Modestly Black & White #sinfulsunday


Modesty Ablaze – 1988

On reading Hyacinth’s wonderfully strong words, just this Friday, on recent events surrounding something so natural, and so important as one’s personal freedom of choice, I was left wishing once again . . .

Why things can’t be simpler? Why can’t things be more straightforward . . . why can’t things be more . . . black and white!!!

Why can’t we just all let each other be who we choose to be ? . . . To live our lives how WE want to live them ? . . . AND to let others live theirs the way THEY want to live them???

Because . . . I’m sure the world would be a much nicer place for ALL of us !!!

Anyway, for hopefully more enjoyable and smiley thoughts than my own this Sunday, please tap the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

Modesty Ablaze in Polaroids Past
Be Proud of Who You Were . . . and Be Proud of Who
You Have Become!

Xxx – K


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A Modest Silver #Boobday Friday


Whilst my endeavours over the past two weekends haven’t been quite as Olympian as some . . . new milestones were reached!!!

“At least a Silver” I was told!

So, whilst I strive for Gold this weekend . . . you can keep abreast of other outstanding achievements at this week’s #Boobday Friday from below.

Because as Hy says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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Modesty Ablaze “Forbidden Pleasures Part 1” video


“Forbidden Pleasures – Part 1” is my newest #realworldsex video from a simply amazing evening Hubby and I recently shared with our favourite kinky-friend Lover No.14.

Starting, as it always does with No.14, with a little rope play, things then got very, very wet as No.14’s fingers . . . and thumbs . . . had me squirting through orgasm after orgasm. So much so that I was completely saturated . . . as were the bedsheets!!!

And with my hands tied behind my head I couldn’t resist . . . not that I wanted to . . . as I was turned over onto my tummy for even more pulsing and exhausting climaxes!

Now, if you watch my introductory video from the screen picture above, you will hear me mentioning lots of other fun bits of our “Forbidden Pleasures” too.
But . . . in the interests of complete transparency (you know me!) I have to tell you that I obviously got quite carried away (you know me!) as I was chattering through my introduction and remembering all those fun things from the evening, because . . . some of them are not actually featured until “Part 2”.
But that will just give you something else to look forward to won’t it ???

Anyway, back to that first part of our evening together, recently previewed “Forbidden Pleasures Part 1” as:

When Modesty Ablaze, hubby, and lover no. 14 get together, you know it’s just going to be a simply amazing time. Quickly melting into a puddle of pleasure (both literally and figuratively), Modesty allows lover no. 14’s skillful hands do all the “work” while she enjoys waves of #realworldpleasure. Featuring a rope-a-licious “bikini top” and some slippery toytime, nothing beats Modesty’s laughing #realworldorgasms!!

You can view my short introduction to “Forbidden Pleasures Part 1” by clicking the preview screen at the top of this post . . . . . . and, as I mention in that video, if you register (it’s FREE) and watch the intro video directly from my MakeLoveNotPorn profile page there are some short Free Peek clips from the actual video itself at the end of my introduction.


There lots more screen shots and Free Peek links to all of my #realworldsex videos, at my Make Love Not Porn page >here<. And much more on just why I love the whole concept of MLNP . . . and all of the other Real World People enjoying their own Real World Sex . . . from my “Why I Love Make Love Not Porn” introductory video (from March 2014) >here<.

“Forbidden Pleasures Part 1” is my 29th video released on Make Love Not Porn and you can rent it from my Modesty Ablaze Profile page at MakeLoveNotPorn >here<.

It’s completely FREE to register at MLNP and I’m sure you will enjoy not just my twenty-nine #realworldsex videos, but lots of other fun and amazing contributions from the growing MLNP community as well!!!

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I really do hope you get as much fun . . . and arousal . . . from viewing “Forbidden Pleasures Part 1” as I . . . obviously . . . had making it!!!

Xxx – K

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A Modest Cause-way #sinfulsunday


“Do we really have to walk all the way over to the other side?” I asked Hubby as we stepped onto the causeway.


“I’m quite happy just catching some sun here. And look even that gentleman behind me has stopped and is turning around.”


“Well, the guide-book says there’s a nice taverna on the other side of the harbour” Hubby replied. “And, see, there are other people walking on over there” he said as another man passed us by.


“But it feels hotter here out on the water, than back on shore where we started!”
I complained as we reached the half-way point. “Why don’t you ask this couple coming along if it’s worth the long walk?” I pleaded as I rested against the wall.


