By Cave Light @ #wickedwednesday

Although I did really love the long hot sunny days on our holiday recently, it was nice to escape the mid-day sun just occasionally.

ModestyAblazeCaves1Such as on this visit to one of the islands most popular visitor attractions.

ModestyAblazeCaves2 We had been told the temperature inside the Cave would be 18 degrees. And that made the long queue at the Entrance seem well worth the wait.

ModestyAblazeCaves3And it wasn’t only the temperature that made our visit so worthwhile . . .

ModestyAblazeCaves4Because once we began our descent into the cave, the rock formations of the stalagmites and stalactites were really so impressive to view.

ModestyAblazeCaves5And they were so wonderfully silky smooth to touch as well!!!

ModestyAblaze6And that temperature . . . oh it was so cooling and refreshing. So cooling in fact that I could feel my nipples becoming erect.

ModestyAblazeCaves7So cooling in fact . . . that I ended up feeling a bit of a chill . . . and eventually had to put my dress back on . . . especially as we were getting back to the Cave entrance as well!!!

Anyway, I thought our visit deep into the dark depths of this Grecian Cave would be the perfect experience to share at this week’s Wicked Wednesday . . . which is all about Darkness and the Light Getting-In. 

And I’m sure you’ll find lots more enlightening views by tapping the button below!!!


Xxx – K

And I’m also hoping of course that our visit will qualify for the “Cave” location at Curvaceous Dee’s wonderfully fun Scavenger Hunt site . . . which I really do urge you to explore . . . and perhaps add some adventures of your own!!
Come on, it is such funLet’s all Dare to Bare !!!

You can see lots of my other Scavenger Hunt explorations at my
Scavenger Hunt Listings Page !

P.S. You can also view some of my previous Scavenger Hunts at my
Scavenger Slideshow >here<!!!

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxx – K


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Modesty’s Toy Review Round-up: HedoVibes#107 & The Carpet Beater @UberKinky

DSC_0302Photo courtesy of KinkyKittenKim

Welcome to HedoVibes, a collection of reviews and giveaways that were posted in the past week or so from around the web. This is a collection of adult product reviews & contests from real reviewers. If you want to be included in the next edition start with the guidelines, then use the submission form.

Want to read more reviews? Check out HedoVibes for a list of the latest reviews and stellar reviewers. You can also follow on twitter for the latest round ups. HedoVibes is also accepting photo submissions for each edition.









View all my Sex Toy Video Product Reviews >here<!

Xxx – K

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Grecian Steps Revisited #sinfulsunday


I’m still in post-holiday denial-mode . . . I just don’t want to accept that it’s back to work, back to the normal everyday routine. (Though, Hubby is sitting here next to me saying “You’ve NEVER been normal, everyday or routine!”)

But anyway . . . whilst sitting here on a rainy-London-Saturday-evening, scrolling through more of our holiday-snaps, this photograph reminds me of a different, lovely (very sinful) evening, just two weeks ago.

And also of walking these same Grecian Steps twelve months ago.

Take lots more Sinful steps this Sunday by clicking the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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A Fetish Wail of a Sale @UberKinky

MistressModestyTableIf you’ve joined me here before you will know how impressed I always am with the Fetish Wear and Impact and Bondage items I have ordered from my favourite fetish store, Uberkinky.

UberkinkyRestraintsAnd . . . of course . . . if you have joined me at one of my dungeon sessions over the past year, you will have no-doubt experienced some of those Impact and Bondage items at first-hand! LOL!!!

And . . . you are sure to have told me just how much you enjoyed the experience!!!

UberkinkyDildosIn my view Uberkinky –  “it’s not a fetish it’s a way of life” – offers simply the best quality, and best customer service of any of the (numerous) on-line suppliers I have dealt with over the past few years.

Their products are always well made, packaged tidily and discreetly, and delivered quickly.

