you can view my video reviews for The Infiniti Dual-Stimulation Vibrator >here< or The Diamond Dream Glass Dildo >here<.

The Perfect SubmissiveThis year was also very exciting for me as it marked publication of the second and third instalments of my all-time favourite erotic read “The Perfect Submissive”, written by my all-time favourite Erotic Authoress, Kay Jaybee. Kay writes the most erotically charged, and arousing, collection of words I have ever read. Every chapter of “The Perfect Submissive Trilogy” left me wanting more but just having to put the book down to . . . well you know why!!!

And, STOP PRESS, even more sexciting news! Xcite Books announced just last month that they have asked Kay to write one final instalment in the series. Due to be published in 2015, I am tingling already!!!

Mistress Modesty Ablaze

2014 was also the year in which I really began to enjoy the fun and excitement of my BDSM and Femdom experiences.

Largely of course from the encouragement of Lover No.14 and our wonderful time at The Hoxton Dungeon Suite.

Since that first dungeon-night I’ve been lucky enough to have had several more dungeon sessions booked for me in order to indulge in, and expand on, my Domme experiences. I’ve also enjoyed visiting a number of BDSM and Fetdom club nights around London . . . and I certainly hope to be exploring these fun “alternatives” even further in 2015.

Modesty Ablaze & Curvaceous Dee at One Tree Hill

And, of course, 2014 was also the year I managed to meet-up with the wonderful Curvaceous Dee, in her home town, and indulge in some fun Two-For-One posts at one of my favourite pastimes >Scavenger Hunt<!

Not only is it great fun, but it is also a celebration of expressing ourselves and our sexuality. I truly do encourage you all to join in and Dare to Bare!!!

Polaroids PastAnd 2014 was also the year of “outing from my wardrobe” our photo-album collection from years gone by.

Lot and lots of naughty-but-fun photographs from the past 30 years, which Hubby has been laboriously scanning into his computer and turning into my occasional Polaroids Past archive.

It’s been fun re-living the memories, but also reminding myself that we all have to accept the way our body just naturally changes and develops throughout the course of our lives.

But from sharing all of that fun and excitement of the past year here on my blog,  I truly hope that I have also been able to have given you all lots and lots of good reasons to smile and giggle and feel some sense of fun as well.

Because that is why I blog . . . just in the hope that my posts may bring a smile to peoples faces, make them feel happier . . . and perhaps even inspire someone to open-up and express and share their own desires and expectations within their own day-to-day lives and relationships.

Modest Thank You’s – 2014

My End-of-Year, Must-Visit Blogs List has been so difficult to compile this year. Just as I’ve discovered new interests (LOL!!!) and new friends, I’ve also discovered new bloggers and new blog pages.

So I thought I would just simply list, in no-particular order of preference, the pages that have given me the most fun and giggles . . . or most inspiring moments of 2014.

A Good Woman’s Dirty Mind Bobbie Morgan’s site is packed full of fun and interesting as well as educational stories, images and links.

Curvaceous Dee . . . home of the Scavenger Hunt, but many more fun and interesting posts besides.

Girl On The Net . . . irreverent, funny, opinionated, enlightening . . . and always entertaining.

Beck And Her Kinks  .  . . toy reviewer, inspiring meme contributor, and surely the busiest sex-blogger ever.

Penny For Your Dirty Thoughts . . . Always amazingly creative, and naughty, photography . . . and wonderfully informative toy reviews galore.

Rebels Notes . . . Curator of Wicked Wednesday, Kinky Submissive, Erotic Writer . . . I’m in awe of her daily posts.

Molly’s Daily Kiss . . . Creator of Sinful Sunday, Host to The Pussy Pride Project and E-Lust Memes, Erotic Photographer extraordinaire, Erotic Writer . . . and more!

Tiny Nibbles . . . Violet Blue’s blog is THE most comprehensive Sex and Erotica news-site you could ever wish for. Links and stories of sex and scandals, and rights and wrongs from all over the world.

A Sexy Woman of A Certain Age . . . I’ve only come across Erica’s wonderful blog in the latter half of this year. But her classy and stylish blog features so many inspiring posts that always seem to resonate for me.

And I could go on . . . and on . . . as there are of course, so many other inspiring and delightfully fun and entertaining blog pages I try to visit as often as I can . . . far too many to add here.

But that’s part of the fun of exploring isn’t it . . . and if you would like to recommend a blog or website that inspires and motivates you and would like to recommend it to others, please do let me know!!!

Finally . . . I would like to thank everyone who has commented on some of my posts during the year . . . or especially taken the time to email me personally with thoughts, comments and questions. I really, really do appreciate all of your messages and I hope I’ve been able to answer everyone who has contacted me.

I wish you all a Happy, Healthy, Fun
and of course . . . Sexy . . . 2015.

May all your hopes and desires be fulfilled!!!

For more thoughts and hopes and desires for the New Year, just stroke Marie’s Wicked Wednesday  button below.


Xxx – K



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Modesty’s “Sunburnt – The Movie” #realworldsex

It’s turned very cold here in London at the moment, but watching my newest #realworldsex video just released at, has been making me “hot and bothered” all over again . . . remembering, and
re-living, an amazing summer holiday on a beautiful Greek Island last August.

Sunburnt The MovieWe had a wonderful balcony room overlooking the pool and beach below . . . and it was very, very hot . . . in more ways than one!

Especially as such a relaxing, unwinding holiday seemed to make both Hubby and I feel even more amorous than usual!!!

We both got quite sunburnt . . . as you will see . . . but that didn’t stop us having some wonderful, sexy and fun times. And as each day seemed to get even hotter than the last, we just had to retire to our room each afternoon for cooling shade, cooling drinks and lots and lots of fun . . . some of which you might think a little “unusual” . . . but I hope you will still be able to enjoy along with us in “Sunburnt – The Movie”.

I just loved it . . . as I’m sure you will be able to tell!!!

Modesty Ablaze Holiday Photos

There are some screen shots and Free Peek links to “Sunburnt”, and all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex.

“Sunburnt – The Movie” is my thirteenth video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from the Modesty Ablaze page >here<.
It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my 13 #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

And don’t forget, you can ask me ANY questions you like about any of my videos, or anything about  MakeLoveNotPorn in the form below.

NB: Submissions from this form are emailed directly to my In-box and are NOT displayed publicly. (Alternatively, you can make public comments, in the normal way, from the “Comment” panel at the very foot of this post).

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Xxx – K

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