“Well, they’d better be right about it being a nice place, but can I rest here for just a few minutes longer . . ?


. . . because I can at least feel a nice little breeze here at the moment!”


“Oh alright then . . . I must admit the guide-book is right, it is a nice taverna . . . but I’ll need a few more glasses of wine before we have to start the walk back!!!”

And I imagine there will lots more cause-for-pausing at this week’s
Sinful Sunday from sipping from the lips below!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K

P.S. Whilst sipping my wine I wondered aloud (only to Hubby obviously!!!) if there was a “Causeway” category at Jades Scavenger Hunt pages . . . but, of course, being way out on the other side of the harbour we had no wi-fi to check!!!
But, if not there are some other Scavenger Hunt postings at my Listings page and over 90 different locations on my Scavenger Slideshow page!!!   

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxxx – K


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Modestly Submerged #Boobday Friday


Yes I did fall off my Lilo last week . . . quite often actually!!!

But it did make for lots of underwater fun . . . most of which I couldn’t possibly show you here . . . well at least not in a #Boobday Friday post . . . I mean it just wouldn’t be right would it?

Because as Hy says . . .

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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Modest Sporting Achievements #wickedwednesday

I’ve always enjoyed sports of one sort or another over the past few years.
You know, activities like my Tennis, Cycling, Golfing, Walking, Sailing, Skateboarding . . . and following the Football !!!

But my very favourite sporting activity is, of course, Scavenger Hunting.
I find it’s wonderful for some outdoor exercise and it’s almost always quite exciting, fulfilling . . . and most importantly for me . . . a lot of fun !!!

Such as my recent visit to the Viaduct !!!


I’d like to say that it was quite a peaceful spot . . . but it was obviously very popular with dog-walkers . . .


And there was a regular rumble from the Trains passing by on the
railway tracks overhead.


I could feel the strong vibrations every time one went by . . . and you know how much I LOVE vibrations!!!


And yet . . . despite the occasional dog running around the pillars
beside me . . . and a worried owner calling out for them to come back to the pathway . . . it still felt a very calm and peaceful place.


So much so . . . that I was feeling very relaxed and quite enjoying myself.


And even when I had to put my coat back on to cross the bridge over the canal


. . . I still felt just as peaceful and relaxed on the other side!!!

There’s sure to be lots more Sporting Achievements to be enjoyed at this week’s #wickedwednesday from tapping the medal below!


Xxx – K

And I enjoyed myself so much at the Viaduct that I’d like to nominate it as a brand-new event category at Jades Scavenger Hunt list!
Lots more of my Scavenger Hunt achievements can be viewed at my Listings page and there are now 90 different locations on
my Scavenger Slideshow page!!!   

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxxx – K


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Grecian Stairs Three #sinfulsunday


In what has become my annual summer odyssey, there is one special set of steps
I just always have to climb.

And halfway-up I like to pause and gaze back down to the beach below . . .
just as I did from the same spot last summer . . . and the summer before . . . to catch my breath, take in the lovely view, and feel the cooling evening breeze!!!

There’s bound to be lots more breath-taking views to take in this Sinful Sunday by blowing cooling kisses at the lips below!!!

Sinful Sunday

Xxx – K


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The Boobday Lounge #Boobday Friday


I certainly haven’t had much time for “lounging” since returning from my holiday . . . so this photograph is just a pleasant memory now. But it was a relaxing #Boobday in every sense. And isn’t feeling the warmth of the sun on one’s nipples such a lovely and relaxing feeling?

As you can probably tell, it was taken before my Sand and Stones #Boobday Friday post of two weeks ago!!!

And whilst I realise that this perspective is from bit far away, I’m sure that if you lap at Hyacinth’s  #Boobday Friday cleavage below, there will be some much closer nipples on display . . . because as Hy says:

Boobday is a weekly meme for us to honor breasts of all shapes and sizes belonging to all types of folks.

All of us who are the owners of breasts know their magical powers, but not everyone gets to hear it. I hope this will become a place of support and praise.

I totally, totally agree . . . and I’m sure you will LOVE seeing different boobs this, and every, Friday from clicking Hyacinth’s lovely cleavage below!


Xxx – K


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Water Wheel #wickedwednesday

“God it’s hot . . . let’s stop for a cool drink!” I exclaimed to Hubby as we drove slowly along the winding coast road. “Look, that look’s like a bar ahead . . .  before the next bend. By the sea wall, where that big coach is pulling out”.