AND . . . as you will have no doubt gathered from my post title . . . they are currently offering some exciting savings on their already wonderfully reasonable prices.

UberkinkyDeliveryAND . . . are also offering FREE Royal Mail 24 delivery when you order items over £20 in total.

UberkinkyVibratorsI can’t recommend Uberkinky enough and I encourage you . . . no, actually COMMAND you . . . to visit them now, quickly and without fail!!!

There is more information on some of their most popular categories from the links in this post . . . and, of course . . . if you’d like to invite me to join you in trying them out, you just simply have to ask and I will consult my dungeon-diary!!!

UberkinkyMachinesHave fun . . . Kinky fun . . . at Uberkinky.

And if you’d like to read more about my thoughts on some of the items I, along with some of my submissives, have recently “tested” . . . you can do so by clicking the images below.





Thanks and kisses to Vinylman1 for my “Mistress Modesty Ablaze Table” picture above.

Xxx – Mistress Modesty Ablaze



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A wine . . . or three at #sinfulsunday

Whenever I’m away on holiday I always look forward to sampling the local wine. So I was delighted to discover an absolutely wonderful winery just a few miles inland from our holiday apartment recently. Especially as they were offering a guided tour of their vineyards . . . AND sample tastings!!!

ModestyWine1As you can imagine . . . I was in my element, surrounded by bottles and bottles!!!

ModestyWine2The smell from the machinery was so intoxicating that I felt flushed all over!!!

ModestyWine3And by the time we got to the vats . . . I was beginning to feel a little tipsy!

ModestyWine4Which is possibly why the lady behind me, working on checking the screw top seals, declined my offer of a helping hand.

ModestyWine5But anyway, after spending quite some time sampling their most recommended wines and, as usual, being the last to leave . . . I am sure they were happy that I purchased several bottles at the end of the tour.

I was a little disappointed though that they hadn’t let me actually pick any of the grapes myself . . . so insisted that Hubby stop on the long driveway on the way out for one last look!!!

ModestyWine7 I am quite sure you will find lots of other intoxicating indulgences this Sinful Sunday from sipping on the lovely lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

P.S. I had such a lovely, indulgent afternoon, (and possibly one or two too-many glasses) that I’m not sure if my visit qualifies for “Vineyard” or “Winery” at Curvaceous Dee’s Scavenger Hunt site?
Perhaps I’ll have to go back again just to make sure!!!

You can see lots of my other Scavenger Hunt attempts at my
Scavenger Hunt Listings Page ! or view some of my previous Scavengers at my Scavenger Slideshow >here<!!!

Oh . . . and why not join in yourself? . . . Come on, it’s such fun!
Let’s all Dare to Bare !!!

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxx – K


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Modesty Ablaze reviews “The Carpet Beater” from @UberKinky

ModestyAblazeCarpetBeaterNone of us actually beat our carpets or rugs to clean them any longer do we? That’s something we do with a vacuum cleaner nowadays isn’t it? Or rather something we have done for us by a willing submissive with a vacuum cleaner!

But having recently received The House of Eros “Carpet Beater” (above and below) from my favourite Toy Shop Uberkinky . . . I would certainly recommend you still make a place for one in your closet . . . or more likely your bedroom wardrobe!!!

ModestyAblazeCarpetBeaterCompleteWhen I first came across it’s very distinctive shape on the Uberkinky website, I thought it looked like a giant pretzel . . . and so was immediately intrigued, and curious, to find out more. Especially as I am always interested in adding more “impact” toys to my armoury!!!

Although I could tell it was quite a big implement from the measurements given on the Uberkinky product page . . . it wasn’t until the Postman turned-up on my doorstep with the carefully wrapped package, that I realised just how big it actually is.

ModestyAblazeCarpetHeadThe Carpet Beater measures 29 and a half inches from the bottom of the handle to the top rim of the spanking paddle. It is 8 inches across at the widest part of the paddle, and the reed-spokes are each about 8mm wide.

