I’d like to take this moment to wish you all a happy, healthy, and fun New Year’s … let’s hope that 2025 will be a huge improvement and bring better times FOR EVERYONE across the world, than has been the case during the last 12 months.
I also thought it was time to continue with my homage to the wonderful “Corrupting Mrs Jones” blog page of “Thirty Dirty Questions” which can be found from her blog header bar >here<.
I began my own version earlier this month with my answers from 1 to 5 … though I preferred to re-title my own version as Fifty “Sexy” Questions rather than the “Dirty” connotation. Just because I’ve always wanted to push the view that sex is not “dirty”, I’d rather think of sex as just … “sexy”.
As I said then, I’m not sure how far along I’ll get in keeping-up with my answers … but I thought it might be fun … and would certainly re-kindle some lovely memories.
So … here are my answers to Questions 6 to 10:
Question 6: What are your thoughts on foreplay? Favourite types, Best Experiences, Wishes?
On a personal / emotional level … if I have become sufficiently interested in a potential partner to develop the relationship “further” … then foreplay is always hugely important, and an essential part of every meeting. Even with SubbyHubby!!!
And for me that could just start as cuddling and kissing … leading to teasing and tantalising … leading to fondling and stroking. And then usually to oral and physical stimulation which always heightens the arousal and desire for “more”.
Having said all that, I must admit that in our early swinging-club days there were certainly many occasions when just the general “atmosphere”, or perhaps what had gone on earlier in the evening, had left me aroused and excited enough to forgo the necessity for any foreplay at all!!!
Question 7: What parts of your lover’s body are you most drawn to? If you don’t currently have a lover, consider past or future lovers.
I’m not ashamed to say that I love cocks. I love observing all the different shapes and sizes and skin textures and colouring. And it doesn’t have to be just that of a lover … just seeing a naked man, any naked man, it is always the first thing my eyes are drawn to. Even when we may be on one of our naturist beaches, or club events. Even if I have absolutely no desire to engage with them physically, or emotionally, in any way what-so-ever … I just can’t help but look. I simply love to watch the way it may move, or jiggle, as they walk or move about.
And, of course, when it is in a more physical, personal and sexual encounter … then I love to watch, and feel, the way it grows as it becomes aroused.
So … as you can tell, I have absolutely no shame in admitting my enjoyment of, and interest in, the male penis!!
Question 8: Consider a moment in your life of great sensuality, eroticism or sexuality. Then answer the questions that Mary Oliver does in her poem “Gratitude” as they apply to that moment? For those unfamiliar with the poem, her questioning points are those in italics below)
If I had to think of one specific moment in my experiences … and as I was just mentioning our swinging-club days in Question 7 above … it would possibly be remembering my first “unexpectedly explosive” evening at the Club. Because it was so unexpected … and certainly sensual, erotic AND most definitely sexual!!!
So … What did you notice?
Everything about the environment, the people, and the situation as we first began to explore and wandered into the “main open play” area to witness a mass of bodies on a huge padded mattress in the centre of that room.
What did you hear?
The sound of sex … and enjoyment … and release … of people enjoying their bodies, and each other.
What did you admire?
Everything about what was happening in front of us.
What astonished you?
How amazingly aroused I instantly was.
What would you like to see again?
I saw those situations … and joined-in with them … on many occasions in the months that followed.
What was most tender?
I’m not sure it could be described as “tender” in a physical sense … but it was certainly tender and special for me in every other way.
What was most wonderful?
The obvious passion and enjoyment and sexual release of every person involved.
What did you think was happening?
Oh … it was quite obvious what was happening for all those involved at that moment. For myself, I was just amazed at how instantly aroused and overwhelmed with sexual desire I was.
Question 9: If you were to recreate the early days of your favourite sexy relationship, what would they look like? Would you change anything?
As I say, that moment was recreated … and indulged in … on many occasions over the next few months. And I certainly wouldn’t want to change anything about that occasion and the many empowering moments it gave to me from that moment on.
Question 10: What would you want more of in your sex life?
I have been incredibly, amazingly, lucky to have enjoyed some wonderfully exciting and empowering experiences over the last two decades or more. And have met some wonderful, and life-long, friends in the process. But as we change and “mature” over the years … (and I mean “mature” in a more physical sense as our bodies change and age, because I hope I never “mature” emotionally or personally!!!) … then much of those particular moments may now be in the past. BUT I know I could certainly never ask for anything more in my sexual life. And I certainly will never regret any of those wonderful experiences.
So … if you’ve read this far … perhaps you would like me to continue? Let me know your own thoughts … and opinions. Because, I do truly believe that “great or awesome” anything comes from great or awesome communication.
Xxx – K
P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t dampen your enjoyment here.
Xxx – K