“No, it looks more like a tourist stop to me” Hubby said after we’d pulled into the car park and wandered around to look at the view, “that’s why that coach was pulling out as we arrived.”


“It says here,” Hubby excitedly explained, having found it listed in his ‘Places of local interest’ pocket-book, “that it was built in the 1830’s to use the sea water to grind wheat and barley and make beer.”


“Well, I could certainly do with a cool beer right now!” I replied. “Come on, let’s go inside and order!”

“Apparently” he rambled-on, “the water comes in through swallow-holes and disappears down into underground caves and eventually flows out into a lake all the way over on the other side of the island.”


“Well I want to do some swallowing of my own right now.” I interrupted him in mid-sentence. “And NO, I don’t mean THAT sort of swallowing! It’s far too hot for that . . . I mean swallowing a cold beer!!!”

“And anyway, look , there’s another coach pulling into the car park now.”


“Quickly, put that book away. Let’s go inside before we lose our place at the bar!”

And as Alcohol is this week’s subject at #wickedwednesday I’m sure you’ll find lots more people at the bar by pushing the button below!


Xxx – K

Hubby kept prattling on about the wonders of this wheel though,
so I’m hoping that Jade, may add it to her
Scavenger Hunt list as a “Water Wheel category!
And you can discover lots more of my Scavenger-moments at my Listings page or on my Scavenger Slideshow page!!!   

Scavenger Hunt Platinum Award

Xxxx – K


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Modesty Ablaze reviews the “Tickling Rabbit Cock Ring” at


I must confess that I have never been a great fan of Clittoral-ticklers or cock rings with “extensions” or bumps and buttons designed to tickle-ones-fancy. In fact I’ve never even found that any of those Rabbit vibrators really do it for me either.

So when I received the “Tickling Rabbit Cock Ring” in a parcel from the lovely ladies at Pink B.O.B earlier this year, I was much more interested in the other items in the parcel . . . their Breathable Ball Gag and MasterKink Bondage Rope. So much more interested in fact, that I reviewed them >here< on my Sex Toys Review pages in May.

I didn’t completely forget about the Cock Ring of course . . . after all I’m always interested in having some fun by strapping different things onto my partners from time to time. So it has featured in several play sessions since it was first unpacked, but very recently, I came to suddenly change my opinion from considering it a fun-novelty accessory to a “wow that was nice” plaything.

But before I explain . . . let me tell you about it’s physical attributes and appearance . . . because you do need to know these things don’t you!

ModestyAblazePOB2The ring arrives quite attractively packaged actually, in a three-section clear-plastic, dome. It is obviously designed to easily hang from those display hook thingys at your favourite sex-toy emporium. And cradled on it’s own little plinth within the dome, the ring itself almost looks like a translucent pink-shrimp with it’s bunny-ears curling up over the silver bullet towards you.

The top of the dome hinges open so that the ring can be lifted out and allow access to the three Batteries that are, nicely, included to power the vibrating bullet. The first thing that strikes you as you lift the ring is the light and pliable plastic material that it is made of. TPE plastic to be exact. TPE stands for “thermoplastic elastomer” which is apparently a physical mix of plastic and rubber. And I can certainly tell you it is very light and very stretchy and springy where it needs to be (the ring part silly) and yet surprisingly firm (soft-firm if you know what I mean) for the “body” of the rabbit-ears themselves.

ModestyAblazePOB3The vibrating bullet is 2.25” long and about 17mm in diameter. It unscrews quite easily to allow the three batteries to be plopped inside. Yes THREE batteries and despite being quite light they really do deliver quite a strong buzzing sensation when one pushes the small button at one end of the bullet to turn the vibrations on. There are seven different vibrating functions, each of them quite intense actually, which are activated by a further push on the button. You just push once to advance to the next vibing pattern, some faster, some a little stronger, some pulsing quickly, some pulsing a little more slowly. To turn-off the buzzing altogether you just have to hold the button down for several seconds.

As I say the vibrations are quite powerful for such a small bullet and the vibrations certainly do transfer and carry through the body of the mini-rabbit to the ears themselves, and even to the more flexible-stretchy ring part. This ring looks a little bit like a life-buoy ring and on the inside (the part that makes contact with the skin of the wearer) it has 10 little ridges, designed I’m sure for extra stimulation!