The diameter of the handle is about 1 and a half inches and is reasonably easy to grip. In fact, despite it’s size it is surprisingly light to handle because it is made from willow reeds.

The willow is nicely varnished so it is smooth to the touch when you rub ones fingers over it.

And, as you can see from my photographs, the way the reeds are interwoven around each other looks quite intricate and makes for an interesting design. It feels quite firm as well . . . so when I first unwrapped it . . . and ran the palm of my hand over the paddle . . . I was imagining with delight, the pretty patterns it might leave on my submissives bottom when I gave him his first spanking.

But that first session . . . a few days after opening my parcel . . . did leave me a little disappointed because in practice I felt it was actually a bit cumbersome to use, compared with my normal spanking canes and paddles.

Not because of the weight . . . as I mentioned it is actually reasonably light to hold . . . but I think possibly because of the width and shape of the paddle it is just not quite so easy for me to wield and swing.

And the harder . . . or more forceful . . . I tried to make the impact, the less control I seemed to have. And . . . as you can imagine . . . I do like to have complete control!!!

I was also a little disappointed that it didn’t make the patterned shapes that I had hoped it would . . . probably because I wasn’t able to land the paddle in exactly the same place with each smack. But it did leave lovely red blushes!

ModestyAblazeCarpetBeaterTwistMy submissive though . . . well he loved it . . . “It has a slightly springy-stingy impact” was the way he described it . . . without the intensity or immediate pain that my usual cane apparently does. And he was also able to take lots more strokes on each cheek than he could normally stand from my normal canes. That is probably because the shape and weave of the head “spreads” the impact rather than one specific thin stroke of a canes rod . . . and the spring of the willow-weave is far less rigid than a similarly shaped, hard wooden paddle.

So, as I say, I did find the Beater less comfortable and less natural for me to use at first. But . . . because he enjoyed it so much and has actually requested it in our two sessions since . . . I am becoming more and more proficient each time I use it.

I’m also experimenting with the way I hold the handle . . . even trying a two-handed grip to give the blows more force. And I do love the swishing sound it makes as I swing it . . . and then, of course, the smacking sound it makes as it whacks against his bum cheeks.

But I do wish I could get it to leave those lovely swirly-shaped patterns on his reddening bum!!! Still . . . you know what they say . . . “Practice makes perfect” . . . and I’m intending on practicing a bit more with a different submissive next week. So watch this space for regular updates . . . and, in fact, do keep checking my Video Channel at Clips Fatale regularly over the next few weeks as The Carpet Beater may well feature in my next video there (possibly chasing my sub around the living room swatting it against his naked bottom as he vacuums the rugs! I think I’ll entitle the video . . . “The Carpet Beater” (LOL!!)

So . . . would I recommend The House of Eros Carpet Beater as a worthwhile addition to your spanking sessions? Well it’s certainly different, and as with lots of House of Eros items, is certainly lots of fun . . . so yes . . . I most certainly would!

Modesty Rating: 7 out of 10
Pros: Impressive and interesting shape and completely different from my “normal” spanking toys.
Cons: Unusually wide size makes it difficult to pack into a toy bag or carry-case when travelling to one of my dungeon visits.
Material: Willow wood reeds with gloss varnish finish.
Length: Approximately 29.5 inches.
Width (at widest part on paddle): Approximately 8 inches.
Handle/shaft Diameter: Approximately 1.5 inches.
Vibration: Only when it immediately strikes it’s target area.
Lubrication: Not required.
Noise: Subtle swish on swinging. Nice smacking sound on impact.
Available Colours: Wood Brown.
Waterproof: Should not be used in the bath or shower.
After-care: Wipe thoroughly with cleaning cloth after use.
Supplier Product Link: Uberkinky House of Eros Carpet Beater
Additional Useful Link: House of Eros
Twitter feed: @UberKinky

ModestyAblazeCarpetBeaterCoverYou can watch my Video Review of the House of Eros Carpet Beater from Uberkinky by clicking the title screen above!