The outer diameter of the ring is 45mm with the inner “core” being about 25mm in diameter. But it does stretch of course to over double that “capacity” . . . so can fit quite snugly over probably even the most well-endowed of your partners. The thickness of this circular (holding?) part of the ring is 11mm so it gives quite nice firm support as well as, according to my willing-helper, a strong “grip”.

Now as I mentioned, I’m never been a great fan for “tickling” accessories during sex . . . so the first experiences of play-time with the Pink B.O.B. Tickling Rabbit Cock Ring was some masturbation play with my afore-mentioned “helper”. I’d wanted him to tell me how the vibrations felt for him . . . on his cock. So I experimented (of course) with me sliding it up and down his willing erection, stretching it open and letting it slap-back against his man-shaft and turning it round . . . upside down if you like . . . so that the bunny-ears tickled against his balls.

His reaction was that the sensation was quite pleasurable without being “earth-shattering” . . . that was until I pushed the bullet harder against that sensitive part of his flesh where cock meets balls . . . and he actually climaxed very quickly. With large gasps from him . . . and delightful giggles from me! So for him, it turns-out that instead of making him last longer, it can actually have quite the opposite effect when worn that way-round and pushed against “that spot”.

And that’s largely how our, occasional, usage of the Tickling Rabbit Cock Ring remained . . . in fact we even featured a cameo appearance of exactly that sort of play on my “Me Time Collection” MLNP video several months ago.

But “playtime” is a funny thing sometimes isn’t it . . . because just last weekend Hubby lifted the ring out of our Toy Drawer and slipped it on (the right-way round) for “some loving cuddles” . . . and almost by accident we finally discovered the perfect position for those little ears to really, really work for me!!!

No, I’m not going to tell you how . . . you’ll just have to guess . . . but the reason I’m telling you about it now, and the reason I was suddenly reminded that I just had to review the Tickling Rabbit Cock Ring, is just to illustrate, once again, the point that sometimes “fun” just happens. Spontaneous, unplanned, when one is not trying too hard . . . and perhaps with a little help from some “fun play toys”.

And this is just one of lots, and lots, of “fun play toys” available from Pink B.O.B. (“We Make Toys. Toys That Buzz”) and . . . especially if you are in the USA . . . I recommend you take a peek from >here< because you just never know how much fun could be just a click away!!!:

The Tickling Rabbit Cock Ring:
Modesty Rating:
 7 out of 10
Pros: Springy, stretchy, soft but firm plasticky feel. Powerful vibrations for such a small bullet.
Cons: Vibration patterns only scroll one-way, so one has to scroll forwards through them all again to find ones favourite.
Material: TPE Plastic.
Measurements: Bullet Length 2.25 inches; Bullet diameter 17mm. Ring and Ears Body 3.5 inches long; 2.25 inches high from base to tips of the Ears. Outer ring diameter 45mm, inner “core” 25mm but stretches to much wider. The two vibrating ears extend 15mm high from bunny “head” .
Noise: Moderate!!!
Colour: Pink (of course!)
Batteries: Three AG13 (included)
Waterproof: Yes apparently, though I haven’t (yet) tried.
After-care: Obviously always wash with hot soapy water after, and before, use. (I use anti-bacterial wipes as well!).
Supplier Product Link: Pink B.O.B. Tickling Rabbit Cock Ring
The Modesty Video Review: To possibly follow if you are interested!

Additional links: Pink B.O.B. at Twitter ; Pink B.O.B at Instagram . . . and I also do recommend you browse the lovely Pink B.O.B. blog pages for Helpful Hints, Tips and Tricks, and How-To-Guides!!!


The Tickling Rabbit Cock Ring was sent to me, free-of-charge,  for an honest and un-biased review.

The Modesty Rider:
I realise, of course, that there are already thousands of long-established Sex Toy Reviewers and Review sites . . . most of whom will be far more adept at explaining all the technical details and specifications of things. But for me, sexy clothes and lingerie, sexy toys . . . and even sexy books . . . are all about adding a little fun and excitement to things. So that is how I tend to approach my reviews and videos!!! Just to explain “how it was for me” in a fun, and light-hearted, way without taking things too seriously! Chances are that if something makes me giggle and tingle and feel good, it will score higher on my Modesty Rating.

Visit some of my most recent Sex Product and Video Reviews at my Sex Toy Review page >here< or special buy links for specific products >here<.

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