The House of Eros Carpet Beater was sent to me, free-of-charge, by Uberkinky  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

Xxx – K


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Open Monogamy and Modesty Ablaze? #wickedwednesday

ModestyAblazeMonogamyToday I’m “opening-up” to this weeks prompt of “monogamy” at Wicked Wednesday . . .  the popular definition of which (from Marie’s source) is: “Monogamy is a form of relationship in which an individual has only one partner during his or her lifetime or at any one time . . .”

Opening-up because, If you’ve visited me here before, you might be surprised to hear me say that I have been in a completely . . . and wonderfully fulfilling . . . monogamous relationship for over 33 years (31 of them married).

Monogamous? . . . How??? . . . when, from almost the very beginning of those 33 years, I have indulged in “extra-marital partnerships” with lots and lots of different lovers, many of whom I still regularly meet with . . . and many of whom have become wonderful friends as well as wonderful lovers.

Now I know that many people may describe the partnership I share with my Lover No.1, as an “open relationship” and completely the opposite of a monogamous relationship. But I would disagree . . .

Because . . . for me at least . . . I would define monogamy very simply as sharing absolutely everything with one special person.

And by “absolutely everything” I mean every emotion, every desire, every touch, every sensation, every want . . . and every need . . . completely and exclusively with someone in your life that you just know you would never want to be without.

So, whilst my own relationship may not match that “only-one-partner” of the conventional definition of Monogamy. . . for me, my “only-one-partner” makes for a truly Monogamous Modesty Ablaze.

And as with everything in life, I believe that every description and every convention, should have a different and entirely individual meaning for all of us.

We should all be happy to be who we are . . . and not what the conventions of society would have us be!!!

You can read lots of other thoughts on Monogamy this Wednesday by tapping the button below!!!


Xxx – K


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Showerkini #sinfulsunday

“That’s the first time I’ve seen you in a bikini on this holiday!” Hubby joked
as I teased him in the shower during the last week of our summer hols.


And he was right of course, because we had discovered so many lovely little beaches where I . . .


. . . just loved going completely without!!!

You are bound to be showered with lots more
Sinful Sunday
 images from tapping the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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More Modesty Ablaze @mlnp soon . . . promise!!!

Yes, I know it has been a little while since my last #realworldsex video at . . . but I haven’t retired!


Quite the opposite in fact . . . I have been so, so busy having fun that I just haven’t had the time to post some of my latest adventures at my favourite on-line movie-site.

But, as I  was so sweetly reminded recently, the past two summers have been the time when I’ve introduced new videos with one of my favourite lovers, No.14.  (Of course, ALL of my lovers are favourites, but new videos with No.14 always seem to inspire a flurry of messages into my in-box!)


So . . . in the spirit of Completely Hooked from 2014 . . . and Bound and Unbound (above) from 2013, I am excited to tell you that I will have some new videos . . . with No.14 published soon!!!

So check back here over the next few weeks and I’m sure you won’t be disappointed . . . but in the meantime do visit my MakeLoveNotPorn page >here< for a complete list of the nineteen #realworldsex videos currently available from my @mlnp profile page!!!

Make Love Not Porn

Xxx – K

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Beau-tied #wickedwednesday

Viewing Marie’s High On Heels post on Sunday I commented on how
much I loved her shoes . . . and her bows . . . and that I’d tied a bow of my own earlier in the day!

Being on holiday always makes me even hornier than normal . . . and being free of the shackles of the office and his work has the same effect on Hubby as well.

So, just to make sure he is kept close-at-heel . . . and his mind doesn’t wander too much . . . I always start our holiday by tie-ing (and locking) a bow of my own!!!


You don’t think I’m being too “Wicked” do you???

I know there is bound to be lots of other Wickedness this Wednesday if you tap the button below!!!


Xxx – K


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